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Thank you all for your answers, I do value them a lot even if some was a bit aggressive but reckon that was for a good reason.

Yes, I did [miss] use the word “housebroken” as a metaphor and that was obviously wrong.

But I think I did get my answers, and it seem that I, once more, was wrong, but I don’t mind, it’s quite OK. I think that be biggest problem is that I am unable to understand other book’s then The Bible, and most likely I need to buy a English Bible, makes it easier to use on this forum. But as I did say, thank you for your answers and I am sorry if I have offended someone. God bless you all.
 
Dear OP, maybe you could question yourself as to why you want to talk about it to people you know or aquaintances you know. Sex is usually a private and personal matter ( or it should be, that is why people who take videos of themselves having sex and then put it on facebook get into trouble). It’s also sort of like faith, faith is a personal matter - no one can judge you as to where you’re at. We can try to spread the faith and the church can of course, state the ‘rules’ but it’s everyone’s battle to decide for themselves. Sex is like that also - being a naturally personal and private affair. If you have real questions re. sex then maybe seek a sexual therapist or read more about the faith to help you decide any questions you may have.
 
I do not want to talk about sex. All I wanted to see if other people have the same notion that The RCC do not think sex is PC, and I did get all the answer I wanted. Now I will think about them for a while and see what my brains will make out of it.

Look, this is really no big deal, I ask stupid questions, I know. And I know I should not ask anything at all. So I just do what I use to do the next time I want to find some reason, I read my Bible, it is all there.

When my kids where young and they wanted to know something they did ask, and I did answer as best as I could, but I never did ask THEM why they want to know what they did want to know, I just gave them a answer, if I had one, if not, well “ask your mother.” Life is too complicated, one question, answer “yes” or “no”. That is what I seek for. Well, I will not ask anything anymore, I’ll just hang around, OK?
 
Thank you, I will. We have this small problem in Finland, we use the Lutherian Bible, we are only about 12.000 Catholics so there is no sense to translate a Catholic Bible to Finnish, the priests use a “real” Bible though but there are small variations between a Lutherian (Protestant) Bible in English and in a Catholic Bible in English. Not much, but I have noticed that one word can change the whole sentence so I try to not translate a Finnish Bible for answers/questions on this forum.
 
I hope you read this.
Here is what happened to me. There is so much to tell you. First of all if you can contact
S-Anon.org, it took me a year to find them. Please just get in contact with someone there and tell your story. Your eyes will be opened. The reason I know it is what it is because I lived it and nobody can tell you what you need to know unless they have gone through it.
If you are skeptical it is an international program that leads many people to the catholic faith. But if offers hope and superior needed help for those who have been hurt by another s sexual behavior. It is the reaction that your wife had to your simple inquiry to the text. What she did is called redirection or deflection, and she acted like a child who just got caught stealing. That kind of behavior shows an explicit type of behavior that can be found in a person who is emotionally immature, definitely perfectly educated but acting like a 10 year old emotionally.
You will find the answers you are looking for. I am catholic and am in the Deaconate program and boy do I have a whopper of a story to tell to you. You can email me at detroitsanon@gmail.com or anyone else who thinks they need help. I know I have been vague but the brain plays tricks on you in the state you may be in. I know you will research what I said and will get back to me only on your terms. This is only a suggestion
 
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