Wife walked out

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Not sure what to do. My wife told me that she has a man that is a better “lover” than me. We had some problems, sure, nothing more than anyone else. I have no one with whom to talk. Especially at this hour. My first thought was, well, anyway, I am here. Not sure what else to do. Please pray for me. Thanks.
 
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Pray The Holy Rosary and ask Jesus and Mother Mary for His Divine Love, Wisdom, Guidance and Healing “now and for Eternity” Trevor. I suggest not saying anything at all negative to your Wife and I mean ‘nothing’. Silence is golden at this point. Most of the women I know who are ‘thinking’ about getting out, generally do not inform their partners afterwards. This may have been said as a falsehood so that you would agree more easily to a separation (in her mind) and to see your reaction (as dreadfully painful as it is).

Most women I am friends with, however. have wanted their long term marriages, particularly when they have Children with their Husbands, despite being treated with disrespect or not having all they have done acknowledged/thanked.

In the meantime to bring God’s Images and His presence “shown” more into your home when your Wife visits or is still present, I would visit your local Catholic or Christian Bookshop purchasing Jesus Crucifix, The Green and Brown Scapulas (place under your mattress), His Holy Cards placed in all obvious noticeable places along with Our Lady Mary’s Holy Rosary Cards (these should be at your Catholic Church) to remind your Wife of her Catholic Vows, to remind your Wife that God triumphs over all evil, and that He is watching her moves!

Believe me, I know what I am talking about here; many women go through pre-menopause and menopause and reach a point whereby after Children are raised and worn out, there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel! They need love shown, hugs, kisses, thanks, as do Husbands and Fathers, acknowledgement and pats on the back to each other for all the wonderful things we have done, through God and much more!

I would be gently although silently reminding your Wife of her Marriage Vows through Signs from God. Ask Him to show you Trevor through The Holy Rosary twice daily.

Kindest wishes to you and Family
 
“St. Jude, during your life you encouraged early Christian followers to remain loyal and true to their faith, even during the harshest circumstances. Like these followers, Trevor and his spouse now find themselves in need of renewed faith. Time and the pressures of the world have weakened their relationship. Please intercede for them and show them the way to heal their marriage. Open their hearts and minds to rededicate a new relationship guided by the love and commitment they once knew. Help them put aside any negative remnants of past deeds done and embark on a new union, in accordance with our Lord’s principles.”
 
I’m sorry this is happening to you. Remembering you and your wife in my daily prayers. God bless.
 
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Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
 
REMEMBER, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thy intercession was left unaided. Inspired with this confidence, I fly to thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother; to thee do I come; before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me. Amen.
 
trevor1055 said:
Not sure what to do. My wife told me that she has a man that is a better “lover” than me. We had some problems, sure, nothing more than anyone else. I have no one with whom to talk. Especially at this hour. My first thought was, well, anyway, I am here. Not sure what else to do. Please pray for me. Thanks.
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Seek the advice of a priest! I am sure this is very painful for you, but with the Lord we can cope with all things, and you can receive great guidance.

It is possible her attitude can change and you can both seek help.

Prayers for you!
 
trevor1055 said:
Not sure what to do. My wife told me that she has a man that is a better “lover” than me. We had some problems, sure, nothing more than anyone else. I have no one with whom to talk. Especially at this hour. My first thought was, well, anyway, I am here. Not sure what else to do. Please pray for me. Thanks.
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I offered a Hail Mary for you
 
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Seek the advice of a priest! I am sure this is very painful for you, but with the Lord we can cope with all things, and you can receive great guidance.

It is possible her attitude can change and you can both seek help.

Prayers for you!
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Not to mention - see a lawyer. Protect yourself financially, otherwise your “wife” will likely take you to the cleaners (since she obviously is lacking in the morals department).

Yes - I’m praying too. I do hope your marriage can endure.

Peace,
John
 
I am so sorry you are going through this Trevor.You are in my prayers
God bless

Dear Lord please help Trevor and console him and guide him to know the best way to deal with all this emotional distress.Lord please help this situation for husband and wife and guide them both Amen

Eternal God , in whom mercy is endless,
and the treasury of compassion inexhastible ,
look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us ,
that in difficult moments we might not despair
nor become despondent , but with great confidence ,
submit ourselves to Your Holy Will ,
which is love and mercy itself . Amen

Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
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