Will "Altar Girls" lead to Women Priests?

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I feel sorry for this woman (self proclaimed deaconess) if she actually believes her own fantasy story…time to get the hip waiters out, cause it is getting deep

What is the name of this parish?
Hi Mary Gail,

This deaconess was single. And I remember her saying that if she was going to get married she would have done it before becoming a deaconess, but now that she’s a deaconess, she can’t get married anymore because she would have had to do it before being a deaconess.
 
Will somebody please tell me how altar girls stop boys from becoming priests!

In the university I attend, we do not have altar servers. We have have a Mass every Thursday which is organised by liturgy groups. The liturgy groups also fulfill some of the duties carried out by altar servers. None of us desire to be priests. We are all going to be teachers (it’s a teacher training college).

Religious Studies students, of which I am one, are very much encouraged to become involved with liturgy groups as in Catholic schools, it’s the RE teachers responsibility to organise the school Mass. Therefore, they need to know how to do it. we also teach children about the Mass; the liturgical seasons, why the priests wears the garments he does, what all the gestures he makes during the Mass mean, such as during consecration of the gifts, why we use bread and wine, the significance of the altar, the names of items used for the gifts, what the tabernacle is, what happens during consecration,

phew! need I go on?

Who is going to tell me, that if you are going to teach all this to children, you can read it in a book and there is no need to be actively involved in the Mass? Who is going to disagree with me when I say, the Mass means more to you when you are involved at this level? Given that all the men who attend the college are going to become teachers, who is going to tell me that woman are stopping men from becoming priests by participating in these liturgy groups? Who is going to tell me that women who have a vocation as religious educators, would not benefit from being altar servers and it is unbeneficial to the process of catechesis?
Any Pre-Vatican II nun who served as the principle at just about any Catholic school before the 60’s. Everyone of them took care of all of the things you mention. They didn’t desire “power” or “equality” or any of the other wants of today’s “Churchy women”. They didn’t complain, they did it from a love of God.

BTW. If this is the only way that you believe that you can be “actively involved” in the Mass…well, I’ll pray for you.
 
What is the name of this parish?
FYI - We can doubt the stories we hear here all we want, but naming parishes is not allowed, at leasy in the public forum. Canon Law is quite clear on this issue, anyway. Something is fishy with this story. It makes no more sense than if someone said they had a Methodist diocesan bishop or a mackeral for a priest. There is no office of deaconess in the Catholic Church. Women can not, as a matter of the faith, be ordained.
 
Men need to be the leaders of their families, and leading the family to Christ is one of our jobs. I think men have a harder time in faith because at work we frequently rely on our own skills for success, and it’s hard to be humble and realize that we need a relationship with our creator.
Actually, you bring up one point that I think speaks for having no girl altar servers. You speak rightly about the role of men. However, how many today do not have the benefit of a father who is spiritual head? The Church has to not only consider how things should be, but how they are. The Church does respond pastoral to the culture. Perhaps today, the most pastoral role would be to allow all male altar servers to make it easier for those boys who lack a strong male role model.
 
I understand, I was just hoping to find out which parish this is, because I would like to call over there and speak to the Deacon…thats all.
FYI - We can doubt the stories we hear here all we want, but naming parishes is not allowed, at leasy in the public forum. Canon Law is quite clear on this issue, anyway. Something is fishy with this story. It makes no more sense than if someone said they had a Methodist diocesan bishop or a mackeral for a priest. There is no office of deaconess in the Catholic Church. Women can not, as a matter of the faith, be ordained.
 
Hi Mary Gail,

This deaconess was single. And I remember her saying that if she was going to get married she would have done it before becoming a deaconess, but now that she’s a deaconess, she can’t get married anymore because she would have had to do it before being a deaconess.
This poor lady was living in a fantasy world.
 
Actually, you bring up one point that I think speaks for having no girl altar servers. You speak rightly about the role of men. However, how many today do not have the benefit of a father who is spiritual head? The Church has to not only consider how things should be, but how they are. The Church does respond pastoral to the culture. Perhaps today, the most pastoral role would be to allow all male altar servers to make it easier for those boys who lack a strong male role model.
You make a good point. The only problem I see is that someone needs to be with Father every time he’s with those boys and I don’t see too many fathers stepping up to the plate to help. Moms are forced to step in and take up the slack. That’s the reality in these times.
 
Will somebody please tell me how altar girls stop boys from becoming priests!
I’m convinced it is. But it would take a lot of quotes from a book by author Leon J. Podles (The Church Impotent ‚ The Feminization of Christianity to convince you.
 
I’m convinced it is. But it would take a lot of quotes from a book by author Leon J. Podles (The Church Impotent ‚ The Feminization of Christianity to convince you.
I’m a student. I can do lots of quotes. However, one quote would do for starters. Another poster said they see this with their own eyes in their parish. I’m sure they could describe what they see.

As a student I would say it’s unlikely one person’s point of view would convince me anything. My lecturers would be appalled if I handed in an essay with one book in my bibliography and no objective examination of counter arguements.
 
I’m convinced it is. But it would take a lot of quotes from a book by author Leon J. Podles (The Church Impotent ‚ The Feminization of Christianity to convince you.
You are basing your conclusion on a single author’s point of view? All of us have read Lenin’s Communist Manifesto, but that doesn’t mean that we take it seriously. 🤷
 
As long as Rome says it’s OK, and the bishop says it’s OK, and the priest says it’s OK, I see nothing wrong with allowing one’s daughter to be an altar server. One “NO” in that line-up and then it’s a different story.
Well said. If people would spend a fraction of their energy reforming the world and perfecting themselves as they do in fretting if the gates of hell will prevail against the Church, what a paradise we would live in.
 
Any Pre-Vatican II nun who served as the principle at just about any Catholic school before the 60’s. Everyone of them took care of all of the things you mention. They didn’t desire “power” or “equality” or any of the other wants of today’s “Churchy women”. They didn’t complain, they did it from a love of God.
You cannot say any pre-Vatican II nuns as I know pre-Vatican II nuns personally, who served as principles and some who still do, that would disagree with you. Stateing all pre-Vatican II nuns were of the same mind is quite an assumption.

Are you suggesting women who take care of these things in schools today do so because they desire ‘power?’ That’s quite an assumption as well.

Are you suggesting those who carry out these duties in schools today are complaining about it, and don’t do it out of love? The assumptions get better. How many female religious educators do you know on which to base your opinion? Two? Three perhaps?

I wouldn’t call a young girl wanting to be an altar server a 'want of a ‘churchy’ woman. If you do, that’s your perogative.
BTW. If this is the only way that you believe that you can be “actively involved” in the Mass…well, I’ll pray for you.
Nothing in my post suggested I believe this is the only way to be actively involved. I was discussing a particular way in my post. However, those with a vivid imagination can jump to whatever conclusions they choose in relation to what I believe if that’s what they choose to do.

I wouldn’t recommend you pray for me on the basis of what you think I believe. Of course if you want to pray for me for a genuine reason, feel free.
 
I understand, I was just hoping to find out which parish this is, because I would like to call over there and speak to the Deacon…thats all.
I find it funny that you jump on someone who recalls a female deacon in a Church she attended enough to want “find out” where. For what purpose? To prove the person that said wrong, so you can be right? or To find out, yes, indeed there is a female deacon, so you can put your Vatican Police badge on? Who are you? A mere mortal like everyone else…not better, not worse, and certainly not perfect.
 
You cannot say any pre-Vatican II nuns as I know pre-Vatican II nuns personally who served as principles, and some who still do who would disagree with you. Stateing all pre-Vatican II nuns were of the same mind is quite an assumption.

Are you suggesting women who take care of these things today do so because they desire ‘power?’ That’s quite an assumption as well.

Nothing in my post suggested I believe this is the only way to be actively involved. I was discussing a particular way in my post. However, those with a vivid imagination can jump to whatever conclusions they choose in relation to what I believe if that’s what they choose to do.

I wouldn’t recommend you pray for me on the basis of what you think I believe. Of course if you want to pray for me for a genuine reason, feel free.
actually, on threads like this, the crystal ball comes out and some can actually mind meld with you and read your thoughts.

The nuns did it because it was their job and no one questioned their authority. I remember some real sour nuns who would crack you with a ruler. My mother said, “go ahead and try, and I’ll see you in court.”
 
Any Pre-Vatican II nun who served as the principle at just about any Catholic school before the 60’s. Everyone of them took care of all of the things you mention. They didn’t desire “power” or “equality” or any of the other wants of today’s “Churchy women”. They didn’t complain, they did it from a love of God.

BTW. If this is the only way that you believe that you can be “actively involved” in the Mass…well, I’ll pray for you.
I’ll make sure that all of the women in my parish realize that being a “Churchy Woman” is a negative thing and that they shouldn’t volunteer any more of their time. Maybe we can have a special corner in which to sit so we only speak to other women and the men are not disturbed. Wait a minute, I think maybe the crying room would be a perfect place for all of we females then there would be total silence and we would not be seen or heard.:cool:
 
I’ll make sure that all of the women in my parish realize that being a “Churchy Woman” is a negative thing and that they shouldn’t volunteer any more of their time. Maybe we can have a special corner in which to sit so we only speak to other women and the men are not disturbed. Wait a minute, I think maybe the crying room would be a perfect place for all of we females then there would be total silence and we would not be seen or heard.:cool:
The problem with sitting in the crying room, is you can’t hear a word of the Mass. But then if your a woman, perhaps you don’t need to. :rolleyes:
 
The problem with sitting in the crying room, is you can’t hear a word of the Mass. But then if your a woman, perhaps you don’t need to. :rolleyes:
We have a speaker in our crying room, so if we kick all of the babies out, we could hear, LOL!:eek:
 
I’ll make sure that all of the women in my parish realize that being a “Churchy Woman” is a negative thing and that they shouldn’t volunteer any more of their time. Maybe we can have a special corner in which to sit so we only speak to other women and the men are not disturbed. Wait a minute, I think maybe the crying room would be a perfect place for all of we females then there would be total silence and we would not be seen or heard.:cool:
Sounds like a plan. Since we have scared all the “men” away…maybe they will step up to the plate and volunteer their time.

At my Baptist grandmother’s Church…they were never in short supply of male volunteers and there were many Sunday School teachers who were male from K on up to adult classes. Some were husband and wife teams and also taught on Wednesday and Sunday evenings.

I taught CCD for close to 8 yrs., and I have never seen a dad on Wednesday evenings, ever. I also worked at the Catholic School, and never saw a dad volunteer for anything. All the fund raisers, all the uniform swaps, all the donation drives were run by women volunteers, and let’s not forget the classroom volunteers for field trips, etc were all women.

It seems the Baptist men weren’t scared away…why is that? There are also the same number of women volunteers…so it couldn’t be because their husband said they couldn’t.🤷
 
actually, on threads like this, the crystal ball comes out and some can actually mind meld with you and read your thoughts.
Ah! That explains it! As crystal balls are notoriously inaccurate!

And there’s me thinking the opinions here were based on Chruch scholarship and psychological studies recognised by the scientific world. :rolleyes:
 
Well said. If people would spend a fraction of their energy reforming the world and perfecting themselves as they do in fretting if the gates of hell will prevail against the Church, what a paradise we would live in.
If people would spend a fraction of the energy the spend on attempting to perfect and reform others on perfecting and performing themselves, perhaps the milk of human kindness wouldn’t be in such short supply. 👍
 
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