Hi Holly. First of all no, it’s not a stupid question. second of all, from my experience the more I trust Jesus, the more easy my life becomes. I still deal with problems in my life, but they never effect me like they used to. I think of forgiveness most times before resorting to anger, I think about pointing the finger at myself for my sins and rude behavior, before I point someone elses faults out.I don’t really get involved in matters of gossip, or talking behind someones back like I used to. I also have much more patience now, and things just don’t stress me out like they used to. will trusting Jesus make all of your problems go away? No, but He will show you how to deal with them better. the more trust I have in Jesus, the easier it is to deal with everything life throws at me. I try not to just tell Jesus that I trust in him though. I make frequent Confession a habit, I get to Eucharistic Adoration whenever I can, I try reading a little Sacred Scripture every day, and I also try praying the Rosary as much as possible. it seems that when I get away from these things, or get to busy for them, thats when I find myself getting more stressed out about everything, and giving into temptations that I usually wouldn’t. Your friend is indeed giving you sound advise.