If we die in God’s friendship and finally make it to heaven, will we know who “didn’t make it”? And what of our loved ones? If, God forbid, one of our loved ones ended up in hell, we do know that we will not be sad about it, as there is no sadness in heaven. Will we be satisfied, finally beholding God’s justice as well as His mercy, that this justice has been made perfect? And could this be part of the purgatorial process, that we will be freed of all earthly attachments, including our sentiments towards our loved ones who did not choose God as their last end?