Winter party instead of Christmas party :(

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No one will ask you for your joy. If you say you are christian and christ gives you joy …will someone get offended because if that?
 
Instead of calling it what it is,
It seems they are calling it what it is. A winter party.
a Christmas party
It’s not a Christmas party if it’s not celebrating Christmas.
to not offend anyone
Well, we live in a multicultural world. Jews are currently celebrating Hanukkah. They don’t mind if the work party isn’t called a Hanukkah party, because they know not everyone celebrates Hanukkah.
In their efforts to try to not offend anyone to call it like so, they are actually offending me, the Catholic one lol :).
You can have a Christmas party with your Catholic friends.
What do you guys think?
I think you get too easily offended.
 
I get offended too easily? Lol no. Try living in Holland, one of the most atheist countries in the world, for 3 seconds, you will develop a very thick skin darling 😊.

I just noticed with the whole Winter party thing, the world is wandering away from God more and more.

Are you a Catholic if I may ask?
 
I get offended too easily? Lol no.
I was referring to your statement directly above, that you were offended.
Try living in Holland, one of the most atheist countries in the world
I’ve been there. I have friends who live there. Yes, Holland is very secular. Which is why I don’t understand your surprise or concern about having a “winter party”.
Are you a Catholic if I may ask?
Yes. I am.
 
Here is a thought:

It’s not a Christmas party. We are still liturgically in Advent. Christmas parties happen during Christmastide.

You are attending a secular Christmas party, because generally Catholics wouldn’t have them right now. We are meant to be preparing for Christ’s birth, and not prematurely celebrating it or else we wouldn’t have Advent.

Kendra puts it really well here:

 
Oh, and Happy Sinterklaas. It’s St. Nicholas day tomorrow!
 
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I would go to a Hanukkah party.

I’ve been to the breaking of the Ramadan fast and a Diwali party.

I don’t get offended by people celebrating their holidays.

Let me ask my Hindu and Muslim work colleagues to see if they would be offended if they were invited to a Christmas party.
 
What do you guys think? I don’t wanna go. To political correct for me…🤮
I don’t think it’s just politics.

That’s been par for the course for me; I work with lots of people that don’t necessarily celebrate Christmas; that comes with living in a culturally diverse environment. Our party isn’t always in December. Sometimes it is in January. It’s an approach that I think can be better appreciated if/when you work in an environment in which Christianity isn’t the majority religion. I worked in such an office once and around the time of the major non-Christian religious holidays that most of the people in my department celebrated the company might host a meal with no particular title or purpose mentioned. Had they labeled the meal as in celebration of specific non-Christian gods or events from non-Christian religions then there would have been some people that either would not want to participate or were duty bound by their religion not to participate.
Is there any Christian observance in the party?
For the corporate sponsored parties that I have been to there isn’t anything Christ themed that I recall. So long as there was good food, alcohol, and music people participated and enjoyed it.
Try living in Holland, one of the most atheist countries in the world
Then it sounds like they are not celebrating Christ. It sounds appropriate to not call it a Christmas party.
 
So there you go. Why are you expecting a Christmas party from a bunch of people that are most likely atheists? They are celebrating a secular version of Christmas. So secular, they are calling it Winter.
Do not be offended, the party is not for Jesus anyway.
 
It is winter, so, I cannot see why having a winter party is offensive.

Remember, there are people of many other faiths and we are commanded to be kind. We are commanded to love

Read 1 Corinthians chapter 13.

Love bears all things, endures all things, love does not seek it’s own interest.
 
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CatholicInHolland:
Are you a Catholic if I may ask?
Yes. I am.
Obviously, the OP must be new around here. 😏
 
It’s a secular Christmas party not a celebration of the feast of Christmas (which isn’t until December 25 anyway). Secular Christmas isn’t quite the same as the feast of Christmas as we Christians know it.

It’s fine to go. I’ve been to many parties of the former and they are usually called “Holiday party”. Now if “Winter Party” is more of a pagan celebration of the winter solstice then I wouldn’t go.
 
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I wouldn’t go. If asked I would explain that I don’t celebrate “winter.” Of course I have almost always worked in a public union environment, have rarely gotten along when something comes up that I disagree with, and have never really “needed” my jobs.
 
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Shouldn’t you celebrate winter? Not for me to say, but I had thought celebrating the seasons was common in Christianity.

As to the party, when I worked such events were called Christmas parties because we thought of this time of the year as being the time for celebrating Christmas (yes, I know it’s really Advent). Like Christmas presents and Christmas tv shows and Christmas pudding — only tangentially relevant to the religious festival, but part of the social year.

I suppose it’s possible people of other religions and none might be offended by calling it a Christmas Party, although I would have doubted that until I read the OP, with someone somehow offended at calling a party in the winter a Winter Party. Lighten up would be my advice.
 
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