Wishing to be Protestant again...

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Rinnie,

**We wrote: *Jerry: * If there are such purely lay-led groups, it would be good for a priest to check up on them regularly to avoid the growth of error. (Of course, some clergy themselves these days are sunk deeply into the mire of error and even outright heresy, and in such cases, the faithful should rally without them to counteract bad modernist influence among local clergy without lettting themselves be bullied into submitting to false teaching; but that is a lay remedy for genuinely serious situations.) Lay-led groups that meet for structured prayers, e.g. the Rosary and novenas, are less apt to dig themselves into a doctrinal ditch.

**Rinnie: **You are so right. Jerry. and, ironically, I did ask that of Father. I said “Father. how would one do this?” Father said there are instructions which to go by to lead us. He said that he is going to check into getting the material so that we can introduce this into the church.

So it would probally not be that hard. I think that I possibly even, actually, could handle it, Jerry, because I would have the answers before the questions are asked.

But I think that the Church is really comming a long way in addressing alot of the problems we do have wih the Church, which one is the Priest not having enough time to do everything.

We have to learn to dig deep into ourself and to ask what it is that the Holy Spirit is asking of us, and how are we going to do what is asked. **​

Rinnie, you have the right spirit and concept 👍 of your role as a lay leader of a study group, which should not develop into one of those divisive C.G.M. “cell groups” which I had mentioned.

Using guided study materials (while not letting their use be too stiflingly boring and, in the wrong way, too predictable) such as you describe is a good way to avoid too much of the unwanted kind of “originality of insight” that I was describing, and you certainly are willing to defer to your priest, who, from the way that you describe him, is one of the wholesomely orthodox ones which are again becoming more numerous again as the old "SITS (“stuck in the sixties”, i.e. 1960s) would-be “hip” generation of clergy and laity fades from prominence on the scene (thank God, at last!). There was a time, and there still can be, when priests, not wayward laity, were (and sometimes still are) the ones who used “cell” groups to promote and fob off on their parishes their cherished but aberrent pseudo-Vat. 2 theological and exegetical views, as some theologically, pastorally, and liturgically dubious-minded bishops even have wrought some harm until the Vatican at times has intervened.

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
Rinnie,

**We wrote: *Jerry: *** If there are such purely lay-led groups, it would be good for a priest to check up on them regularly to avoid the growth of error. (Of course, some clergy themselves these days are sunk deeply into the mire of error and even outright heresy, and in such cases, the faithful should rally without them to counteract bad modernist influence among local clergy without lettting themselves be bullied into submitting to false teaching; but that is a lay remedy for genuinely serious situations.) Lay-led groups that meet for structured prayers, e.g. the Rosary and novenas, are less apt to dig themselves into a doctrinal ditch.

**Rinnie: **You are so right. Jerry. and, ironically, I did ask that of Father. I said “Father. how would one do this?” Father said there are instructions which to go by to lead us. He said that he is going to check into getting the material so that we can introduce this into the church.

So it would probally not be that hard. I think that I possibly even, actually, could handle it, Jerry, because I would have the answers before the questions are asked.

But I think that the Church is really comming a long way in addressing alot of the problems we do have wih the Church, which one is the Priest not having enough time to do everything.

We have to learn to dig deep into ourself and to ask what it is that the Holy Spirit is asking of us, and how are we going to do what is asked.​

Rinnie, you have the right spirit and concept 👍 of your role as a lay leader of a study group, which should not develop into one of those divisive C.G.M. “cell groups” which I had mentioned.

Using guided study materials (while not letting their use be too stiflingly boring and, in the wrong way, too predictable) such as you describe is a good way to avoid too much of the unwanted kind of “originality of insight” that I was describing, and you certainly are willing to defer to your priest, who, from the way that you describe him, is one of the wholesomely orthodox ones which are again becoming more numerous again as the old "SITS (“stuck in the sixties”, i.e. 1960s) would-be “hip” generation of clergy and laity fades from prominence on the scene (thank God, at last!). There was a time, and there still can be, when priests, not wayward laity, were (and sometimes still are) the ones who used “cell” groups to promote and fob off on their parishes their cherished but aberrent pseudo-Vat. 2 theological and exegetical views, as some theologically, pastorally, and liturgically dubious-minded bishops even have wrought some harm until the Vatican at times has intervened.

Pax, Jerry Parker
👍
 
The thing with many Protestant churches is that they don’t have sacraments. Without sacraments, all they have is the social/community aspect of worship so they emphasize it as much as possible. Catholics, on the other hand, have all the sacraments instituted by God and our worship revolves around that. Unfortunately, Catholics churches, in general, only emphasize this. The church I attend doesn’t have anything outside of high school youth group. I tried another church and it was the same thing. I’ve since been to every (decent/good) Catholic church within a resonable driving range and have encountered the same thing. Being Catholic, for me, involves going to Sunday Mass and that’s about it.
the priest may welcome some kind of activity you think of … (?)

i keep telling myself i will go to a non-C “church” for fellowship but i never get around to it… i guess i’ve gotten used to be an Anti-social Catholic… 😃

but then… also… some of the “socializing” I’ve witnessed in the Catholic Church… well, Long story short… i can live without… :rolleyes:

when i think about… ditto for the Protestants… 🤷
 
the priest may welcome some kind of activity you think of … (?)

i keep telling myself i will go to a non-C “church” for fellowship but i never get around to it… i guess i’ve gotten used to be an Anti-social Catholic… 😃

but then… also… some of the “socializing” I’ve witnessed in the Catholic Church… well, Long story short… i can live without… :rolleyes:

when i think about… ditto for the Protestants… 🤷
👍
To me, if its not centered around learning the word of God I am not that interested in it. I like to bring out Christ into the world rather than hide in the social lime light of others. But I do like to have friends just for the sake of friendship. I find some of the more active parish Catholics to be somewhat anti-social and clueless about how to create an atmosphere conducive to effecting fellowship. The same is somewhat true of the protestants.
 
I have a protestant friend who’s church does a lot of activities outside of their Sunday service. I even attend their monthly board game nights. They have different Bible study groups for different people. They have a Bible study group for singles designed to foster good, Christian relationships as well as learn the Bible. And the cool thing is, it’s dedicated to singles. When my friend got married, they told him he’d have to join a different study group. Every night of the week they have some sort of class/activity going on. Most are geared toward some sort of religious study or element, but a good number are entirely social/fun.

I’ve been a life long Catholic and ever since I was old enough that I stopped playing with kids my mom introduced me to when I was little, I haven’t had a single Catholic friend my entire teen/adult life because there’s just no way to meet them or get involved in any kind of activities because none are offered.
 
I don’t live in any of the 50 states, was not born in one of them, never lived in any of them…but I consider myself an American.

Sorry, nice try, but it’s just not as clever as you think. Kind of like those “Non-Denominational churches”… They actually -are- they’re just a denomination of one.
true enough:D
 
👍
To me, if its not centered around learning the word of God I am not that interested in it. *** I like to bring out Christ into the world rather than hide in the social lime light of others***. But I do like to have friends just for the sake of friendship. I find some of the more active parish Catholics to be somewhat anti-social and clueless about how to create an atmosphere conducive to effecting fellowship. The same is somewhat true of the protestants.
please explain highlighted… :confused:
 
I have a protestant friend who’s church does a lot of activities outside of their Sunday service. I even attend their monthly board game nights. They have different Bible study groups for different people. They have a Bible study group for singles designed to foster good, Christian relationships as well as learn the Bible. And the cool thing is, it’s dedicated to singles. When my friend got married, they told him he’d have to join a different study group. Every night of the week they have some sort of class/activity going on. Most are geared toward some sort of religious study or element, but a good number are entirely social/fun.

I’ve been a life long Catholic and ever since I was old enough that I stopped playing with kids my mom introduced me to when I was little, I haven’t had a single Catholic friend my entire teen/adult life because there’s just no way to meet them or get involved in any kind of activities because none are offered.
thats odd cuz some Churches have a lot of different kinds of groups… but i guess yours doesn’t… which is strange in a big place like Seattle…

what’s the weather like there, by the way? (dont have TV or cable)…

anyhow… I’m not much of a sociable person so i dont know what to tell you…
 
please explain highlighted… :confused:
I was thinking in terms of the last thing said in the mass…

I also mean that some people want to be part of a social group for the prestige, not to serve God, but rather themselves. I was in a Social Fraternity after the seminary for a couple of years. Joining them was merely to please a social light girlfriend who I dated for nearly 4 years. Belonging to that group hurt my grades and my chances for graduation that I flunked out and joined the Army where discipline and avoiding women [socialites] was my method. It worked rather well and I excelled in everything. The woman I married was so shy it was foolish of me to marry her without knowing what she was truly like. Her fears and anxieties kept her locked up emotionally all the years of our marriage and caused me a lot of pain after it began to pour out. She was hurt by a man at her church. You see being protestant to me means poverty in so many ways. Almost all of the people I know in Protestantism just don’t get it and haven’t experienced the joy of being Catholic in spite of the harassment from those that do not believe. My wife’s shyness kept me from doing what I feel called to do until recent. But until that happens I’m still not certain that she really supports my vocation to become a deacon. We’ll have to wait it out.

One of the things I wish I could undo while in the seminary is that I should have overcome my lack of ease with visiting “old folks homes”. I was very shy and didn’t know what to think of it. It caused me a lot of stress back then. Now I love visiting with the elderly. Old people give me a jolt of something I can’t explain. I just learned to love em. I guess it was from not growing up around older people in my family. The one’s I knew were crass and seemed to try to hurt my feelings growing up. My mom’s protestant family was and still is to this day rather crass. I don’t miss them but I do love them and hope to be unified with them one day in paradise with a better understanding of what was going on back then.
 
Bataar,

**You wrote: ** I have a Protestant friend who’s church does a lot of activities outside of their Sunday service. I even attend their monthly board game nights. They have different Bible study groups for different people. They have a Bible study group for singles designed to foster good, Christian relationships as well as learn the Bible. And the cool thing is, it’s dedicated to singles. When my friend got married, they told him he’d have to join a different study group.

I can imagine how tempting it could be to participate in a Bible study group or in certain social activities of a non-Catholic local congregation. However, unless it be one of a denomination that is as close to Catholicism in doctrine and practice as Holy Orthodoxy, “high church” Lutheran, or “Anglo-Catholic” Anglican/Episcopalian are, it would seem to me that the divergences from Catholic teaching and intermittent attacks on the Catholic Church and on its teaching could be too frequent and potentially damaging to make such participation any kind of good idea.

The problem is that so many Catholic parishes offer just about nothing in the way of study groups or even socialising, especially if there is no active Knights of Columbus chapter as part of it. There used to be Newman Clubs all over the place, but few such extra-parish organisations are active anymore; the laxity that set in after 1970, with the lackluster Novus Ordo liturgy and the decline in preaching have reduced parishes in many places and in entire dioceses to mere shadows of what they once were. There is need for a real Catholic revival, not just some imaginary one on the part of self-deluded clergy who have forgotten (or never knew) the glory of Catholic intellectual and social life before Vatican II cast a pall on all of that.

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
I was thinking in terms of the last thing said in the mass…

I also mean that some people want to be part of a social group for the prestige, not to serve God, but rather themselves. I was in a Social Fraternity after the seminary for a couple of years. Joining them was merely to please a social light girlfriend who I dated for nearly 4 years. Belonging to that group hurt my grades and my chances for graduation that I flunked out and joined the Army where discipline and avoiding women [socialites] was my method. It worked rather well and I excelled in everything. The woman I married was so shy it was foolish of me to marry her without knowing what she was truly like. Her fears and anxieties kept her locked up emotionally all the years of our marriage and caused me a lot of pain after it began to pour out. She was hurt by a man at her church. You see being protestant to me means poverty in so many ways. Almost all of the people I know in Protestantism just don’t get it and haven’t experienced the joy of being Catholic in spite of the harassment from those that do not believe. My wife’s shyness kept me from doing what I feel called to do until recent. But until that happens I’m still not certain that she really supports my vocation to become a deacon. We’ll have to wait it out.

One of the things I wish I could undo while in the seminary is that I should have overcome my lack of ease with visiting “old folks homes”. I was very shy and didn’t know what to think of it. It caused me a lot of stress back then. Now I love visiting with the elderly. Old people give me a jolt of something I can’t explain. I just learned to love em. I guess it was from not growing up around older people in my family. The one’s I knew were crass and seemed to try to hurt my feelings growing up. My mom’s protestant family was and still is to this day rather crass. I don’t miss them but I do love them and hope to be unified with them one day in paradise with a better understanding of what was going on back then.
thanks …

yeah i used to feel funny in nursing homes… but now i sometimes wish i lived in one… I mean, there you can do all those things i love to do… and no one thinks of you as lazy or whatever… (Read, sleep, Pray…)

but anyhow… yeah older people have a lot to say if someone gives them the chance… i probably should visit one of those places myself some day… i send the mass readings to some old people… but someone else reads them to them… but maybe i should read them sometime… to someone… i dont know… i am just not vey sociable these days… not tht i ever have been… but its worse the older i get… i’ve been through a lot and have some post traumatic stress and etc… plus just stuck in my ways…

anyway… kinda curious… Why your handle if you are not yet Catholic?

could you give me some background on your spiritual journey…?

sorry if i alreayd asked you this??? I talk to so many posters & sometimes i don’t keep track of them very well… :hypno::doh2:
 
Bataar,

**You wrote: ** I have a Protestant friend who’s church does a lot of activities outside of their Sunday service. I even attend their monthly board game nights. They have different Bible study groups for different people. They have a Bible study group for singles designed to foster good, Christian relationships as well as learn the Bible. And the cool thing is, it’s dedicated to singles. When my friend got married, they told him he’d have to join a different study group.

I can imagine how tempting it could be to participate in a Bible study group or in certain social activities of a non-Catholic local congregation. However, unless it be one of a denomination that is as close to Catholicism in doctrine and practice as Holy Orthodoxy, “high church” Lutheran, or “Anglo-Catholic” Anglican/Episcopalian are, it would seem to me that the divergences from Catholic teaching and intermittent attacks on the Catholic Church and on its teaching could be too frequent and potentially damaging to make such participation any kind of good idea.

The problem is that so many Catholic parishes offer just about nothing in the way of study groups or even socialising, especially if there is no active Knights of Columbus chapter as part of it. There used to be Newman Clubs all over the place, but few such extra-parish organisations are active anymore; the laxity that set in after 1970, with the lackluster Novus Ordo liturgy and the decline in preaching have reduced parishes in many places and in entire dioceses to mere shadows of what they once were. There is need for a real Catholic revival, not just some imaginary one on the part of self-deluded clergy who have forgotten (or never knew) the glory of Catholic intellectual and social life before Vatican II cast a pall on all of that.

Pax, Jerry Parker
hello… i couldn’t make out where you live??

but anyhow… i love waht you say here… i hate the Vatican II changes…

my position is: “If it aint broke, don’t fix it”

for cyring out loud… :mad:

but if people left the Catholic Church cuz of Vatican II changes… where did they go? its’ not like they’re going to find anything comparable??? :confused:
 
I’ve been catholic all my life. I just didn’t know it. I left for 18 years and came home in 2006 with my wife and 3 children. We love the Catholic faith and would not leave it for anything less. No Protestant church comes even close to the Church. But Orhtodoxy is awesome as well, with the exception of the not accepting the papacy and such. Originally I was drawn to the apostolic Eastern Orthodox Church with the splendor of their rites but realized over a short period of time that I came to understand the truth about the papacy rooted in history. It makes sense and has been very good for the Church.

What are you speaking of when you say “my handle”?
 
I’ve been catholic all my life. I just didn’t know it. I left for 18 years and came home in 2006 with my wife and 3 children. We love the Catholic faith and would not leave it for anything less. No Protestant church comes even close to the Church. But Orhtodoxy is awesome as well, with the exception of the not accepting the papacy and such. Originally I was drawn to the apostolic Eastern Orthodox Church with the splendor of their rites but realized over a short period of time that I came to understand the truth about the papacy rooted in history. It makes sense and has been very good for the Church.

What are you speaking of when you say “my handle”?
eucharisteo is your handle…

and yet you call yorslf Christian… not Catholic Christian
 
Bataar,

**You wrote: ** I have a Protestant friend who’s church does a lot of activities outside of their Sunday service. I even attend their monthly board game nights. They have different Bible study groups for different people. They have a Bible study group for singles designed to foster good, Christian relationships as well as learn the Bible. And the cool thing is, it’s dedicated to singles. When my friend got married, they told him he’d have to join a different study group.

I can imagine how tempting it could be to participate in a Bible study group or in certain social activities of a non-Catholic local congregation. However, unless it be one of a denomination that is as close to Catholicism in doctrine and practice as Holy Orthodoxy, “high church” Lutheran, or “Anglo-Catholic” Anglican/Episcopalian are, it would seem to me that the divergences from Catholic teaching and intermittent attacks on the Catholic Church and on its teaching could be too frequent and potentially damaging to make such participation any kind of good idea.

The problem is that so many Catholic parishes offer just about nothing in the way of study groups or even socialising, especially if there is no active Knights of Columbus chapter as part of it. There used to be Newman Clubs all over the place, but few such extra-parish organisations are active anymore; the laxity that set in after 1970, with the lackluster Novus Ordo liturgy and the decline in preaching have reduced parishes in many places and in entire dioceses to mere shadows of what they once were. There is need for a real Catholic revival, not just some imaginary one on the part of self-deluded clergy who have forgotten (or never knew) the glory of Catholic intellectual and social life before Vatican II cast a pall on all of that.

Pax, Jerry Parker
I don’t go to any of their study groups or anything like that. I just go to the board game nights. They say a little prayer at the start basically thanking God for good friends and the chance to get together, etc, etc. and that’s about the only religious element to it. The rest of the time is just playing games.
 
Distracted,

**You wrote: ** *Hello. I couldn’t make out where you live (??).

Anyhow — I love what you say here. ** hate the Vatican II’s changes.

My position is: “If it aint broke, don’t fix it.” (for cyring out loud—)

If people left the Catholic Church cuz of Vatican II changes, where did they go? it’s not like they’re going to find anything comparable, [is it]??? *​

Ah, music to my pre-Vat-2 ears! 👍 No, the aftermath of Vatican II is mostly disastrous, despite what the clergy, self-deluded in that matter, may say. If one is old enough to remember those years of vibrant Catholic life (socially, intellectually, liturgically, and in other ways) one has to weep for what became of it all, especially after the implementation of the Novus Ordo liturgy (N.O.). It was the 1962 and 1965 Missals (editions of the Missale Romanum) which were the real Vatican II liturgical standards. The 1970 N.O. came later and was not a product of Vatican II but rather of the post-conciliar liturgical cabal around Pope Paul VI.

I don’t think the Catholics who gave up on the Church after Vatican II, especially after 1970, necessarily left for other ecclesiastical entities. Many of them just “voted with their feet” and stopped practising the Christian faith in active worship anywhere else. Some did go to the Orthodox Church, others to Protestantism, and many to the sects :eek: (Baptists, Pentecostals, et alia), but there hasn’t been, I don’t think, a clear and consistent pattern about all of this, other than disgust with what the Church and its worship, especially in the chaos that prevailed so long, had become, not to mention the awful clergy sex scandals of recent decades. I personally have not had much confidence in the clergy (and I try to steer clear of personal contact with them) since all of that began to occur.

Maybe things are changing (and there is a lot of damage to be undone), especially as first Pope John Paul II and then, rather more decisively and fairly, Benedict XVI have clamped down on chaos and decline in the Church and liturgy and even are promoting the 1962 Latin liturgy 😛 again! I hope that good developments really are afoot—.

And, oh, before I forget that question, I live in Québec, in the lovely and unspoiled (referring to Nature, not to clerics) Abitibi region.

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
eucharisteo is your handle…

and yet you call yorslf Christian… not Catholic Christian
LOL

That’s funny. Don’t you know the Greek for Catholic yet?
The word KATHOLIKOS was used by St. Ignatius in about 107 in a letter to the Smyrnaeans. He wrote something that goes like this “where there is Jesus Christ there is the Catholic Church”… the letters you see next to the Greek means Catholic. I just added “Christian” in front of the name today. I like to confuse Protestants for fun as a way of catechizing them about this point. St. Ignatius is my new hero. It was reading this epistle that transformed my way of thinking back to being Catholic. I had never seen it. In fact, I don’t understand how Protestants don’t realize these ancient writings from the early Church leaders [fathers] are missed. I never knew they existed.

Priests and bishops need to stop expecting us to obey blindly. We have a war going on out here while they live among Catholics. We have to defend ourselves among the wolves trying to prove us wrong.
 
Distracted,

**You wrote: ** *Hello. I couldn’t make out where you live (??).

Anyhow — I love what you say here. hate the Vatican II’s changes.

My position is: “If it aint broke, don’t fix it.” (for cyring out loud—)

If people left the Catholic Church cuz of Vatican II changes, where did they go? it’s not like they’re going to find anything comparable, [is it]??? *​

Ah, music to my pre-Vat-2 ears! 👍 No, the aftermath of Vatican II is mostly disastrous, despite what the clergy, self-deluded in that matter, may say. If one is old enough to remember those years of vibrant Catholic life (socially, intellectually, liturgically, and in other ways) one has to weep for what became of it all, especially after the implementation of the Novus Ordo liturgy (N.O.). It was the 1962 and 1965 Missals (editions of the Missale Romanum) which were the real Vatican II liturgical standards. The 1970 N.O. came later and was not a product of Vatican II but rather of the post-conciliar liturgical cabal around Pope Paul VI.

I don’t think the Catholics who gave up on the Church after Vatican II, especially after 1970, necessarily left for other ecclesiastical entities. Many of them just “voted with their feet” and stopped practising the Christian faith in active worship anywhere else. Some did go to the Orthodox Church, others to Protestantism, and many to the sects :eek: (Baptists, Pentecostals, et alia), but there hasn’t been, I don’t think, a clear and consistent pattern about all of this, other than disgust with what the Church and its worship, especially in the chaos that prevailed so long, had become, not to mention the awful clergy sex scandals of recent decades. I personally have not had much confidence in the clergy (and I try to steer clear of personal contact with them) since all of that began to occur.

Maybe things are changing (and there is a lot of damage to be undone), especially as first Pope John Paul II and then, rather more decisively and fairly, Benedict XVI have clamped down on chaos and decline in the Church and liturgy and even are promoting the 1962 Latin liturgy 😛 again! I hope that good developments really are afoot—.

And, oh, before I forget that question, I live in Québec, in the lovely and unspoiled (referring to Nature, not to clerics) Abitibi region.

Pax, Jerry Parker
tres bien. Whoops gotta see the my big butter Jesus hellfire and brimstones fire.
 
Read just a few of the posts…VERY confused! I thought one of the dogmas was belief in the infallability of the Pope as well as the teaching of the magisterium.

I’m in RCIA learning of the church. If it is no more error-free than my Baptist “CULT” then I might as well stay Baptist!:rolleyes: At least we’re honest in our beliefs…
 
Trixy,

**You wrote: **

*TrixRN (Religion: Catachumen)

Re: Wishing to be Protestant again…

Read just a few of the posts…VERY confused! I thought one of the dogmas was belief in the infallability of the Pope as well as the teaching of the magisterium.

I’m in RCIA learning of the church. If it is no more error-free than my Baptist “CULT” then I might as well stay Baptist! At least we’re honest in our beliefs… *​

I hope that you are not feeling scandalised by the various mutterings and grumblings! Baptists, however, do have a way of feigning “being above all of that”. Yeah, the true Church is not perfect in its day to day life, and we certainly are not living in any kind of “Golden Age” or “Silver Age” of the Catholic Church, what with the stripped-down liturgy (still valid, though, of course), poor and paltry preaching, flimsy and dubious education in Catholic universities and seminaries, etc., enough probably to kill off a sect (LOL!), but THE CATHOLIC CHURCH STILL IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE THE ONE, TRUE, CHURCH OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST.

I wouldn’t go back to Lutheranism and all of its conundrums, even with the good expository preaching that so flourishes therein and a liturgy that usually is more beautiful and dignified than what we have most of the time (but with the uncertainty of the validity of the Lutheran or Anglican ministry and sacraments). Lutheranism simply fails the test when it is pushed to the limit, which happens more often than it doesn’t in these troubled times! That’s the case with, ultimately, with all of the Protestant denominations (Lutherans and Anglicans included) and the sects (Baptists included). Despite saying that, I do wish that the priests and bishops would strive harder and more faithfully (rather than merely trendily and “imaginatively”, on the one hard, or lethargically, on the other) in their liturgical and preaching functions—.

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
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