Look at
this post in the old thread. The idea that Rome “caved in” to female altar servers is a complete rewriting of history worthy of George Orwell.
Before 1983, female altar servers were not permitted. Not coincidentally, the Vatican responded quite forcefully to the few parishes where this rule was being ignored:
Inaestimabile Donum (1980) -
There are, of course, various roles that women can perform in the liturgical assembly: these include reading the Word of God and proclaiming the intentions of the Prayer of the Faithful.Women are not, however, permitted to act as altar servers.
Liturgicae Instaurationes (1970) -
In conformity with norms traditional in the Church, women (single, married, religious), whether in churches, homes, convents, schools, or institutions for women, are barred from serving the priest at the altar.
After 1983, the Vatican did not issue any documents condemning female altar servers, despite their now widespread use
resulting from the approval given from canon lawyers. I don’t think this is a coincidence either.
The records of the 1978 meeting of pontifical committee that voted on canon 230 §2 indicate that the removal of the “male only” requirement had everything to do with the understanding that women were no longer prohibited from being in the sanctuary, and nothing at all to do with the desire to “roll over and play dead” in response to combating liturgical abuse.