Women, have men ever approached you before or after mass?

[Xantippe]

Your best bet would be to get involved with some of the church’s groups that do stuff outside of the Mass. Like, my parish has groups of 20-30 something singles who go out for dinner and drinks, see movies, go hiking. That’s a much more appropriate venue to gauge someone’s potential interest.

And it’s an easier venue in which to get to know people.

 

[Zzyzx_Road]

I do coffee and donuts after Mass on occasion, but it’s very rare that I see someone I might be interested in who happens to be available and might return my interest. There is a young adults group in the next parish over, but I’m beyond that age range and according to the long time locals there has never been any interest in older singles younger than senior citizens.