If Jesus had meant women to be priests, why didn’t he tell his mother Mary to take over leadership of His Passover feast in Jerusalem?
The blessings were always given at the Passover feast by the head of the household, which meant the oldest male of the family that ran the household. So if we’re getting rid of the male thing, the Virgin Mary’s obviously the head of the household. Instead of baking the unleavened bread, she should be breaking it and saying the blessing over the cup.
Oh, wait. That wouldn’t work.
Women were very important in the early Church, just as they are very important in today’s Church. Whether it’s influence or working our fingers to the bone, we’re there! But we’re not priests, and we’ve never been priests.
(Unless you count the heretical sects that did all the weird stuff, like worshipping Mary as God and milk as the most sacred fluid, which led them to be eating bread and cheese for Communion. And yes, there was a pagan Middle Eastern religious reason for all that. Usually is, in the weird heretical sects. The boring heretical sects did other stuff…)
What you want to look into are the canonesses. They rocked! They were lay women who (originally) helped out the deaconesses with good deeds, but also promised to keep the liturgical hours. (Like the male canons did.) They could leave off being canonesses to get married, whenever they wanted.
Originally, some lived at home and others in community together; but they all worshipped together as a community. Anyway, there they were, out doing good deeds. They founded the first hospitals. They taught women to read and sing and gave them liberal educations, throughout the Middle Ages. Canonesses only became conventional-type nuns and sisters in the 19th century.
They were hugely important in the German side of Europe and the Holy Roman Empire, but don’t get much notice in English language histories. Which is annoying, because they did so much!