Have you ever, in any of the time since EMHCs were instituted, heard of a priest who decided to exclude African Americans from being chosen? That’s, to use PRmerger’s own words, “absurd”. My comment, suggesting charity rather than prideful confrontation, was addressing the original topic of women in liturgical roles.
Even if we were living in bizzaro land and your hypothetical situation occurred, your suggested conversation would be very lacking in respect and would probably kill your chance of having the bishop on your side should you call him. Chanceries don’t usually take too kindly to priests being verbally berated by parishioners, even if they do something that is clearly wrong. But hey, if you are comfortable calling your pastor “wicked” and accusing him of “grave and scandalous sin” who am I to stop you?