Hi, Caligirl,
I am going to take a different route than everyone else…and hope not to offend anyone.
I am not a physician, but I have a certification in Medical Transcription, which oddly enough “enables” me to check and correct the records of physicians regarding their patients (and patients medical issues, prescriptions, etc.) when transcribing them. I have studied quite a lot of medical issues, but am not an expert. I would not take the medical advise of a transcriptionist over every physician, but I know that a fellow transcriptionist’s suggestion on what to have a physician or nurse practitioner check saved me a lot of time and money.
I am going to try to be as delicate as possible. The fact is that if you or your husband are not sexually active now with multiple partners (and have not been since your last Gyn exam) you do not “need” another exam. Women in general do not need Gyn exams for diagnosis of and prevention of Gyn disease. It is typically in the cases of those women (and their partners) who are or were sexually active with multiple partners that a woman has been defined subjectively by the medical community as having a “need” for a Gyn exam (due to the passage of HPV and other viruses and bacteria which cause further reproductive issues in women). This subjective definition has been passed by propaganda into the Junior and Senior High Schools of the USA through “health” classes causing young women to believe that at a certain point, they must begin getting Gyn exams or be “unhealthy.”
Actually, the only way to ensure one’s health, by God’s grace, would be to live a chaste life within and without marriage.
So, I would say, no woman should go for a Gyn exam anywhere… I’m sure that will upset some, but that is not my intent.
I think it is a great moral shame the “clinical” way a woman’s reproductive system is treated. It gives the wrong notion of reproduction and future human life if just anyone can licitly “poke around” that area, much less a male physician who is not the woman’s husband. That does not mean that if there is a genuine need, that one could not attempt to apply the principle of double-effect to a Gyn exam, only that a routine Gyn exam outside of genuine need is gravely morally objectionable.
– Nicole