What seems to be ignored is that there are lots of women working within the Catholic church who have a strong sense of calling to Priesthood. That they don’t post openly here, and that they don’t answer questions like Fergal’s is not because they don’t have a strong argument, but because it hurts. It’s painful. To love someone, and to have them deny, or refuse to acknowledge, or to openly despise or reject something that’s integral to who you are. You’re hardly going to expose that in a place where, with all due respect, the overriding atmosphere is not always one of love, concern, gentleness or respect (regardless of what Peter wrote in his letters about giving your reasons with gentleness and respect). They’re there, I know many, but when they get greeted with such hostitlity when they seek to express themselves, they quickly learn to pour their hearts out only to God, and to wise and gentle spiritual mentors. Why, if they hated the Church, would so many choose to stay, despite the pain? Why would the risk such vitriol and mockery, if they didn’t believe what they feel has come from God. Maybe you believe they’re wrong, but please don’t insult them by claiming they don’t earnestly love God or the church.