Work dilemma; help!

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I know this isn’t a strictly “Catholic” problem or a moral one, but I wasn’t sure where else to post it.

I am in a sticky situation at work. I am a middle manager, and the department I manage is one of several overseen by my boss. I’ve worked here for four years, and the problem I have is getting my boss to address some of the serious problems our department is facing. Specifically, we’ve had a vacant marketing position for well over a year now that has gone unfilled for various reasons.

In that time, I’ve had multiple conversations with my boss about the need to fill this position, and each time we’ve talked she’s admitted it needs to be filled and promises to work on it. But then she doesn’t. I know she oversees many departments, but it often seems as if mine is of the least importance to her. I’ve gone to more and more creative lengths to get her to recognize and act on this problem (including drafting a very lengthy report), and each time it seems it falls on deaf ears.

I don’t know what to do. If the position goes unfilled for much longer, I’m afraid my department won’t be able to sustain itself, and jobs could be at stake. However, the last time I went “above her head” to our director about a problem, I was reprimanded.

The worst part is, when I talk to her about it, she agrees with me 100 percent that something needs to be done. The problem is getting her to do anything about it. At the risk of being insubordinate, I don’t know what else to do. If I talk to our director, I get reprimanded – and there’s no guarantee he’ll take my side. If I don’t, my department could fail. Any help – and prayers – are appreciated.
 
I don’t know your boss and if she’d take it well, but can you draft up a job posting, send it to her for review, and ask her where she’d like it posted? I imagine this is likely what she is supposed to do, but maybe if you do it for her, that’ll get the ball rolling? It could be that she just has so much on her plate that she forgets about it or it takes a backseat to other things that she feels are more important. If you take the work out of it for her (besides approving the posting), she might feel relieved and will be more likely to follow through with applications?

Who reprimanded you for going above her - did she or did the person above her you went to reprimand you? If it was her, then maybe it’s worth the chance of doing it again, especially if you feel jobs could be on the line. I’d rather get reprimanded and save my department than sit back and let it all go to pieces.
 
I don’t know your boss and if she’d take it well, but can you draft up a job posting, send it to her for review, and ask her where she’d like it posted? I imagine this is likely what she is supposed to do, but maybe if you do it for her, that’ll get the ball rolling? It could be that she just has so much on her plate that she forgets about it or it takes a backseat to other things that she feels are more important. If you take the work out of it for her (besides approving the posting), she might feel relieved and will be more likely to follow through with applications?

Who reprimanded you for going above her - did she or did the person above her you went to reprimand you? If it was her, then maybe it’s worth the chance of doing it again, especially if you feel jobs could be on the line. I’d rather get reprimanded and save my department than sit back and let it all go to pieces.
This is very good advice.
 
The worst part is, when I talk to her about it, she agrees with me 100 percent that something needs to be done. The problem is getting her to do anything about it. At the risk of being insubordinate, I don’t know what else to do. If I talk to our director, I get reprimanded – and there’s no guarantee he’ll take my side. If I don’t, my department could fail. Any help – and prayers – are appreciated.
Any chance that while she agrees 100 percent with you on filling the job - that she’s also got pressure from others to keep the job unfilled and save the cost of the position - after all somehow it’s held together this long. Could be making her ambivalent (knowing she should/not knowing where else to cut)?
 
Sounds familiar…it’s tough being in a middle management position. My husband has had similar problems. I will pray yes. Though you’d rather not hear this, I know that our Lord is also working in your heart through this dilemma. Pray for your boss daily, sincerely. You can’t believe how this can help. Go to Adoration and “unload” this before the Lord. He so very much WANTS to help you as much as you WANT a resolution in this:) It is good that you know you can’t do this on your own… (lesson one we all go over time after time)
I will be praying for you!

My love in Him,
mlz
 
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