Working saturday and sunday

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My wife is wanting to work over time this Sunday (we’re in need of money) and she asked if we can go to mass on Friday instead. My wife already works Saturday. I told her only the Saturday vigil counts for Sunday. If she signs up for over time and misses mass on Saturday and Sunday is this bad? And would she then need confession to take communion next weekend?
 
You know that all she needs to do is to call or contact your priest and get permission.
 
Talk to your priest about it. In short it probably depends on how badly you need money. If you explain the situation to him, he will be best able to advise you.

But, in general, one shouldn’t work on Sundays. I’m sure your wife would not be doing shifts that go from 6 pm on Saturday to 6-7 pm on Sunday; surely there is a mass within driving range that she could go to?
 
Talk to your priest and explain to him what you have said here. He will be able to guide you and your wife in the dispensation process.
 
That said, do we really believe the good Lord cannot supply the needed finances and more if we would just take the time to give him our love for an hour at Mass on Sunday?

We cannot outdo God in generosity.

Go to Mass, and expect a miracle.
 
Talk to your priest about it. In short it probably depends on how badly you need money. If you explain the situation to him, he will be best able to advise you.

But, in general, one shouldn’t work on Sundays. I’m sure your wife would not be doing shifts that go from 6 pm on Saturday to 6-7 pm on Sunday; surely there is a mass within driving range that she could go to?
She’s a nursing assistant and works 12 hour shifts from 6:30-7. Also lately her coworkers have been complaining that she always has Sunday off which cuts back on them having that day off so last Sunday the made her work Sunday, but thankfully she had Saturday off and we made it to vigil

Thanks everyone for your suggestions.
 
She’s a nursing assistant and works 12 hour shifts from 6:30-7. Also lately her coworkers have been complaining that she always has Sunday off which cuts back on them having that day off so last Sunday the made her work Sunday, but thankfully she had Saturday off and we made it to vigil

Thanks everyone for your suggestions.
Medical work is essential work. This situation is a prime example of why it is not at all correct to say that “one generally should not work on Sunday” without knowing the nature of the work in question. A priest spends all day working on Sunday. It is a particular work. But then there are medical workers, fire fighters, soldiers, among many others whose tours of duty preclude attendance at Mass.

A priest never knows how true this is as when he has a heart attack or other health crisis on Sunday and blesses God that there are health care providers who give up their Sunday to care for the sick.

And, of course, one has to be sensitive if one is in a situation where an accommodation begins to impose an unfair burden on others. It would not be fair if an arrangement that allowed her to have every Sunday off resulted in another Catholic employee never being able to have Sunday off, as an example.

Over the course of my priesthood, I have many times had to reassure doctors, nurses and those in allied health professions that there are other provisions that their parish priest can make for them.

I remember a time, years ago, with a situation where the nurse’s shift was twelve hours Saturday and Sunday, 7 am – 7 pm. She could never attend a Sunday Mass because of our Mass schedules in the diocese, as they were at that particular time. We commuted her Mass obligation and she attended a Mass during the week for the duration of that situation.
 
Medical work is essential work. This situation is a prime example of why it is not at all correct to say that “one generally should not work on Sunday” without knowing the nature of the work in question. A priest spends all day working on Sunday. It is a particular work. But then there are medical workers, fire fighters, soldiers, among many others whose tours of duty preclude attendance at Mass.

A priest never knows how true this is as when he has a heart attack or other health crisis on Sunday and blesses God that there are health care providers who give up their Sunday to care for the sick.

And, of course, one has to be sensitive if one is in a situation where an accommodation begins to impose an unfair burden on others. It would not be fair if an arrangement that allowed her to have every Sunday off resulted in another Catholic employee never being able to have Sunday off, as an example.

Over the course of my priesthood, I have many times had to reassure doctors, nurses and those in allied health professions that there are other provisions that their parish priest can make for them.

I remember a time, years ago, with a situation where the nurse’s shift was twelve hours Saturday and Sunday, 7 am – 7 pm. She could never attend a Sunday Mass because of our Mass schedules in the diocese, as they were at that particular time. We commuted her Mass obligation and she attended a Mass during the week for the duration of that situation.
Thank you father this will be helpful information going forward
 
Medical work is essential work. This situation is a prime example of why it is not at all correct to say that “one generally should not work on Sunday” without knowing the nature of the work in question. A priest spends all day working on Sunday. It is a particular work. But then there are medical workers, fire fighters, soldiers, among many others whose tours of duty preclude attendance at Mass.
It would have helped if the OP had mentioned that little essential detail from the outset.
 
It would have helped if the OP had mentioned that little essential detail from the outset.
Well…that is why, pastorally, one may never presume. Neither that the person is in error or even that the person knows the right question to ask.
 
Talk to your priest about it. In short it probably depends on how badly you need money. If you explain the situation to him, he will be best able to advise you.

But, in general, one shouldn’t work on Sundays. I’m sure your wife would not be doing shifts that go from 6 pm on Saturday to 6-7 pm on Sunday; surely there is a mass within driving range that she could go to?
There are some jobs/careers where weekends and even holidays are mandatory and are part of the job. That’s just the way that it is, and you have to be able to work that kind of a schedule.

I worked in retail for awhile and it was part of the job to work on the weekends and on holidays if scheduled for them, too.

I was fortunate in that I was able to get to Mass either for the Saturday Vigil or very early on Sunday morning and was able to do it either before or after my scheduled hours.

Some people may not be able to do what I was able to do, though, due to their own work schedules.
 
Medical work is essential work. This situation is a prime example of why it is not at all correct to say that “one generally should not work on Sunday” without knowing the nature of the work in question. .
I agree of course. I was going to put in that there are exceptions but for some reason I never thought that someone in the medical profession would not know that it was OK to work, because obviously people can get sick any day of the week. I shouldn’t have assumed, but I just got the impression she was a shop assistant or something like that and she was voluntarily “opting in” for extra hours on a Sunday 😊
 
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