OK, but the guy you quote in your signature did own slaves! Guess who he owned? My great-great grandfolks! LOL. Talk about six degrees of separation.
I agree that many Black (colored, LOLOLOL) folk use the past as a crutch. Not helpful. Please, I’ve been made fun of for “speaking proper” by Black people on occasion. Get 'er dun!
Anyway, I hear you on “political correctness” in opposition to “being racist.” It’s just that on paper, without knowing the individual, these days it can be tough to tell the difference. My (White) best friend from since we were 12 years old expressed the exact same sentiment as you just did, just the other month.
Looks like a virtual “beer summit” is in the making. Make mine a Heineken.
Peace to you.
PS – Thanks for educating me about the Stars And Bars. The non-cross version of the Confederate flag looks very similar to the US flag. And raises less emotional hackles–with me, anyway.
I guess I’ll be the skunk at the party, and nobody will give me a Heineken’s.
I personally think that just about everybody is racist or, more broadly speaking, prejudiced in some manner. We have lots of experiences in life. We are only subliminally aware of some of them. We are unaware of some. We see lots of portrayals of all kinds of people from birth on. We register all that stuff in our minds somewhere or other. We see people of various types act or even talk in particular ways. I recall, for example, that my wife, who is from the North, confessed to me during our courtship that she thought at first that surely I was “ignorant” (or more ignorant than I am, perhaps) because of my upper South accent. Somehow or other, she learned to associate that with ignorance.
I remember once spending a summer in Michigan, being so surprised that people on the extreme low end of the socioeconomic scale there didn’t sound like it. I had long “learned” to associate that status with a very different kind of accent. Well, after all, isn’t that what “Pygmalion” was all about, and the movie based on it?
A few years ago, I picked up a city lawyer at the Northwest Arkansas airport with a very high executive for a Fortune 100 company whose home office is in NW Ark. The exec was dressed in jeans and an ordinary cotton shirt, and he and I picked the lawyer up in the exec’s pride and joy; his restored 1960s-something pickup. The lawyer told me later he thought he was a dead man until we brought him to the very lavish corporate HQ. It never occurred to him that a high corporate executive could possibly be drivng an ancient pickup in jeans and cowboy boots. He began having mental visions of “Deliverance” on the way. For me, though, it was just ordinary because I’m from this region.
We all have things like that, and a lot of them in our heads. We are “prejudiced” in the sense that we have certain imprints of things that are hard to shake. We don’t even know about some of them.
Who in the world doesn’t, for example, feel a bit of estrangement from anyone at all if we learn they have had a criminal record of almost any kind? Our reaction is automatic.
And let’s tell the truth here. If we’re on a street, particulary in a not-too-good neighborhood and see a handful of black teenagers coming our way (if we’re white), we get nervous. We don’t think it through, we just get nervous. That’s a racial prejudice. Now, if the teenagers have suits and ties on and are carrying books or briefcases, we don’t. If instead of teenagers, they’re middle aged black men carrying lunch pails, we don’t. If they’re white teenagers, we might get a little nervous, but not as much, unless they have gang jackets on. Then, our instincts tell us to be even more worried than if they were black without gang jackets on. A handful or oriental teenagers we would probably worry less about (witihout particularly good reason) than a handful of whites. If they’re girls of any color, we don’t.
But that doesn’t mean we have a good excuse to actually act on our prejudices. We truly do have a moral obligation to try to get past them and treat each person as we would want to be treated. I sometimes think that before we can guard against such things, we have to recognize in ourselves that we do have those prejudices.