Me and my girlfriend and her family went to a “lifeteen” mass tonight it was going well until the priest when saying the words of consencration did not lift the host all the way up or genuflect . he did genuflect but not untill he had consencrated both the body and precious blood. also when doing the concluding doxology he said through him with him in the in the unity of the holy spritit but the new missall says through him with him o god all mighty father … also durring the our father some of the parisohoners held hands but what i found the most shocking is at least 85 percent were using the orans postion. it was actually in this churches bulliten to use the orans posture a while back… ??? this is not my regular parrish it is where my girlfriend and her family go. i go to a parrish back at home. granted i am not a catholic yet but this just didn’t seem like a mass i had gone to . or what i read on here. ? thanks.
Wow… what a Nutshell to crack open. You’re going to get alot of hits on this topic… probibly a dozen before I can even spell check this!
I have an abridged version of the new GIRM, it lacks the section numbers; however:
For the exposition of the Host and Chalice after consecration:
All it states is that the Host and Chalice need be “shown to the faithful.” IF he elevated them high enough for those gathered to see the Host and Chalice then that may not be an issue.
However, it is very clear that the priest should genuflect after showing the Host and again after showing the Chalice.
:crutches:
Beware: He may have an indulgence due to medical limitations, we have a priest with just such an indulgence from our Bishop that allows him to bow instead of genuflect - but he does so after each exposition.
:hypno: Please give him a break with the doxology… it’s changed, and just as we still have people that are saying “and also with you” and missing the “consubstantial” in the creed so shall a priest or two use the wrong words. It has been only three weeks since the new translation was put in to use and not everyone has had the time to study/learn the about the changes. I’m on an RCIA team and my wife teaches 3rd year PRE; thus, we’ve been exposed to the new translation alot more than most people. However, one thing to study it, a different thing to actually use the new translation while under “pressure.”

Even I’ve made a mistake, the Lord forgives.
Orans Position:
If you search this site for that, you will turn up a ton of messages.
The GIRM does NOT have any instruction concerning the faithful and the Orans Position while reciting the “Our Father” as a “free-will” gesture. Period.
Nor are th USCCB any help with which way to go… only this:
usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/liturgical-resources/posture/orans-or-open-hand-prayer-posture.cfm
This is the one place during the Liturgy of the Eucharist where the priest is not acting in a “presidential” capacity on the behalf of the faithful. Instead, BOTH the priest AND the faithful recite the “Our Father.” I will let better people than I argue the pros and cons of the faithful using this position. IMHO you need to inquire with the Pastor of that parish and if not happy with the answer, then contact the Diocesan office as to the Bishop’s instructions regarding this act.
I know that there are several priests on this website and EWTN that are using well reasoned arguments against the faithful using the position. However, unless and until the local Bishop gives instructions one-way or the other OR the Vatican makes a clear statement, then I don’t see an issue.
Holding hands… I heard it’s an abuse, I know as a family we have held hands

however, not as a “kum-bye-yah” type action but more as a family in unity. I’ve been trying to stop the handholding; however, eight-year-old girls don’t always listen to their father and it’s not worth the argument during the Mass… and she’s a child… “… suffer not the children to come unto me…” good enough for our Lord, more than good for me. Besides a unified Family is special… Marrage is a Sacrement and the family created thereof is thru the grace of God…
Merry Christmas!