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KellyPalmer
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Beautiful response – I agree! I’m probably not doing a good job of expressing myself but if it may help, I’m not trying to pit these ideas against each other. Rather I am suggesting that they are one in the same.A classical definition of prayer is “lifting of the heart and mind to God”. That is our primary task as Mass. We pray in community, but not focused primarily on each other, yet aware we are all focused, together, on the Lord. As we receive His presence in Mass, whether in the Real Presence of Holy Communion or his spiritual presence, we are filled with supernatural charity. This cannot help but spill out to our neighbor. This “spilling out” is reflected in a reserved and gentle “sign of peace”, and in hearty and heartfelt greetings after Mass. There is no conflict between focusing on God during Mass, and being kind and loving to each other after Mass. To the contrary, God’s love, and our love for him, is what allows us to love our neighbor. Some people don’t want to socialize after Mass, perhaps out of shyness, perhaps they are not socially inclined. But true prayer and reflection on God is not the cause of their reticence, it is the cure. Everyone is made a better person through contact with the living God. If you have a more outgoing personality, perhaps you could help draw some of these people out in conversation.
I’m certainly not outgoing at all, the opposite in fact! I don’t suggest that those who are should do anything in particular above those who aren’t, because that’s not the cure. Focusing on God is the cure. But first we must understand what it means to focus on God and who He is. And what that means in relation to the members of His Body.