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Also, I’m thinking of asking her to just massage the body parts that are bothering me, which tend to be my neck, shoulders, upper and middle back. I don’t see any reason the massage my feet, since they are totally healthy and don’t bother me at all.
Ah, don’t forget you are on your feet all day, and this part of your body gets the most abuse, even though your feet feel fine, a lot of bodily stress can be attributed to problems in the feet. Take for instance jumping bare footed on a hard floor, you will obviously feel pain on the sole’s of your feet; but as the days go by your neck and shoulders will begin to give you trouble, so you can see that pain in one particular area may not have originally began there.
Also the feet and hands in holistic medicine are considered to be conductors for where meridians can begin and end and you also have a lot of acupressure points in the feet and there will be a lot of nerve ending in the feet also.
When I do my treatments I send magnetic waves up through the feet and the person having the treatment can felt them.
Also, do you buy the theory that we store specific past traumas in our cell memory and that talking about them during a massage helps release them? I felt like she was too probing about my personal past, when I mentioned sleeping in one position as a kid due to being afraid of someone entering the room through a particular door. I’m not sure if my discomfort is due to my not wanting to deal with the past, or that I really don’t care to revisit it, since it’s a boring and tiresome subject to me that I’ve mostly put behind me.
I believe we can subconsciously lock traumatic experiences away in our minds so that we do not have to deal with it. But my concern is that is she a qualified psychiatrist, psychologist or counsellor; if not then I do not think she should be attempting to unlock this part of the human mind. And most importantly if you feel uncomfortable with it then tell her, as she is not supposed to cause distress in treatments.
A lot of these types of treatments involve a spiritual aspect behind them, and even though some good benefits may come from them in regards a healthy bodily system, you have to ask yourself what else is she doing to you.
Take for instance yoga, many people benefit from the stretching and exercises it offers, but there is also a spiritual side to it.
I would ask her exactly what she is doing to you and what are her beliefs are in regards to your treatment.
Also make sure she has had some sort of training, as a wrong massage movement can be disastrous, check if she has insurance for professional indemnity and malpractice and whether she belongs to a professional body.
Did you have a consultation with her where she asked about your medical history, I know in the UK this is law and all therapists must give all their clients a consultation to make sure that the treatment they are offering does not harm the person; it is also required for insurance purposes. And did she say how many treatments would be required before you feel an improvement.
In the end it is up to you and how you feel morally regarding your treatment.
I hope this helped a bit.