Big difference, itās not just āin the newsā, itās the in news with people being charged and convicted to typically long sentences for what amount to high level felonies. And rightly so, pedophilia, child molestation, etc⦠are crimes against children. If itās one thing societies tend to abhor itās crimes and violence against children. These types of crimes are often quite analogous with rape in terms of how society views them (indeed because some forms of pedophilia actually are statutory rape). Acts in the spectrum around pedophilia are not particularly analogous with two consenting adults having a relationship with each other regardless of the sex of the two parties.