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The post you refer to was my attempt to place the discusion in the overall context of the ideal vs reality. We all know that life can become quite messy. I was glad that Chaz got some good from it and hope others gain a better perspective as well. Having said that it remains, as always, one persons take on the subject.We seem to be working from different defnitions of “good”
That was no “fully justified and sound conclusion.” It wasn’t even a conclusion! James opened his post by saying essentially “the Church says so”, a statement you’ve been dismissing for 3 days now. In fact, what you’re happy about is that James doesn’t say for sure what he’d do.
James, you’re a good man, and I have every confidence that the Lord with guide you properly. I’m not ragging on you, just saying that your post doesn’t really give a conclusion that hasn’t been given before.
Back to the post…ALL suffering is redemptive, and it doesn’t matter whether it is physical or metal, emotional, or spiritual. This is the good that suffering produces. Frankly, I can’t think of a single direct worldly good that suffering produces. It’s all redemptive, salvific, purgative.
I would like to explore briefly the statement, “ALL suffering is redemptive…”
While I won’t dispute this statement it does raise certain questions. For instance, if suffering is redemptive why is “Palative” care, that is care to make one comfortable and alleviate pain and suffering acceptable. Doesn’t that negate, to some degree, the redemptive value of the suffering God has sent to a person? Are we not interfering with God’s desire to purify this person in this life through suffering?
Understand here, I am not arguing for total non-intervention, but simply posing the question/premise that, if ending a life is wrong based on the idea of redemptive suffering, then ANY intervention in that suffering could be viewed as equally wrong for it interferes with God’s plan for that person.
The realm of “end of life” issues, is full of pitfalls and and minefields like this. The best any of us can do is to try to understand the Church’s teachings on the matter, Pray hard to our Lord for guidance, Love and care for our Loved one as best we know how and then follow our conscience.
I speak as one who has watched my father slowly die of Alzheimers and am now caring for my beautiful wife, afflicted with the same horrible disease. I pray that God will guide me to do what is best for my lady, in accordance with His Will as He gives me the grace to see that Will.
Peace
James