Your experience with NFP?

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re: what Pug said

yeah what you said Pug! This aspect of NFP- where I’m not just having relations when I feel like it has been a good thing. It’s made me develop more as a person-- being less selfish? Learning to respond with love and not lust?
I think you have to be approaching the abstinance/ chastity with the right mindset-- that you are learning something here, that you are learning more about sex and what a gift it is.
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kirabira:
the right mindset-- that you are learning something here, that you are learning more about sex and what a gift it is.
–K
I’m a stubborn sort, and it took a long period of abstinence before I started to learn its lessons, but they are there in spades. I began to think about, “what is my sexuality about,” and, “why are we created male and female,” and even more, “why is it not good for man to be alone.” I thankfully no longer just blithely assume that married people just have sex and so that is what I’ll do to, because I’m married and so, well, that’s what I’ll do. My brain is now slightly trained to think about the subject.

As long as I am talking, I’ll point out my favorite thing to say. Chastity equals clarity of mind.
 
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