Why can’t a parent teach their children calculus, algebra, physics or biology? If you are able to read, you can figure it out. School Teachers are not all knowing geniuses, and normal parents are not dupes.
Public schooling is getting worse, but it was a bad system from the start- by design. Perhaps we produced the men who put us on the moon, because public schools had not been in effect long enough to have done as much damage. It’s a cumulative effect. If you go to a dumbed down school, and then become a teacher, and teach new children at the dumbed down school (as a dumbed down teacher) they will do even more poorly and learn even less. The problem grows with each generation.
Social skills are very important. A setting where everyone is the same age, is not the best for socialization. A child can’t learn to be an adult from a roomful of other children. I will say socialization with other children is important as well, and is something that can and does happen quite naturally as part of homeschooling. Actually, it’s easier because you can go out and do things as a family and with other families, because you have more time because your children aren’t tied up in school all day for 180 days a year.
The old “if you love them too much they’ll rebel” argument. Say I’m going to move to a new house, and I pack up my wife’s fine china. It’s precious. It’s fragile. It might break. Even if I pack it gently in packing paper, label the box fragile, and am extremely careful with it during the move…it STILL might break. So since it might break anyway, should I simply pack it any old which way? Of course not. A child’s soul is infinitely more precious then a piece of the finest china. I am called to protect it and love it the best I can. It still might turn away from God at some point, that doesn’t mean I protect it any the less.
I have not said I’m agains the state. I’m against the state acting in an uncharitable way or exceeding its authority (which would also be uncharitable). That is in line with Church teaching. A blank check to government and a belief that any institution which comes from it is good, is not in line with Church teaching.
I am glad you made it through school with your morals intact. God is merciful and loving. Not everyone placed in an occasion of sin falls. Many who fall repent. Not everyone in the village when the hurricane hits dies. That doesn’t mean I should send my kids to the beach right before landfall.
I am not a big fan of Catholic schools either, so you will not hear a defense of them from me. In many cases, Catholic schools are more damaging to a child’s faith then government schools. I went to both growing up, and the Catholic schools I attended were worse. In the words of Archbishop Fulton Sheen:
If you want your children to fight for their faith, send them to public school. If you want them to lose their faith, send them to Catholic school.’"
The problem with the Archbishop’s advice is that the fight in public schools is one where the deck is stacked against the child, so I’d add another line- if you want your children to live the faith, homeschool them.
Pax and God Bless.