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Marie5890
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Paternal were Catholic.
Maternal were a combo of Episcopal and Catholic.
Maternal were a combo of Episcopal and Catholic.
I understand why it would seem strange to you then. Peace!True indeed. It probably seems strange to me just because my dad’s family, who are adamant about their faith, would never attend a church that they did not agree with. I often find myself trying to explain to them why some mass attending Catholics they know are so hypocritical. They see it as proof that Catholicism is off base.
Rita, that is quite a background indeed! I’ve thus far enjoyed reading all of our different experiences too. So nice to do so without huge debate too. Just sharing family experiences and traditions. Thanks OP for the thread. Indeed God bless all!My mother and father both grew up in homes where very little church activity happened. My father’s mother came from a Scottish background but there was only a Congregational church in the area and that became the focal point of social and religious activities. My dad’s father was not involved in a church although I have a link (in my genealogy research) that his mother was active in a Lutheran church in their area. Mind you this was Northern Michigan in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s. My mother’s family were not committed Christians involved in any church. Mom became a Christian thru a televised Billy Graham Crusade and started to be active in the local Baptist Church until my dad became angry about the amount of time she spent there - even accusing her of going because she loved the pastor. She never went back to church as she promised herself that she would only go to church when Dad did.
We children (7 of us) rode a Sunday School bus to church and had wonderful Sunday School teachers but, for me, I was a very anxious child and the yelling and raising of voice in the sermon always scared me. When we moved up to where my father grew up (where I live now) we attended the same Congregational Church my grandmother did as a young girl. I did not like it and would not become baptized because that meant becoming a member of that church. I could not become a member at that church feeling as I did, not understanding the reality of what baptism truly was.
As a young adult, I followed my oldest sister (who had married a Lutheran) to the local LCMS church. I went thru the member’s class twice because I had never heard the message so clearly given as to how much Christ loved us- so much that He died on that Cross taking my sins and the sins of everyone with Him on that cross. It was such an easy step to become baptized and then to experience the sacrament of Holy Communion. What a freeing experience!!
As to how my family thought? I think they didn’t really have too many issues - of course the baptism was not immersion and we had some family “debates” for many years and then the debate of communion being either the True Presence or done in memory of Christ. We learned to accept each other as the years went by. At this time out of the 7, I have 2 siblings going to fundamental non-denominational churches, one going to Free Methodist, one who is a fundamentalist but is ill with agoraphobia, 2 not involved with any church and, then myself as the only Lutheran. How’s that for background and a mixture ----
Can’t wait to read others’ experiences.
God bless, all!
Rita
LOLCatholic all sides as far as all family knowledge is concerned. I have sometimes thought that probably the last non-Catholic ancestors I had worshipped oak trees and painted their faces blue.![]()
I don’t know what the Presbyterians claim about who is and is not Presbyterian. But if your mother was baptized in a Catholic church or received into the CC, I do just think it is important to note that the Catholic Church claims and considers your mother to be Catholic too. So I don’t know but maybe that could be why she makes the same claim.Brought up by secularists who claim to be Christian. I can’t really consider my parents Christian considering they never taught me about God nor did we ever go to church. Though my mother claims to be Catholic and my Dad claims to be Presbyterian.
I suppose you’re asking everyone…What is it?
Not the denomination or church you attend now, but the religious affiliation your family is connected to and you were raised in. Your parents or grandparents.
Both sides of my family were Catholic. But I have a feeling my mothers side might have been Orthodox or even Jewish in the past.
What was your family’s reaction when you cut yourself off from that heritage?