All who are in Heaven are Saints are they not?- I am being a little facetious but why not pray for your Grandmother to intercede for you-? Do you believe that an identified Saint by any of the Sacramental Churches has a better connection to the Divine? -I never got the concept of why someone would pray to say St.Polycarp-who surely does not know you rather than to Jesus directly
It’s not uncommon for non-Catholics, and even some Catholics, to not understand a Catholic’s devotion to a Saint. But it is definitely biblical. For example, Jesus’ first miracle was prompted by the intercession of Mary. There are numerous stories of people coming, not to Jesus directly, but because of their humility, to His disciples, requesting help. They intercede, and Jesus acts, for their sake, and for the ones asking for help. Also, during the days of the Jewish monarchy, people approached the king most frequently through those in the king’s court, and in some cases, through the king’s mother.
Hebrews gives us a clear indication that we have a great “cloud of witnesses” that are watching us run the race, cheering us on. How are they cheering us on, if not in their prayers? So the Saints might know you better than you think, for they see God face to face, as He is, and in that, could easily be shown who you are better than you yourself can perceive it. Plus, having already run the race, and battled against the same temptations and tribulations that you do today, they can relate to you better than you think. Don’t assume that your path is wholly unique, or that what you’re experiencing is unlike what anyone has ever experienced before. We are humans, and we experience the same things, to one degree or another.
Moreover, if you studied the saints, you might get to know them quite well. Saint Faustina, for example, is one that I think I know quite well, after reading her diary. If you studied them, you could get to know them very well. This is an aspect of the communion of saints which the Catholic church teaches. It’s a communion that goes much deeper than non-Catholics, and even some Catholics, realize.
For me, there is an often un-spoken aspect of humbling ourselves when praying to the Saints for intercession. There is no doubt that their prayers are much more effective than ours, since they are completely righteous and pure, and we are not (yet, hopefully).