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benedictgal
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I admit to being a tad bit strange, but, I do remember my First Holy Communion Day. My grandma and stepgrandfather made the trip from Austin to attend. My maternal grandparents were also there, as were my favorite aunt and other relatives. The music was traditional “At that First Eucharist” and such. We received First Holy Communion kneeling at the communion rail and on the tongue. This was in 1976. After Mass, my parents took me to the chapel of our Salesian school so that I could personally thank Mary Help of Christians. My second grade teacher, a nun, was waiitng for me at the chapel and she gave me a hug. And yes, I remember the date: May 2, 1976. You can’t tell me that for some, these things don’t stay in the memory banks.Just something to think about.
I asked my son, age 13, about the songs at his First Communion. He is being Confirmed this year. He is an Altar Server. We home school. He attends daily Mass at least once a week. He seems to be the “on call” Altar server for funerals. And we are pretty traditional. (minus the Latin.) Just to give you an idea of where we stand.
He doesn’t remember any of the songs. He really doesn’t remember anything about the day.
Now, at the time, we attended a VERY liberal church. They had some of the children around the altar during the consecration!! There were songs with hand/arm movements. The children made the bread for communion.And that wasn’t all.
BUT he doesn’t remember any of it. Now, I know that it is a very important day. But we also need to remember that the children are 7 or 8 and in a few years, they won’t remember it.