I had been blessed with to very faithfilled grandmother. One was Catholic and the other Protestant. Neither of them were superstitious that I knew of. Except for one story.
My mother was a little girl and at the time stores and movie theaters would attract customers with door prizes. Church bazaars did the same thing! I grew up hearing stories about cake walks, even hotel ballroom Stanley Home products events. One I heard recently was about when my mom was about six years old she won a door prize. Normally this would have gone straight into a hope chest for her future marriage. Yes even at such a tender age they were starting to fill up a hope chest. One of her aunt’s friends hounded her that evening to gift her one of the pieces. So to please her aunt my mom gifted it to her.
My grandmother told her,” You gave your luck away!” Now my grandmother might have only meant this one item, one time, but my mom took it to heart. I was a little surprised because I had never seen my grannie say anything like that. But I grew up hearing how my mom wasn’t lucky. Often! Well I asked her about this the last time she said it, and that story I just wrote came out. But the fact is she then went on to tell me about three other times in her life she won prizes. I had to point this out to her. Chance won prizes. She’s ‘lucky’ enough!
I then had to point out how all of her adult children, me included, managed to survive our formative years. Car accidents, bad companions, stupid mistakes… Luck or Grace?
There is chance, sometimes no good explanation at all just being in the right or wrong place.
I have always been uneasy when I’ve heard, “There must be a reason…” behind some awful event. Some deeper meaning when a person gets a horrible medical diagnosis, or a flood washes away their home.
No, no good answer is enough.
But God can bring something good out of our misfortunes. That rotten chance. I can’t always see it. New opportunities when we are unemployed, new friends when we are displaced.
We have Hope as Christians.