Your postings are wonderful. Let’s take the music issue. Ask in the most solemn and tactful manner “why do so many Protestant parishes have such better singing and music than we do?” and the canned response will almost invariably be “but they don’t have the Eucharist!”
What?
I believe mentioning the God-given gifts we Catholics enjoy is a way not to address our own shortcomings as Catholics. Yes we have the Eucharist! One would think that would help to ensure our singing/music would be BETTER than anytone elses and not an excuse for poor music/singing!
I think in many ways Catholics are LAZY when it comes to things like music and fellowship – both take a great amount of WORK. I also suspect the entrenched politics surrounding Catholic parishes might be a bit heavier than most Protestant parishes in terms of music and fellowship ministries – but I really don’t know for sure. Then again so many are so hardened from how they have been mistreated for the past half century or so. They’re survivors – ticket punchers and they want out of Mass ASAP each Sunday.
I do know this. If the Choir from St. Pete’s visiting the Mass I attend followed by a free catered gourmet breakfast from the best Restaurant in town in our own parish hall, the feedback would likely be “the choir made the Mass 10 minutes longer!” as they marched like drones to their vehicles, oblivious to the people motioning them into the parish hall.