I think you may be attributing more intent to peopleās words than are actually there. If you pull out select, unqualified words from peopleās postings, you might be able to twist a conclusion that people donāt like people with small families or single parents at the EF. However, there were qualifications made in the same posting, and in follow-on posts that expressed entirely the opposite view that you seem to have ignored.
Nobody would ever look at someone with a small family at our EF parish in a bad way.Nor would they express any disapproval of a single parent or really anyone. Are you basing your view from actual experience at the EF Mass or stories from others?
However, I have noticed that those who attend the EF Mass has a tendency to be more quiet and introverted, perhaps even a little shy. Maybe you are interpreting reserve for disapproval.
As far as the EF being more reverent than the OF, that is peopleās opinion. They have expressed their opinion and given reasons why they have that opinion. If you find the OF is more reverent than the EF that is fine too, and you are welcome to give your reasons.
And who said it was a competition? Just because the youth seem to prefer the EF Mass, (and we find more of them there every Sunday) doesnāt mean that the OF is not as good. It just doesnāt appeal to them. In most cases I think it is the way the OF is celebrated, not the actual form of the OF. Donāt you think itās worth looking at why? Weāre talking about keeping the young people in the Church and what is the best way to appeal to them.