10 Rules for Talking to Gays

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If we agree to their terms, then we must accept their lifestyle as 100% holy. The homosexual agenda has redefined “tolerance” to mean that if you do not accept their lifestyle, you are hateful. We are not allowed to disagree with them.
Since when did they want it to be ‘holy’?
Watch how the term “sexual orientation” is being redefined at every chance, to accept more “lifestyles” than the homosexual agenda pushed for in the beginning. In Denmark, there is a pedophile political party, and they have 20% of the legislature at this point. All because of what “sexual orientation” means today, and what will it mean tomorrow?
WOW! That’s amazing! I haven’t heard a joke like that in years. Oh hang on, you were serious. Source please or apologise to the Danes?
Pay attention to how the homosexual agenda perverts the language to push their agenda.
For the homosexual agenda, language is a game. And ordinary homosexuals bought into it hook, line and stinker. Your typical homosexual actually believes what he/she was told, was true. Brainwashing of the finest order.
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What is an ordinary homosexual? Is that different to a super homosexual? Are the super homosexuals involved in the agenda, the one where they have an underwater base in Lake Nefarious?
 
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The cleansing of the temple must therefore be seen as an act of friendship, a healing act, restoring the temple and the moneychangers and putting them into a right relationship with God and each other.



The temple represents our own hearts which need to be cleansed of all the false things which buy and sell our affections. Moreover, we are the moneychangers–our false egos attached to the things of this world must be driven out in order for Christ to reign in us. Let’s pray that God visit our hearts and cleanse them, that the Key of David open us to receive the graces that he is always showering upon us!
Mark, is active homosexuality something that a heart needs to be cleansed of? are homosexual acts false things which buy and sell our affections?
 
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Then I would say carry out that obligation with great wisdom because if you mis-choose your words or are overly harsh and drive the person even further from God, then you have done no better than someone who simply validates their lifestyle.**

I would not say Jesus was overly harsh in driving the moneychangers from the temple. His method may have had little effect, may even have driven them farther away from God, since it was probably yet another reason why he was made a victim of judicial murder.

Of course your point is well taken. Sodomites are broken people, and they have to be put back together very carefully if they can be put back together at all.

But I think much of the problem with the world today is that outrage has been muffled by political correctness.Christians cannot pray in the classroom, but homosexuality can be advanced by the teachers, and has been advanced to the point of punishing students who object.

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Here’s something I read recently in a book by Richard Rohr:**

Having read one book by Richard Rohr, I have tried not to read any more. 😉
 
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Would you also say the fate of Sodom and Gomorrah also were not examples of the wrath of God?
I would indeed say that it was not, and here’s why: the more we believe that God approves of violence, death or destruction, the easier it is to implicate him in acts which are reflections of our own human orientation toward death on account of Original Sin. The Resurrection teaches us that God has nothing whatsoever to do with death. Nothing. This calls us to a radical re-engagement with Scripture in which we must divorce ourselves entirely from any image of God as a Vengeful Death/War God and cling, instead, to what we know to be the definitive revelation of God’s nature: The Resurrection. In light of the Resurrection, we can see throughout the OT God’s constant calling of us to love, and a consistent inability in us to understand exactly what that means, and we suffer the consequences. We continue to suffer the consequences, the inevitable consequences of Original Sin, until we are dazzled by the light of the Resurrection, the dawning of the Day-Spring, and begin to realize that God is moving us out of Death into Life.
I don’t doubt that Christ’s love compels us to believe in his mercy.
I’d say that God’s love is a completely holy seduction which invites us to live the reality of mercy.
But we must also believe in his justice for what is love if it is not also a just love.
This has been part of my point, Charlemagne–God’s justice is not different from his mercy. God is one. God’s justice* is* his mercy. God’s justice is Jesus Christ.
We have an obligation, in charity, to chastise those who are hell bent on going there.
I don’t think our obligation is chastisement. Our obligation should be loving correction (I’ve written as much earlier in this thread), being martyrs/witnesses of the all-gracious goodness of God, even if (particularly if) that means we must suffer or die with, on behalf of, or on account of those to whom we would witness. Part of my point, and I think part of Melinda’s point in offering us these 10 “rules” is to try to separate our zeal to be instruments of grace in the conversion of sinners from our zeal to kick sinners in the pants or beat them over the head with the Truth (as if such a thing could actually be done without doing harm to the Truth!) in order to chastise them for being so blatantly wrong–all that does is separate us from our brothers and sisters, because all it does is act out our own “rightness” in the face of their “wrongness.”
What is love if it never chastises the sinner, but leaves him to congratulate himself on his sins? :confused:
Instead of chastisement, did not Jesus occupy the place of sin and death for us, becoming a curse for us in order to lead us into blessing? And is that not part of what Jesus is telling us to do, how Jesus is teaching us to behave, when he breaks the bread and says, “Do this,” or when he tells us that we must take up our cross and follow him? That is far removed from leaving a sinner to congratulate himself on his sins, and it’s a way of being in relationship with each other that is also not a way of chastisement, but a way of completely self-giving love. That is our difficult and most noble high calling.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
Deo

**I don’t think our obligation is chastisement. **

Then you disagree not only with Jesus, who chastised the moneylenders, but also with Paul, who publicly chastised the Corinthians.

“It is widely reported that there is immorality among you, and immorality of a kind not found even among pagans—a man living with his father’s wife. And you are inflated with pride. Should you not rather have been sorrowful? The one who did this deed should be expelled from your midst. I for my part, although absent in body but present in spirit, have already, as if present, pronounced judgment on the one who has committed this deed….” (1 Corinthians 5:1-4)
 
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Mark, is active homosexuality something that a heart needs to be cleansed of? are homosexual acts false things which buy and sell our affections?
I would say that the habitual desires to abuse ourselves and others are the things that buy and sell our affections and of which we must be cleansed, and that the RCC (which, let’s be clear, does not identify homosexual affection in itself with such abusive desires) teaches that homosexual acts are outgrowths of those abusive desires. I will be honest in saying that I, personally, can only affirm that homosexual acts can be outgrowths of those abusive desires, but I cannot affirm that they must be. Moreover it’s clear that anyone who wishes to be faithful to the RCC position on this should affirm what the RCC affirms. I understand and further think it entirely legitimate that people who do so affirm the RCC position will necessarily believe that my own position does not go far enough.

(And let it be known that I am not advocating my position as I’ve articulated it in this post here in this thread–believe it or not, it’s been some time since I think I’ve advocated my position in these forums generally, though many folks, I came to realize later, thought otherwise.)

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
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I would say that the habitual desires to abuse ourselves and others are the things that buy and sell our affections and of which we must be cleansed, and that the RCC (which, let’s be clear, does not identify homosexual affection in itself with such abusive desires) teaches that homosexual acts are outgrowths of those abusive desires. I will be honest in saying that I, personally, can only affirm that homosexual acts can be outgrowths of those abusive desires, but I cannot affirm that they must be. Moreover it’s clear that anyone who wishes to be faithful to the RCC position on this should affirm what the RCC affirms. I understand and further think it entirely legitimate that people who do so affirm the RCC position will necessarily believe that my own position does not go far enough.

(And let it be known that I am not advocating my position as I’ve articulated it in this post here in this thread–believe it or not, it’s been some time since I think I’ve advocated my position in these forums generally, though many folks, I came to realize later, thought otherwise.)

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
What, pray tell, is “homosexual affection”?
 
The best thing to say is that homosexuality cannot satisfy the deepest longings of the human heart. That is true and I think gay people actually understand this.
 
Since when did they want it to be ‘holy’?
Ever hear of the word ‘metaphor’? Now go find your dictionary…
What is an ordinary homosexual? Is that different to a super homosexual? Are the super homosexuals involved in the agenda, the one where they have an underwater base in Lake Nefarious?
Your jokes are now banal. This issue has been covered by many others and they have been allowed to do so without fear of having someone make snide, sarcastic remarks, as you have done here. You need to apologise.
 
Deo

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!


What happened to Justice? :rolleyes:
 
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Deo

**I don’t think our obligation is chastisement. **

Then you disagree not only with Jesus, who chastised the moneylenders, but also with Paul, who publicly chastised the Corinthians.
Charlemagne, I think the rest of that paragraph which you did not quote is the response to your assertion. I’ll copy it here: “I don’t think our obligation is chastisement. Our obligation should be loving correction (I’ve written as much earlier in this thread), being martyrs/witnesses of the all-gracious goodness of God, even if (particularly if) that means we must suffer or die with, on behalf of, or on account of those to whom we would witness.”

But anyway, assuming that affirming that what both Jesus and Paul did was chastisement, it was certainly not chastisement along the lines of what we often desire to mete out to others when we desire to show them just how wrong they are and how right we are. Too often in us, the desire to chastise others is about gratifying that sense of our own self-righteousness.

Either way, though, I cannot affirm that Jesus’ and Paul’s acts of correction indicate that we have an obligation to chastise. As St. Augustine points out, our one law, our one obligation is to love.

I think you’re missing the point of my recent posts, Charlemagne. It seems like you’re very convinced that my position appears too soft, perhaps because it doesn’t see much value in an image of a God who smites us all the time and who invites us to smite each other, too. I would ask you to reconsider what those words you didn’t quote actually mean, however, and then determine whether or not the way I’m advocating is lightweight. I’ll copy them here one more time:

Our obligation should be loving correction (I’ve written as much earlier in this thread), being martyrs/witnesses of the all-gracious goodness of God, even if (particularly if) that means we must suffer or die with, on behalf of, or on account of those to whom we would witness.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
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Deo

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!


What happened to Justice? :rolleyes:
My suspicion that you’re missing the point of my posts is confirmed. I dealt with this in a very recent post. Here’s what I wrote:

God’s justice is not different from his mercy. God is one. God’s justice is his mercy. God’s justice is Jesus Christ.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
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Deo_Volente:
As in your past posts and in so many words, you find justification and comfort in personal interpretation of Scripture in order for you not to concede to the consequence of homosexual acts.

I am not trying to be rude here, but why do you continue to convince members in the forum of only the parts in Scripture and in Catholic teaching that you like? You are not even Catholic, but you are ever offering your readings of Catholic teaching as an ‘Anglican in the Anglo-Catholic tradition.’ True, there are many areas where we share from a common faith and tradition. But Catholics don’t share your individual readings leading you to believe that unrepented homosexual acts are somehow exempted from consequence as it affects eternal life. In an earlier post where Michelle asked you if you deny there is a hell, I have to say that I also had the same question because your discourse on it suggested a denial of hell. Further, I do not share your singular view that people in this forum are trying to find an excuse to be cruel. Yes, we get what Melinda’s list is saying and some of her points are in fact arguable.

As far as what you pose here that it is not the obligation of Catholics to offer fraternal correction, then don’t accept it. But don’t think chastisement in charity should be skipped so others do not have to read it in this forum because of your bias. Your bias has been made clear no matter how much you cloud the issue on homosexual expression of love, vis-à-vis the authentic message of the bible and instruction from the Catholic faith.

The candle has to be lighted to see the darkness of homosexual sins.
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What, pray tell, is “homosexual affection”?
It means something like “feeling love toward someone of the same sex to whom one is attracted.” I had in mind the “homosexual inclination” of which the catechism speaks (and which is not condemned as sin) when I wrote it.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
But anyway, assuming that affirming that what both Jesus and Paul did was chastisement, it was certainly not chastisement along the lines of what we often desire to mete out to others when we desire to show them just how wrong they are and how right we are. Too often in us, the desire to chastise others is about gratifying that sense of our own self-righteousness.
What a horrible set of assumptions to make about anyone who would “chastise” another. The most abvious assumption is that the correction of another is based on personal ego and has nothing to do with right or wrong. Based on that assumption, we may as all shut up shop and go home.
Either way, though, I cannot affirm that Jesus’ and Paul’s acts of correction indicate that we have an obligation to chastise. As St. Augustine points out, our one law, our one obligation is to love.
You cannot affirm a documented action of the Saviour you state you follow, yet you can affirm the teachings of a theologian!? That will allow you to be very seletive in what you believe, wont it?

Jesus’s actions in the Temple showed that even His toleration had its limits; that some things can not be tolerated. Surely, you don’t need to be a rocket scientist to understand that?
 
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It means something like “feeling love toward someone of the same sex to whom one is attracted.” I had in mind the “homosexual inclination” of which the catechism speaks (and which is not condemned as sin) when I wrote it.
So why the equivocation?

Indeed the Catechism does not categorise “homosexual inclination” as a sin. It states, unequivocally, " This inclination, which is objectively disordered.…"

However, your own personal definition would even include me with my love towards my brothers. I find them attractive as men and men to be admired. I have written of this on other occasions. The thing is, there is no sexual element to our relationships. None whatsoever. Yet your definition would describe it as a “homosexual affection”.

I think what you had in mind in the first place, “homosexual inclination” is more apt.

It is apt because it is honest.
 
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I am not trying to be rude here, but why do you continue to convince members in the forum of only the parts in Scripture and in Catholic teaching that you like?
I’m sorry you get that impression.
But Catholics don’t share your individual readings leading you to believe that unrepented homosexual acts are somehow exempted from consequence as it affects eternal life.
InSearch, I don’t recall when I expressed an “individual reading” which stated that “unrepented homosexual acts are …] exempted from consequences.” I’ve tried to stay far away from a discussion of homosexual acts because I’m well aware, in these forums, that that dog won’t hunt. I understand, though, that you think that all I’ve been saying has been one long sad justification of homosexual acts. But that’s not what I’ve been arguing. At all.
In an earlier post where Michelle asked you if you deny there is a hell, I have to say that I also had the same question because your discourse on it suggested a denial of hell.
I’m unaware of where I might have given you the impression that I denied the real existence of hell.
Further, I do not share your singular view that people in this forum are trying to find an excuse to be cruel.
Read what I’ve written, InSearch. I’ve not been speaking categorically when I’ve been speaking of cruelty. I’ve not even been accusing anyone here of cruelty. My impression has been that when someone questions chastisement as valuable always and everywhere and with everyone–particularly when it’s pointed out that, on account of our own sin, chastisement so often becomes more valuable to the self-conception of the one chastising than to the one being chastised–many folks here seem to feel like their right to chastise with impunity is being threatened (as if such a thing even existed in the first place), and that Christianity is being emasculated. I find such reactions puzzling, if not downright troubling, for the reasons I’ve written.
As far as what you pose here that it is not the obligation of Catholics to offer fraternal correction, then don’t accept it.
Let’s stick to the terms I’ve used so that we make sure I’m saying what I’ve actually said. I’ve never said anything against fraternal correction. Indeed, what I’ve called “loving correction” in previous posts would probably be better called “fraternal correction.”
But don’t think chastisement in charity should be skipped so others do not have to read it in this forum because of your bias.
I think you will discover that I have simply emphasized the “charity” part of “chastisement in charity.” You’ll also discover that I never said that loving correction/fraternal correction/chastisement in charity should be skipped.
Your bias has been made clear
Indeed, I hope it has been, though from this post of yours, I fear just the opposite is the case.
The candle has to be lighted to see the darkness of homosexual sins.
Good! I hope that the light of that candle is a bit more generous, though, and allows us to see all of our sins.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
Deo

It seems like you’re very convinced that my position appears too soft, perhaps because it doesn’t see much value in an image of a God who smites us all the time and who invites us to smite each other, too.

I guess it’s a tad presumptuous of you (pardon the chastisement) to chastise me and others who never said they believed in “a God who smites us all the time and who invites us to smite each other” as if it were a full time occupation. D
 
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However, your own personal definition would even include me with my love towards my brothers.
John, I think context would make it clear that that wasn’t what I was talking about…
I think what you had in mind in the first place, “homosexual inclination” is more apt.
You’re probably right. Thanks, John.
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John21652:
What a horrible set of assumptions to make about anyone who would “chastise” another.
It wasn’t an assumption–it was a caution. Call it a fraternal caution.
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John21652:
The most abvious assumption is that the correction of another is based on personal ego and has nothing to do with right or wrong. Based on that assumption, we may as all shut up shop and go home.
I think you’ve misread me, John. I’ve spoken in favor of loving correction. You can see as much in my replies to Charlemagne and InSearch.
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John21652:
You cannot affirm a documented action of the Saviour you state you follow, yet you can affirm the teachings of a theologian!?
Again, you’ve misread me, John. Here’s what I wrote:

Either way, though, I cannot affirm that Jesus’ and Paul’s acts of correction indicate that we have an obligation to chastise. As St. Augustine points out, our one law, our one obligation is to love.

I think you’re missing the point of my recent posts, Charlemagne. It seems like you’re very convinced that my position appears too soft, perhaps because it doesn’t see much value in an image of a God who smites us all the time and who invites us to smite each other, too. I would ask you to reconsider what those words you didn’t quote actually mean, however, and then determine whether or not the way I’m advocating is lightweight. I’ll copy them here one more time:

Our obligation should be loving correction (I’ve written as much earlier in this thread), being martyrs/witnesses of the all-gracious goodness of God, even if (particularly if) that means we must suffer or die with, on behalf of, or on account of those to whom we would witness.

Where have I not affirmed the actions of either Jesus or Paul? And how does St. Augustine assert anything against either Jesus or Paul?
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John21652:
Jesus’s actions in the Temple showed that even His toleration had its limits; that some things can not be tolerated
When did I deny that? My point has been to see the cleansing of the Temple within the context of the great act of love accomplished on the cross. It’s strange and incredibly ironic to me that simply stating such a thing–which is so clear in John’s version of the story–should move people to suggest one way or another that I’m not affirming Our Lord as I should or am attempting to deceive people through wicked interpretations of scripture. It’s a bit baffling, actually! But ah well. C’est la vie.

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
VERO CRAS!
 
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