Those homosexuals has made their own choice in life.
In conscientiously subscribing to the life-identity of being "homosexual? Correct.
However, be aware that the mainstream does not even allow for people with same-sex attraction to KNOW that they have the capability to choose a life identity that is not centered on sexuality (such as being a “human being with same-sex attraction”, instead of being a “homosexual human being”.
But young people are confused.
Absolutely. But when you come to a Catholic forum and find threads like these, whose very title implies that even Catholic people do not recognize the absolute necessity of separating the homosexual attraction from the homosexual identity, then it should not be a surprise as to why they are confused - because there is a huge absence of proper teaching on the manner, and in the meantime, they are getting brainwashed by our culture. The remedy is in every single one of us picking up the cross on this matter, whether it applies to you directly or not, for allowing the absence of proper teaching on this matter, only aids the promotion of society’s corruption.
At this point of time, those homosexuals, in my opinion, their feelings or even their salvation is not of any priority ( may God forgive me for saying this). At this point of time, the whole human race is at stake, future generation is the bet should we allow homosexuality chance our humanity.
Excuse me for sounding abrupt, but you have to come to terms with not referring to people as “homosexual” people, for in that, you mask the difference between homosexual identity (which people conscientiously choose) and homosexual attraction (which people do not conscientiously choose). For that reason, any point of view that you have regarding the topic of homosexuality is also not capable of reflecting the fullness of truth, because you are embedding a contradiction in your own language.
If Catholic people DO NOT come to terms with this, then do not be surprised to see the faith pushed underground, or compromised.
It is as clear as day: the one word “homosexual” is not good enough.
Secondly , you are darn right our future is at stake. but unless we get our act together, we are all part of the problem. There is no greater force upon the Catholic Church than the pro-homosexual movement, which now has youth-turned-adults backing them.
Those who has made the wrong choice, may they repent. If not then, I will still speak the truth. The truth will sounds hard even I try to sugarcoat it (I really don’t mind to sugarcoat it so long it still means the same thing) for none can hide from from the truth with or without sugarcoat.
Amen.
However, many same-sex attracted people identify as “homosexual” people, because that is the only option that they have been presented as possible. This is not however the case. They could identify as a unicorn if they truly wanted to. It is their free will that is being exercised. But, they have been taught that they must assume that identity in order to discover truth in their lives. Let me ask you this: How does one discover truth in their lives when the very identity they embrace contains an intrinsic contradiction of truth; the contradiction that sexual attraction (no free choice) and sexual identity (free choice) can be legitimately washed together as non-distinct items?
These people need to know their rights as human beings! When I discovered this freedom in the Lord, by disengaging from one identity and transforming it into the identity of being a child of God (with same-sex attraction), it was as though chains were lifted off me immediately. Guess what - not all people with same-sex attraction WANT to have same-sex attraction, let alone identify as a “homosexual” person! Do your part and refrain from using that intrinsically corrupt term.
Surely one to one approach should be different than speaking in forums.
A person can talk until they are blue in the face, but unless a person is sincerely willing to open their ears, heart, mind, and soul to the Lord, there will be no transformation (and that is not an overnight thing either). For that reason, we must make sure that when talking to homosexual-IDENTIFIED people (that is an example of using a clarifier to the word “homosexual”), we make sure that they know they are safe, loved, and that they will be listened to, provided that it is a fair and honest two-way street of dialogue.
If that is not going to happen, you still have a role to play, and that is this:
a) PRAY PRAY PRAY that God’s graces may flow into you, and that person, such that God’s will may be done. Note that this is way different than praying for someone to be “straight”.
b) Educate your youth, educate your parish, volunteer in your schools, educate your circles of moms, dads, and whoever else you are circulating with.
If you do not do these things, who will?
And yes, I know this is a demanding call.