This is not about the people. I am struggling to understand how these men, with all their years in seminary, their calling, can have behaved like this. I talk with many folk through my market and other small work, and the dichotomy is dazing. The divide between the families of those who suffered abuse and those who were relatively safe as they lived at home… the grannies who cleaned the churches, warning their grandkids not to use one particular side of the confessional " as he can get at you there.". What got into these men? Unless and until we have a pure priesthood how can anything change? I read the reports, and sometimes find that some priest or order I have trusted has been heavily involved in active abuse. It was a part of everyday life to be coped with. When I meet new friends sometime they are bewildered by it all. The faithful ones stay faithful and as my landlord, a devout and sincere man who pays far more than lip service, says when he finally realises that there has been no exaggeration, no false accusations, " They have let us down," It does not affect HIS faith, And i know many like that who have accepted the corruption and kept faith regardless as their kid have not been harmed. But those who have? The bitterness and anger. The hatred of anything to do with the church or religion. Of Jesus. Sorry; my illness is in relapse and I am struggling not with my faith in Jesus, not with my life of prayer but with the Church here in its present manifestation. The losing of so many souls through the men who were called by God as priests.Pray. Prayer is the only way. Truth brings truth. The people of Ireland have to stop giving lip service to their faith. The devout need to pray MORE. The spiritually vain need to repent. The people of faith have to rise up and take the side of GOD.
Trust God. He will prevail.
The devil targets them.This is not about the people. I am struggling to understand how these men, with all their years in seminary, their calling, can have behaved like this. I talk with many folk through my market and other small work, and the dichotomy is dazing. The divide between the families of those who suffered abuse and those who were relatively safe as they lived at home… the grannies who cleaned the churches, warning their grandkids not to use one particular side of the confessional " as he can get at you there.". What got into these men? Unless and until we have a pure priesthood how can anything change? I read the reports, and sometimes find that some priest or order I have trusted has been heavily involved in active abuse. It was a part of everyday life to be coped with. When I meet new friends sometime they are bewildered by it all. The faithful ones stay faithful and as my landlord, a devout and sincere man who pays far more than lip service, says when he finally realises that there has been no exaggeration, no false accusations, " They have let us down," It does not affect HIS faith, And i know many like that who have accepted the corruption and kept faith regardless as their kid have not been harmed. But those who have? The bitterness and anger. The hatred of anything to do with the church or religion. Of Jesus. Sorry; my illness is in relapse and I am struggling not with my faith in Jesus, not with my life of prayer but with the Church here in its present manifestation. The losing of so many souls through the men who were called by God as priests.
You are aware that this report covers a 50 year period ?
I know exactly how you feel. Growing up in 1960s Ireland, priests had such a privileged and honoured position in the community. My local priest used to take us camping and we used to hang out with him all the time. He was one of the very good guys, a truly holy and good man, but I can imagine how my family would have felt if their trust had been betrayed, as so many peoples trust was betrayed.This is not about the people. I am struggling to understand how these men, with all their years in seminary, their calling, can have behaved like this. I talk with many folk through my market and other small work, and the dichotomy is dazing. The divide between the families of those who suffered abuse and those who were relatively safe as they lived at home… the grannies who cleaned the churches, warning their grandkids not to use one particular side of the confessional " as he can get at you there.". What got into these men? Unless and until we have a pure priesthood how can anything change? I read the reports, and sometimes find that some priest or order I have trusted has been heavily involved in active abuse. It was a part of everyday life to be coped with. When I meet new friends sometime they are bewildered by it all. The faithful ones stay faithful and as my landlord, a devout and sincere man who pays far more than lip service, says when he finally realises that there has been no exaggeration, no false accusations, " They have let us down," It does not affect HIS faith, And i know many like that who have accepted the corruption and kept faith regardless as their kid have not been harmed. But those who have? The bitterness and anger. The hatred of anything to do with the church or religion. Of Jesus. Sorry; my illness is in relapse and I am struggling not with my faith in Jesus, not with my life of prayer but with the Church here in its present manifestation. The losing of so many souls through the men who were called by God as priests.
This isn’t necessarily sexual abuse, but physical, which could mean corporal punishment which was common in Catholic Schools.The Board said that it also received 81 allegations of physical and emotional abuse which had previously been reported to civil authorities by a religious congregation.
So? and yes fully aware… there is no excuse, oh and these are just the new recent revelations atop of the hundreds already revealed so your argument is wide of the mark … There is a more detallied anaysisis on Catholic Ireland that makes this clearer catholicireland.net/nbsccci-annual-report-published/ It takes courage to come forward… It gives hope of closure for victims and for the future. And folkare being careful now. My landlord asked me to drive his little ones to school one day when he was stuck. I had to say no and explain that because I do some church associated work I could not ever be alone with any children. He said he trusted me and i said that this is the new rule because of the abuse. No unrelated person…we have to cleave to the rules nowYou are aware that this report covers a 50 year period ?
Much of it is seen as abuse looked at through the 2015 lens. The corporal punishment that was inflicted at Catholic schools often differed little from what was inflicted at home.This isn’t necessarily sexual abuse, but physical, which could mean corporal punishment which was common in Catholic Schools.
The nuns where my wife went to Catholic School, would be in prison today for what some of them did.
One nun had a bread board made into a paddle, which she beat kids with who were sent to detention after school.
This was physical abuse.
Jim
In 1966 Father wright swatted me with yard stick. based on the criteria for this report I was physical abused and could have reported this 50 year old incident and people would have wagged their tongues about the church abusing childrenSo? and yes fully aware… there is no excuse, oh and these are just the new recent revelations atop of the hundreds already revealed so your argument is wide of the mark … There is a more detallied anaysisis on Catholic Ireland that makes this clearer catholicireland.net/nbsccci-annual-report-published/ It takes courage to come forward… It gives hope of closure for victims and for the future. And folkare being careful now. My landlord asked me to drive his little ones to school one day when he was stuck. I had to say no and explain that because I do some church associated work I could not ever be alone with any children. He said he trusted me and i said that this is the new rule because of the abuse. No unrelated person…we have to cleave to the rules now
It goes back much further than that. In the mid 60s the kids in my school knew that our pastor was molesting altar servers, but the adults in our community either didn’t know or turned a blind eye because, well, he was a priest and a priest just was left alone. It turns out that this priest had first been accused in the late 30s, just a few years after his ordination, but the parents who went to the bishop of the day were castigated for daring to vilify a priest. I found that out when I heard an old man recounting the abuse he endured and what his parents encountered when they reported.As a teacher at a secular school i am also aware of our failures.
lifesitenews.com/news/forgotten-study-abuse-in-school-100-times-worse-than-by-priests
www2.ed.gov/rschstat/research/pubs/misconductreview/report.pdf
I think as Catholics we have to really start to ask why for a period of 20 years starting from the 1960’s was there an upsurge in sexual deviancy (mostly with boys) in the church in clear disobedience to traditional Catholic dogma and morals.