3 days past Palm Sunday.. Palms are completely ruined

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Need to know if this has happened to anyone before… It didn’t happen to last year’s palms, and I can’t remember it happening any years before that. I usually tuck my palms between a picture and the wall at one of the top edges, diagonally… so the palm is apparent, a visible reminder, (away from the cats) and secure.

While coming back into the Living Room a little while ago, I accidently noticed the one by the front door was gone. I walked over to it and it was completely behind the picture, except for the bottom edge. I figured ok, it just fell. I took it from behind the picture to put it back up and it was no longer the palm I placed there only 3 days ago… completely faded, brittle, and curled almost tightly into one long cylindrical stick. I couldn’t figure out what had happened in just one day, I know it hadn’t fallen yesterday and I’m pretty sure it wasn’t like this. I was at work all day and my daughter was home so I thought, maybe she got it wet somehow (only reason i could think of why it was like this now) and didn’t want to tell me, and just tried to put it back… and then it dried out and curled up.

Then I went over to my bookshelf, where I had placed the one I was to put in my bedroom but hadn’t done so yet… same exact thing. Ok… there goes that explanation, couldn’t of been her. I had the air conditioning on all day… maybe that caused it. But it’s been 3 days… I had one for 365 days prior to Sunday, amidst heat, humidity, air conditioning… and it still resembled it’s former self except for being dry. My daughter has one in her room and I don’t even want to go upstairs and look. I don’t know why this bothers me so much, but they’re special to me, they mean a lot to me, they are visable everyday reminders of our faith and the Lord’s sacrifice and the coming joy of Easter. And now I don’t have them… for an entire year.

Although a life long Catholic, due to reasons which would take too long to explain (mostly marriage related), my teenage daughter is receiving all her sacraments at the Easter Vigil and I am being confirmed. In these past two months I have undergone more unusual and frustrating events and obstacles than I care to count. I have a very strong faith and am what I can only describe to be a very spiritual person. I didn’t make the connection between what’s been happening as of late to our coming Sacraments or Lent, until Lent came and it seemed to get worse and others were discussing how common this was.

Sorry for the long post… but I have to ask, is this (the palms being ruined) unusual, or does it happen to people frequently? I don’t want to read into this if I shouldn’t… but it’s been a long few months and I’m just starting to breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little lighter today… And now this. Any thoughts?
 
Sounds like a different type of palm branch was used. I’m certain others from your parish experienced the same thing.🙂 Perhaps your priest will order from a different supplier next year.😉
 
mine did the same thing, guess it must be a matter of the humidity in the house. Usually I fold them into a cross right away while they are still soft, but did not have a chance this year. oh well, I stick them into the flowers in front of OL Guadalupe. It also may be the variety or supplier, we got ours from a different company this year, and we have to separate them into single stems, if that is the word, and they seemed slimmer and flimsier than in previous years.
 
The same thing happened to my palms. They are all dried up and curled, not at all attractive. It could be dry air in the house, or it could be due to the moisture level in the palm leaf itself or how stressed the palm plant was before the leaf was pruned off. Some years are better than others for palm leaves.
 
Thank you all… for helping me see the obvious… lol… must’ve been from ‘whence they came’… !
 
Glad you brought that up Margaret!! Same sort of thing happened to the Palms my H and I brought home. Never has happened in years past.🤷 I put my Palms always behind our Celtic Marriage Cross in the Living Room. The next day, they were all drooped down and very brittle. Had to take them down they looked so bad and placed them on our mantle. Don’t really know what to do now except maybe to burn them with our old ones and wait till next year.🤷
 
That’s strange that it’s never happened to anyone before, because my palms will dry up and curl every time if i don’t fold them that very same day. If I don’t have time to do them that afternoon I always lay them between two wet towels to keep them moist so they won’t dry up before I have a chance to fold.
 
Palms have very fibrous leaves, very little “flesh” on them to hold water so I’m not surprised they dry out fast. You also never know how long ago they were cut.
 
Mine dried and curled up too, but that didn’t stop me from making a cross off of it. In fact, it looks great, but dried up…
 
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