Well I am certainly learning a lot from all of you posters here

I thought that it was up to the Orthodox priest to decide whether I could commune with them, but apparently that is highly controversial, so I won’t even try.
I think I’m at a crossroads with deciding how to practice my faith. The Ruthenian parish is kind of far and so extremely Latinized that I was discouraged (no offence to any of you). Is Latinization an issue in the Orthodox churches as well? I was surprised to see that the Greek Orthodox church has pews in the pictures on their website.
The local Ukrainian Catholic separates the English-speaking community from the Ukrainians (and the English Divine Liturgy is on Saturday nights instead of Sunday) which I’m not a fan of.
I probably shouldn’t be complaining with all of these options. I’m just missing my old Melkite community where everything seemed perfect