Susie, my heart goes out to you. My son (who is 31 now) started attending a Mormon church because that is what his girlfriend is. He started attending 2 years ago, then joined this past summer. He called my grandsons mother, asked for her permission for my grandson to be baptized, she declined, stating that had been done when he was little, and didn’t see the need for it to be done again. (She was very polite without bringing the reasons she wanted to say no way in H####!!! ) He called back in October and said my grandson was going to be baptized Mormon whether she agreed or not. So, he was. My former daughter in law did attend, only to support my grandson,( who is 7 and doesn’t understand the differences of religion) and , as she says, pray hard. My son has had no contact with his side of the family (both his fathers and mine) since 4 months prior to his baptism, (which is a mix of Catholic, Orthodox, Angelican, Southern Baptist,Lutheran and non-denom,), due to the advice of one of the elders of the Mormon church. When he first started attending, I asked him if he really understood what the difference in the theology between the Mormons and the rest of families Christian beliefs were and why. He told me that no one really knows which church God is behind, and it’s all man made laws for the respective churches, so no one really knows. He also said he was tired of being brain washed by all the “traditional” Christians in the family, how could we all get along being different christian denominations and call Mormons not christian, he can worship God in anyway he wants, and he is just as Christian as anyone else in the family. When the subject of his baptism came up, I asked him why he needed to do it again, since he had already been baptized (Lutheran). If they were truly a Christian church, they would not require a Christian to be re-baptize who had already had a trinitaran baptism. he stated all churches have different rules to be a member, this was one of theirs, and thats all baptism is to the Mormons. AARRGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!! I have to leave it in God’s hands, I don’t have a choice.