A caution from Archbishop Chaput: dishonest mercy helps no one

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The Church will not change its stance on divorce and remarriage.

I believe what will change is a more pastoral approach to dealing with such situations and the couple themselves being more directly involved in discerning the reasons for the end of their first marriage. They will be discerning with their parish priest.
ISTM that you are suggesting that rather than “less difficult” cases being sent to the tribunal, it will be just hashed out (pastorally) between “the couple” (which of the 3 will be involved?) and (an already over-worked) parish priest? IOW, the internal forum which is where we all began?
The tribunals will be in place for more difficult situations or those cases a pastor can’t handle, for whatever reasons.
There will not be a barrage of annulments for every situation, people can relax about this.
 
Your questions were (edited to be separate):
  1. Why [are] those who are divorced and remarried and who have not obtained an annullment …] judged to be “in the objective state of mortal sin”?]
Because the previous marriage is assumed to be valid, the second marriage is assumed to be a case of adultery until [ETC] judged otherwise, as the Church decrees, by a competent tribunal.
The issue is adultery, and the Church does not teach that a second marriage is in itself adultery. There has long been a provision that permits such a divorced and remarried person to receive communion.
  1. Why [is] there …] this judgment when the same question could be asked about anyone receiving communion?
The rule relates to those who are D&R w/o A. The reason this rule was promulgated was that the Church ruled that it was needed.

As was previously pointed out in another post in this thread, there are other rules which regulate the reception of the Eucharist as well.
Yes, it is well known there are other rules regarding the reception of the Eucharist. But my comments should be understood in the context of the question that was before the synod, for which a recommendation was made in the final synod document. This recommendation is relevant to the OP, and it is in question here. That it has been answered by providing only existing teaching looks like legalism.
 
Sure. Matthew 7:1 is troublesome when it comes to judging the supposed sins of others, right?
No, it really isn’t.*Judgment is lawful in so far as it is an act of justice. Now it follows from what has been stated above (1, ad 1,3) that three conditions are requisite for a judgment to be an act of justice: first, that it proceed from the inclination of justice; secondly, that it come from one who is in authority; thirdly, that it be pronounced according to the right ruling of prudence. If any one of these be lacking, the judgment will be faulty and unlawful. (Aquinas ST II-II 60,1)

Thou shalt not judge. (Mt 7:1) In these words our Lord forbids rash judgment which is about the inward intention, or other uncertain things, as Augustine states. Or else He forbids judgment about Divine things, which we ought not to judge, but simply believe, since they are above us, as Hilary declares in his commentary on Mt. 5. Or again according to Chrysostom, He forbids the judgment which proceeds not from benevolence but from bitterness of heart. *(Ibid 60, 2 ad 1)
It is not judgment per se that is forbidden us but only the wrong kind of judgment.

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The issue is adultery, and the Church does not teach that a second marriage is in itself adultery. There has long been a provision that permits such a divorced and remarried person to receive communion.

Yes, it is well known there are other rules regarding the reception of the Eucharist. But my comments should be understood in the context of the question that was before the synod, for which a recommendation was made in the final synod document. This recommendation is relevant to the OP, and it is in question here. That it has been answered by providing only existing teaching looks like legalism.
With all due respect to the point you are attempting to make, it is not “legalism” to rely on the existing (as opposed to the non-existing?)teaching of the Church for guidance.
 
No, it really isn’t.*Judgment is lawful in so far as it is an act of justice. Now it follows from what has been stated above (1, ad 1,3) that three conditions are requisite for a judgment to be an act of justice: first, that it proceed from the inclination of justice; secondly, that it come from one who is in authority; thirdly, that it be pronounced according to the right ruling of prudence. If any one of these be lacking, the judgment will be faulty and unlawful. (Aquinas ST II-II 60,1)

Thou shalt not judge. (Mt 7:1) In these words our Lord forbids rash judgment which is about the inward intention, or other uncertain things, as Augustine states. Or else He forbids judgment about Divine things, which we ought not to judge, but simply believe, since they are above us, as Hilary declares in his commentary on Mt. 5. Or again according to Chrysostom, He forbids the judgment which proceeds not from benevolence but from bitterness of heart. *(Ibid 60, 2 ad 1)
It is not judgment per se that is forbidden us but only the wrong kind of judgment.

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Yep
Excuse me for a sec while I whip dis out…

He’s got the CCC in his pocket!!! :eek:
1806 Prudence is the virtue that disposes practical reason to discern our true good in every circumstance and to choose the right means of achieving it; "the prudent man looks where he is going."65 "Keep sane and sober for your prayers."66 Prudence is “right reason in action,” writes St. Thomas Aquinas, following Aristotle.67 It is not to be confused with timidity or fear, nor with duplicity or dissimulation. It is called auriga virtutum (the charioteer of the virtues); it guides the other virtues by setting rule and measure. **It is prudence that immediately guides the judgment of conscience. **The prudent man determines and directs his conduct in accordance with this judgment. With the help of this virtue we apply moral principles to particular cases without error and overcome doubts about the good to achieve and the evil to avoid.
 
The issue is adultery, and the Church does not teach that a second marriage is in itself adultery. There has long been a provision that permits such a divorced and remarried person to receive communion.
Three provisions, in fact: to separate, to live as brother and sister (limited), or to obtain an annullment. Since I have specifically specified *unrepenant D&R w/o A, *your statement is unclear.
Yes, it is well known there are other rules regarding the reception of the Eucharist. But my comments should be understood in the context of the question that was before the synod, for which a recommendation was made in the final synod document. This recommendation is relevant to the OP, and it is in question here. That it has been answered by providing only existing teaching looks like legalism.
Why should your comments be understood in this way, since you have not made that clear?
 
The Church will not change its stance on divorce and remarriage. Well that is good to know:rolleyes:

I believe what will change is a more pastoral approach to dealing with such situations and the couple themselves being more directly involved in discerning the reasons for the end of their first marriage. They will be discerning with their parish priest. This should always be the case that we should turn to our pastor so that we may get a greater understanding of where we went wrong. Will a priest have the power to grant an annulment? I do not wee they have the time, experience and resources to claim this. I know when I went through the process my priest helped the process along after hearing about the deficiencies in my first “marriage” It was easily discerned that I qualified for the annulment. It was handled quickly by the tribunal. So this I think was always in place certainly in my case.

The tribunals will be in place for more difficult situations or those cases a pastor can’t handle, for whatever reasons. I think a man who has been in a long term remarriage constitutes a more difficult situation as there is more info that needs to be brought up. But certainly going to the preist first should always be ones first response.

There will not be a barrage of annulments for every situation, people can relax about this.
There already is a barrage of annulments for every situation and has been happening for the last couple of decades. I believe it is due to our poor understanding of what marriage is. I just hope we don’t muddy the waters more pretending that the nitty gritty of church teaching on marriage isn’t watered down./COLOR]

Jim
 
Three provisions, in fact: to separate, to live as brother and sister (limited), or to obtain an annullment. Since I have specifically specified *unrepenant D&R w/o A, *your statement is unclear.
i have known the teaching for at least the past sixty years, and it concerns adultery and not remarriage. Whether or not adultery is in fact occurring is not objectively known. It is a presumption, and that is the point. It would not be a presumption under the recommendation of the synod, where discernment of the validity of the first marriage would be a question rather than the presumption it now is.
Why should your comments be understood in this way, since you have not made that clear?
The question of the divorced and remarried without an annullment is the topic of the OP, and it is disingenuous to maintainin otherwise. Many comments on the thread attempted to construe what the archbishop said in this respect to mean what he clearly did not say:

“True mercy and trust in the transformative power of God’s grace are key to helping divorced-and-remarried Catholics…In forgiving the woman, Jesus does by grace what the moral law cannot do…”

This is a rejection of legalism, and the objection has been defended exclusively on what is thought current teaching. This is also legalism. When I pointed out that it is not objectively known whether any person presenting him or herself for communion is in the state of grace, the reply was to provide current teaching concerning the presumption of the divorced and remarried who have not obtained an annullment as though the question had not been a main topic of the synod for which a recommendation was made in the final synod document. It is this ‘blinkered’ perspective that I have disputed. In fact, it is now a question that is for Pope Francis to decide. I do not think that much can easily be denied.
 
i have known the teaching for at least the past sixty years,
Congratulations.
and it concerns adultery and not remarriage.
Clearly, since a widow’s remarrying is not a problem. It is the committin g of adultery under the guise of a purported marriage, as far as the Church can tell without an investigation and ruling to the contrary, which causes the apparent adultery.
Whether or not adultery is in fact occurring is not objectively known.
Objectively it is known: it fits the category of adultery. It is not subjectively known.
It is a presumption, and that is the point. It would not be a presumption under the recommendation of the synod, where discernment of the validity of the first marriage would be a question rather than the presumption it now is.
Do you have a quote for that? I hadn’t heard that the synod had gone so far as to say anything like that.
The question of the divorced and remarried without an annullment is the topic of the OP, and it is disingenuous to maintainin otherwise. Many comments on the thread attempted to construe what the archbishop said in this respect to mean what he clearly did not say:
"True mercy and trust in the transformative power of God’s grace are key to helping divorced-and-remarried Catholics **Archbishop Charles Chaput of Philadelphia has said in a critique of proposals to admit them to sacramental Communion without a change in their lives. **
Finished that quote off for you. It is in fact the critique of the proposed changes which are the topic.
This is a rejection of legalism,
What is a rejection of what you judge to be legalism? Why do you consider it legalistic?
and the objection has been defended exclusively on [strike]what is thought [/strike] current teaching.
Fixed that for you. And there have been several defenses on this thread of what actually IS the current discipline of the Church on grounds other than the fact that it is current.
This is also legalism.
Could be a good point, if it were true.
When I pointed out that it is not objectively known whether any person presenting him or herself for communion is in the state of grace, the reply was to provide current teaching concerning the presumption of the divorced and remarried who have not obtained an annullment
This is simply not the case.
as though the question had not been a main topic of the synod for which a recommendation was made in the final synod document.
Again, source for this?
It is this ‘blinkered’ perspective that I have disputed. In fact, it is now a question that is for Pope Francis to decide. I do not think that much can easily be denied.
Thank goodness it will be the Pope deciding. He has not indicated any support for the idea of allowing the internal forum solution to allow reception of the Eucharist.
 
Congratulations.

Clearly, since a widow’s remarrying is not a problem. It is the committin g of adultery under the guise of a purported marriage, as far as the Church can tell without an investigation and ruling to the contrary, which causes the apparent adultery.

Objectively it is known: it fits the category of adultery. It is not subjectively known.
I see. What was originally the “objective state of mortal sin” is now “apparent adultery” that is objectively known. While this is progress, it is nevertheless necessary to ask what exactly is apparent adultery that fits the category of adultery and how is it objectively known? :hypno:
 
I see. What was originally the “objective state of mortal sin” is now “apparent adultery” that is objectively known. While this is progress, it is nevertheless necessary to ask what exactly is apparent adultery that fits the category of adultery and how is it objectively known? :hypno:
Quotes from the synod showing that the bishops recommended “discernment of the validity of the first marriage would be a question rather than the presumption it now is”?
 
Quotes from the synod showing that the bishops recommended “discernment of the validity of the first marriage would be a question rather than the presumption it now is”?
“Finally, there are those who have entered in a second union for the sake of the children’s upbringing and who are sometimes subjectively certain in conscience that their previous and irreparably broken marriage had never been valid. Therefore, it is the duty of priests to accompany those concerned along the path of discernment…” --Section 85, Final Synod Report (emphasis added)

“The process of accompaniment and discernment guides these faithful to an examination of conscience about their situation before God. Speaking with a priest in the internal forum contributes to the formation of a correct judgment about that which blocks the possibility of a fuller life in the Church…” --Section 86, Final Synod Report

The meaning is unmistakable. What is recommended in the final synod document is an examination of conscience (a discernment in the internal forum), with the accompaniment of a priest to determine a "judgment about that which blocks the possibility of a fuller life life in the Church (which obviously is the question of the validity of a first marriage).
 
It is noted with respect to my comment above (#272) that I have never thought it was the recommendation of the synod that a person in the state of mortal sin should be permitted to receive communion.
 
dmdiocese.org/divorced-and-catholic-faqs.cfm

It says “no longer” implying that it had been.
I think this may be a case of careless wording (No, civil divorce no longer results in excommunication) or was simply an incorrect assumption. There was a penalty of excommunication for those who divorced and remarried, which was rescinded in 1977, but I see no evidence that this penalty ever existed for those who simply divorced. This is explained by this reference: * In the Third Plenary Council of Baltimore (1884), it was decreed: “We establish the penalty of excommunication, reserved to the Ordinary, to be incurred ipso facto by those who, after obtaining a civil divorce, dare to attempt marriage” (n. 124). This penalty was in force until it was abolished by Bl. Paul VI in 1977 (see Canon Law Digest, v. 8, pp. 1213-1214).
*I found a similar explanation of the situation here:*Under canon law, divorced people who remarry outside the Church aren’t formally excommunicated. Historically speaking, divorced and remarried American Catholics were formally excommunicated. This penalty was imposed by the Third Plenary Council of Baltimore in 1884. The penalty was removed in 1977.
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In actual practice on the ground:
When a catechumen or candidate presents themselves for the next step in the Catholic Church and has an irregular situation, the first thing we do is talk. There is a lot of talking. We do not immediately tell a person “you are living in mortal sin”.

Most likely, the person will have no idea what mortal sin really is and what the implications are. They will have some idea, and the idea usually connotes judgment and damnation and may push the person off track in their desire for the Church.

First, a trust must be awakened for the Church. An invitation to the Gospel must be made. The Gospel is good news for everyone and this Good News will connect with the person’s desire to come closer.

At the same time, and in this context, the person must be made aware of what the Christian walk will entail. If the marriage is irregular, or if any other barriers to communion exist (there are many), the person cannot be lied to and given a false sense of what the journey will entail.
“these are the changes that God calls us to make in our lives” The priest may make this observation immediately at the first meeting if a potential impediment to communion exists.
Still at that point, we have not said “you are living in mortal sin”. The catechumen’s eyes must be pointed toward the Good to awaken the desire for Christ.

At some point, usually in the morality talk (which was last weekend for us), the conditions for mortal sin are talked about. Morality is always always presented in proper context, in it’s service of the good, in light of God’s love, in light of the call to repent and convert, to come to fuller relationship with God. We don’t emphasize the “You cannot” in relation to the sacraments, we emphasize the invitation, the offer, the journey to full communion, and what that invitation asks of us.

We always try to emphasize the invitation, and the response required of the believer. In many cases, that response is very difficult to make and entails some painful conversion.

The answer is not to avoid that difficult walk, it is to encourage with the power of witness. We are all witnesses to the Gospel.
“This is who I was, and this is what Jesus Christ has done for me. This is how I responded and this is how he changed my life”.
Everyone has this story and it is just wrong to rob the Good News of it’s authenticity by proposing dishonest mercy. Dishonest mercy is robbed of it’s power to change lives.
In every RCIA process the sacrament of reconciliation is part of climbing the mountain to the Eucharist. By the end of this process a person will have turned back to the Father to see him “eye to eye” (re-con-cilia). In that light, we find our true selves in communion with God and others. We cannot find that light if we circle our faith around ourselves, by attempting to conform the Church to ourselves.
This reconciliation is not just for the irregular marriage, it is for everyone. It is hard for everyone. If it is not a struggle, we are not living Christianity.
 
Along these lines we have had catechumens object to the teaching of the Church. After a lot of talking the choice has to be made. The question we pose then is

“If you disagree with this Church teaching to the point of intransigence, why do you want to be part of a Church you are not in communion with?”

And this is where the rubber may hit the road. Many times the answer will be family pressure, the desire of a Catholic spouse, wanting to be part of a Church for material reasons, etc…

The answer of the Church is not “well then you are going to hell now” The answer is “ok, if the Church is not who you are, you should not make a pretense. We pray for you and hope you will continue to pray and discern and come back. The door is always open for you”

The answer cannot be
“that’s ok, join anyway, we’ll find a way to ameliorate your situation” (any situation, not just marriage).
Consider…the candidate will be expected to recite a creed and give assent to everything the Catholic Church proclaims. We do not want to make liars, we want to help make Christian disciples.

To do otherwise would be dishonest on the part of the candidate, and the Church.
 
I think this may be a case of careless wording (No, civil divorce no longer results in excommunication) or was simply an incorrect assumption.
It’s possible that it just wasn’t carefully worded, but it seems that the only reason for the divorce was the intention to get remarried back then whereas today more are probably getting divorced either to live as single people or to cohabitate without civil marriage. Legal separations are quite rare today. But we still keep talking divorce and remarriage as though it is one word.
 
It’s possible that it just wasn’t carefully worded, but it seems that the only reason for the divorce was the intention to get remarried back then whereas today more are probably getting divorced either to live as single people or to cohabitate without civil marriage. Legal separations are quite rare today. But we still keep talking divorce and remarriage as though it is one word.
Was there a penalty of excommunion for two Catholics who entered a civil marriage that was a first marriage? I’m thinking there might have been prior to around 1970.
 
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