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This thread seems to be wrong. It should be titled a prevention for all STDs. There are no cures once you have them.
No I do not. (This is an excellent example of your style - turning words around to suit your context! It was noted by others on the other thread.) I speak with a sense of urgency, because I know what you are capable of doing to an otherwise useful discussion. I have said that your postings tend to crude fabrication, as gently as I possibly could.And you present this post as an example of calm, rational debating style, do you?
I will be happy to do so: you have already ‘misrepresented’ in your first posting on this thread which has been sent to the moderators with a note.Go right ahead [and report me] - - but be sure you actually quote where I “misrepresented your professional observations.”
I think that this statement might be just as unclear to others as it is to me. Perhaps you would elaborate?Actually, it was the insistence on the effectiveness of condoms – despite real world experience – that negated any possibility of Double Effect. If it don’t work, it can’t be Double Effect.
This comment has no meaning at all. I do not know what you mean by a ‘condom solution’. Furthermore, you focus again and again and again on Botswana. I do not know why, because I am not sure that you know anything except what I have told you about my fieldwork there. I live in South Africa, and before that I lived in Zambia. I asked yesterday whether, if you had lived in or worked in or been born in Botswana, you would like to brief us on what you learned there. But we have had no information from you.My sentiments, exactly – look at what happens when the “condom solution” is applied in nations like Botswana.
I think you are backtracking pretty fast here! Good one!Nevertheless, the primary means of transmission is through sexual congress. And that’s why the Politically Correct approach is to promote “safe sex” – which as your own post shows, isn’t really safe.
I stand by my original statement – those who tout condoms as the answer are encouraging the behavior that spreads the disease.
Some may fear that the application of this teaching would lead to promiscuity, that it would serve as an encouragement to young people to engage freely in sex since it provides them with a way of protecting themselves against HIV infection. It does not have to be so.
The guiding principle for a young person (indeed for every person) is to develop a mature sexuality that can realise its ultimate expression in a loving, sensitive and permanent relationship of union with another. Abstinence, deliberately chosen, freely striven for, supports this development. That is why it should inspire the life and behaviour of an unmarried person. In doing so, it also provides infallible protection against HIV infection. Hence, for an unmarried person, abstinence arising from a healthy sexuality is the first line of defence against HIV/AIDS.
But there is no reason to fear that having a fall-back protection against HIV infection, for circumstances where such abstinence is not observed, will promote irresponsible sexual behaviour. The first rule of the road is to drive carefully so that there will not be an accident. But one wears a seat belt so that if an accident should occur, there will be less risk of fatal damage. Wearing the seat belt is an act of responsibility. It does not encourage careless driving, but protects against the harmful outcomes of such driving or of unforeseen accidents. The use of condoms in sexual encounters between unmarried persons is an act of responsibility. Sanctioning their use does not encourage a careless sex life, but protects against possible life-threatening outcomes of the unlawful activity.
The Avert site you refer to HERE looks good! But you need to read more carefully.It arrived there by airplane, from the United States, in the late 1980s.
HERE is a link to the history of AIDS.
They will no doubt cut off my buttons, break my sword over my head and drum me out of the forums.No I do not.
Then you admit it was an irrational and spiteful personal attack?
Carol Coombe;2240750:
I will be happy to do so: you have already ‘misrepresented’ in your first posting on this thread which has been sent to the moderators with a note.
Who said that? Or do you have a grudge against the Catholic Church?People keep proposing condoms as the cure for AIDS. Big bad Catholic Church forbids condoms, thus causing AIDS to spread rampantly.
Just wondering how the big bad Catholic Church is causing doctors to get AIDS from their patients by forbidding them to use condoms. That’s all.![]()
You think wrong.I think you are backtracking pretty fast here! Good one!
I think you are backtracking pretty fast here! Good one!Of course the primary means of transmision is intercourse: no one has denied that. It is principally by heterosexual intercourse, rather than by bisexual or homosexual intercourse which is what you touted.
The Politically Correct approach is that condoms mean “safe sex” and that abstinence and faithful marriage is a non-starter.I have never heard of a ‘Politically Correct’ approach to ‘safe sex’. Could you elaborate? We could link that with the idea that any approach to HIV that uses a single-focus plan is not going to deliver ‘safe sex’.
So what happend in Botswana? If condoms were going to work anywhere, they’d have worked there.Why did you not just say what you mean: that touting condoms leads to promiscuity? There is virtually no evidence that this is true, that I know of. Perhaps you can give us some evidence from any country you like, any community?
No, of course I don’t have a grudge against the Catholic Church.Who said that? Or do you have a grudge against the Catholic Church?
Originally Posted by Carol Coombe
Who said that? Or do you have a grudge against the Catholic Church?
Note the tactic employed here – the misrepresentation of a post, followed by an attack on the poster’s Catholic faith.No, of course I don’t have a grudge against the Catholic Church.
I was asking how those who blame the Catholic Church for AIDS in Africa (you, for example) explain how that doctor could have defended himself with a condom, in the instance that you had cited earlier.![]()
Thank you. I was noticing that, too.Note the tactic employed here – the misrepresentation of a post, followed by an attack on the poster’s Catholic faith.
Both of those – especially the latter – are violations of the rules. And from a person who boasts she’s reporting me to the moderator.Thank you. I was noticing that, too.![]()
I ***do ***understand, believe me I do.Carol,
I sympathize with you that there some anti-humanitarian remarks in this and other threads but I think the only practical solution is to start testing for HIV on a global scale and if one tests positive advise them not to have sex with any other partner. Condoms do not prevent the spread of this disease. I have read reports that even under the best of circumstances semen can get through a condom. When you consider that the virus is infinitesimally smaller than that how can a condom prevent it from getting through? I hope you understand my take on this.
The response by national and international communities to the HIV pandemic has been inefficient, corrupt, ignorant, financially under-resourced, run by people in denial, politically fraught. Compare the response to 9/11 and the response to the HIV/AIDS pandemic.I’d also like to revisit something you said earlier -that we are 30 years into the pandemic]. Behavior change will take decades – and we’ve already wasted three of those decades, right? And adopted a strategy of practive inhibition – by encouraging “safe sex” we make it even more difficult to convince people that abstinence and sexual fidelity is the solution.
Whoo! This is all new to me. Please tell me who is ‘they’ and what is their ‘genocidal plan’, and what is the motivation for killing off millions of perfectly good people?Yes. Condoms in Africa are part of their genocidal plan. AIDS is the excuse they are using to get condoms into Africa. Once they are in there, it will be impossible to get them out again, even after the crisis is over. The damage will be done.
Planned Parenthood had nothing to do with that - that was Doctor Billings, who is actively anti-genocide and anti-Planned Parenthood.
Yes - yes, they are.![]()
Once called STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) they are now called commonly STIs (sexually transmitted infection).This thread seems to be wrong. It should be titled a prevention for all STDs. There are no cures once you have them.
Blessed Fr K, SJ, turned 78 today, and I hope he continues to be as strong as he has been when receiving multiple international awards over the past five years.Does Father K. have an answer for how someone who is not intending to have sex would end up with a condom? I am going to go out on a limb here and say that Father K. himself probably does not carry a condom in his wallet. Instead, he carries sexual maturity and adult self control in his heart.
I think that’s what he should be teaching the kids how to do.
There you go again: turning words around into your perception! What I said was, and I quote (read my lips):Then you admit it was an irrational and spiteful personal attack?
This is tiresome, and it is 0300 in South Africa.You think wrong.
No backtracking: just stating what I always have, and which I assume you may have read.I think you are backtracking pretty fast here! Good one!
That is indeed correct. I simply elaborated on your formulation.And I merely state that the male-to-male and male-to-female transmission is more likely than female-tomale transmission. I seem to recall you posting some statistics that confirm that.
That is certainly something I have never heard, ever. And it is not reflected in Fr K’s paras above.The Politically Correct approach is that condoms mean “safe sex” and that abstinence and faithful marriage is a non-starter.
If you think in terms of attack, that is your problem. The international community, humanity, the global village - all have a problem with beliefs, traditions, customs, issues, habits, behaviours that are antithetical to stalling HIV and AIDS. The belief promulgated by the Catholic Church that condoms are immoral, that the distribution of condoms is immoral, and that the use of condoms to prevent death is less important than not using condoms because this might prevent the creation of life, has created problems for those trying to plan strategic responses to the pandemic. I think that puts into words what you might be saying. There is no attack in this. This is a statement of fact: CC teaching on condoms is causing problems for prevention strategies. Full stop. But that is the choice of CC and its adherents.It’s usually accompanied by an attack on the Cathoic Church for opposing comdoms.
Tell me why you are so interested in Botswana. This is about the 8th or 10th time you have raised this issue. There are 19 Commonwealth countries in Africa, Botswana being one of them. I worked with all of them. Try asking about another country for a change?So what happened in Botswana? If condoms were going to work anywhere, they’d have worked there.
I think I recall there was a rather long and fretful description of your ‘debating’ style in the closed thread on HIV and CC last night which somehow reflects this comment - but your postings were much longer. I will not quote the post here, but it is there for all to see.Note the tactic employed here – the misrepresentation of a post, followed by an attack on the poster’s Catholic faith.