A few moral dilemmas of mine

[gmarie21]

Whoa, I didn’t even remember this thread until my fiance saw it. And I must say, some of the stuff you said was harsh and over the line. You guys talk about bringing her to the faith and all of that yet you badmouth her and judge her? You talk of her as if she's some sort of monster who will "corrupt" me and my future children. I asked a few questions, much thanks to those who actually answered my questions, and shame on those who just down talked my fiance, me and my whole relationship and non-Catholics in general. I believe the second greatest commandment is to “love thy neighbor as you love thyself,” where was the love in most of these responses? The post about how she’s going to talk me into evil things, you guys don’t even know her at all. She would NEVER do that, and NEVER has asked me to do anything my conscience won’t allow. As fas as praying for her conversion, who are you to sit on you self righteous high horse and pray for the “betterment” of other people?
Luk 6:41 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but perceivest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Luk 6:42 Either how canst thou say to thy brother, Brother, let me pull out the mote that is in thine eye, when thou thyself beholdest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou see clearly to pull out the mote that is in thy brother’s eye.
I can’t believe that I came here looking for some answers and what I got for the most part was a mass condemnation of my fiance` when none of you know her personally, you don’t even know her name…

Remember, St. Paul also wrote that those of the faith SHOULD NOT marry those who are not of the same faith, you SHOULD be equally yoked with your spouse. If you are Catholic and your fiance is not, YOU TWO ARE NOT, NOT, NOT equally yoked. You may not want to be told not to marry her until you two are equally yoked, but that IS THE TRUTH. If you hold God higher than your fiance (which you should), then you must let HIS Truth lead you and not you nor your fiance’s emotions. This isn’t a judgement about her, but a simple fact. God has infinite wisdom, none of us do, but we must look to the TRUTH which HE has revealed to us. Seperation and pain now will be a lot less than in the future when their are children involved. And like others said, if it’s meant to be a few years won’t kill you to wait.