I realize that the condition does have varying degrees of severity, but the people I have met who have it are delightful and live with quite a high level of independence.
Just to clarify, there are not varying degrees of ‘severity’ of Down syndrome…either you have it or you don’t…with that said, just like the rest of the population, everyone functions at various levels, regardless of the number of chromosomes they have.
Not all people with Down syndrome are delightful either and to speak in such broad generalizations is not fair to people with Ds. They have a full range of emotions just like everyone else. My daughter is sweet, crabby, annoying, funny, bossy, demanding, determined and a whole host of other adjectives…but I’m pretty sure her two brothers would never call her simply ‘delightful’
I think others have spoken well about the likelihood of conceiving three babies in a row that all have trisomy 21, unless of course the mother or father happen to carry the type of Down syndrome that is hereditary (translocation). If it’s the mother then her chances of having a child are approximately 1 in 5 (which sounds like this woman’s exact count), and the father is 1 in 20-50.
What do I think about it? I think abortion is murder. I think genetic engineering is playing God and is wrong. I think people deserve a chance to live no matter what.
I will refrain from passing judgement on your friend, as difficult as that is for me given the topic. :banghead: