Whilst I am certain you are quite sincere…I think the response made is ridiculous. It is not an issue of timing when people kneel for communion. It is extremely orderly, more so than my memories of the Novus Ordo Mass.People queue up from the pews, starting at the front after the choir if there is one, or a group of religious. A priest and altar boy can process rapidly and with dignity to the Host. Another priest is an option to assist if time is an issue (usually where the priest is needed for Mass elsewhere).
Where I lived previously, the priest had broken his hip which made his ambulation more difficult so the congregation went 2 by 2, again it did not impact on the overall time.
Parking lot issues !!! Pleeeeeeeeease, this is the Eucharist…parking surely is subordinate to the reception of Communion.I would think having parking issues would be a great consolation to the parish. I have had to park streets away to attend Mass!!!
Finally, the Tridentine Mass does NOT offer the option of receiving Communion from the Chalice to the congregation. In fact, the offering of the Mass does NOT obligate the priest in giving communion to the people. I was very surprised to discover this, and it has occured at several Masses I have attended, one where the priest was very ill and the congregation was very grateful to have Mass at all. The second time was at a funeral Mass where the priest was unsure of the state of most of the congregation and rather than risk Communion to fallen away or non Catholics it was his decision.
Please don’t be so glib about parking lot issues. Jesus was a practical man. Do you remember when he preached to the crowd of 5000, He made sure that the people had something to eat. There are lots of other examples of Jesus making sure that the physical needs of humans were met. He didn’t just dismiss the physical world.
In many parishes, there is no option for street parking due to physical constraints or even due to city ordinances designed to keep residential areas free of traffic congestion. And for the elderly or those with many tiny children or for the disabled, street parking isn’t an option at all.
Our parish has five Masses on Sunday morning (two more on Saturday evening, and one on Sunday evening), and around 7000 people attend.
Our church campus is on one of the busiest intersections in the city, and it is wild trying to maneuver into the church parking lot and then maneuver out again. What complicates things is that there is a retirement home and nursing home on the campus (affiliated with the diocese), and parishioners are not supposed to drive through this area to take a “shortcut”.
There are also two shopping malls on the other street corners, and thus a lot of traffic from these places.
And on the fourth street corner, there is another huge church!
It really is imperative that the Masses be finished within 60 minutes, give or take five minutes, so that people can get into and out of the church safely.
I think people make too big a deal out of this issue of kneeling for Holy Communion, and try to make it into a problem when it really isn’t a problem at all.
We have several families that kneel to receive Holy Communion. They wait until last, and then there is no problem at all, and I’m guessing that waiting until last is good for helping them to develop the virtue of humility. The priests, and many of the parishioners, know these families, so there is no surprise when they kneel. (Usually these families do not receive from EMHCs). They usually attend the same Mass time from week to week, so we’re all used to them. It’s not a problem, really.
As for anyone who is new who kneels, it generally isn’t a problem at all. In our parish, the priests have asked that we make some kind of gesture of reverence, usually a small bow, before receiving the Host. So the procession is not speedy, and since everyone stops to make that bow, we’re expecting a slight delay and so no one collides when someone kneels.
I think that people who kneel have gotten used to a slight turning around and somehow signaling to the person behind them, that they intend to kneel for Communion. I’ve seen it–it’s very subtle, but it’s enough of a warning so that the person behind the kneeling person doesn’t trip. If I were a kneeler, I would verbally tell the person behind me in advance, just to make sure that the person didn’t trip over me.
What I wonder is, how do the kneeling people feel when they find that they are no longer able to kneel on a floor? I’ve seen some parishes in which the elderly and disabled who wish to receive kneeling will sit in the very front row, and then the priest will come to them to distribute Holy Communion. I like this, and wish that it were done in our parish.
I am one who, due to osteoarthritis of the knees, cannot kneel without something to hold onto (front of a pew). I could never kneel on a floor without assistance, and it would be very hard, if not impossible, for me to stand up again and start walking. At work, if I drop something and it rolls under a desk, I have to ask someone to bend down and get it for me (or I can use some kind of tool to fish it out). On damp days, it’s even worse. I’m only 54, and started having problems with this back in my late 30s. I am very grateful that we aren’t required to kneel!
Is it hard for kneelers to accept it when they can no longer kneel, and have to receive the Holy Communion standing like all the rest of the Catholics? I should think it would be heartbreaking.