Pardon my fondness for abstractions.
Examples of community ego-stroking might be:
- The priest’s “Before we begin, turn to your neighbors and shake hands in greeting.”
Given the objections to extended handshaking at the Kiss of Peace, this actually may be a good idea. I am amazed at the number of people who act as if the Mass, and the Church, were an individual affair; they seem to completely ignore St. Paul’s writings about the Body of Christ. We worship as a community; meeting even briefly the person sitting next to you is hardly community “ego-stroking”. It just might be that you are sitting next to someone who desparately needs some human contact; you might be the only person they interact with that week.
- “Eagle’s Wings.” I’ve never known a song that placed as much shining adoration on ourselves as this one. God, meanwhile, waves his arms, "Hello? Over here! Hey, I’m over here."
If you bothered to find out the source of the words of the music - it is from the OT; and if you read the Psalms regularly, perhaps you would not say this. If you think that is shining adoration of self, then you are quite the critic of the Psalms.
- Applause. For everything. Yay us, yaaay us!
I have never heard applause “for everything”. I have heard it at the end of Mass for the musicians (not “us” as they were the ones leading the music, not “us”) and I could do without that; the only other time is just after a baby has been baptized during Mass, as a welcome to the community. If you think that is “ego stroking”, well, ok; I don’t have a problem with it. Maybe you don’t think they should be welcomed into the community of believers - the Body of Christ - or maybe you just don’t like it. But “ego-stroking”? I don’t see it.
- Nary a supplicative prayer that isn’t hard-coded into the rubrics themselves (at least the priest obeyed those).
No clue what you find 'ego-stroking" here.
- Our-Father-holding-hands-talked-about-ad-nauseum-here.
Well, as Archbishop Chaput said, it is not regulated - that is, the posture of your hands - and those who do not wish to should not be required to do so or chastised; and those who choose to should not be chastised or criticised. “Ego-stroking”? Or you just don’t like the way they pray? Perhaps you have never had a life threatening illness, and don’t understand what it can mean to an individual to hold hands during prayer. But then, that is your problem, not theirs, isn’t it?
So, yeah, I think it’s easier to sum up the whole thing under the heading of “community ego-stroking”.
and I am inclined to think that you are quite critical of others, who have no intent of offending you, and can be very prayerful people trying to worship God in the best way they know how. Our parish holds hands during the Our Father; occasionally and not very often we sing “On Eagles Wings”, along with other contemporary songs based on Old Testament and New Testament readings, we clap when the baby is presented to the congregation, and some clap at the end of Mass; we don’t shake hands at the beginning of Mass, but the priest gives a short hsitorical context of the readings before Mass begins; I guess we are really a bunch of "ego-strokers, right?
Maybe that’s why we have 24 hour Perpetual Adoration, have recently built a Catholic grade school, have an active outreach to the homeless and poor, and also an active Pro Life group. Yep, we are real "ego-strokers, all right.
Not.