Neither do i know the answers! I’m simply trying them one, one at a time, to see if any of them fits the truth, as i best as the truth fits me.
I like your idea of two things being a composite. Even with two material things, putting them together does not always make them one. Water and oil are an example–try as you might to make them one, they remain two separate material substances. So, it seems to me that you are correct in saying that the soul of a person and the body of a person can coexist together. Perhaps they coexist as two substances in one person?
To use a crude analogy, your soul to your body is like a driver to a car. A car can do a lot without a driver. The engine can continue to run, the lights can turn on when it gets dark, the car alarm can go off when a cat jumps on its hood. However, cars cannot make decisions, like driving themselves to the Starbucks drive thru window to pick up a couple of espressos to bring home to you. If you want Starbucks, you have to get in the car and drive.
Your body is like that. Without you being conscious of it, your heart beats faster when a car suddenly pulls out in front of you, your eyes dilate as they stare into the headlights of the oncoming collision. However, your soul is that which makes the decision to turn the steering and slam on the breaks to avert a life-threatening accident.
Should the body perish in the crash, the soul leaves it as the sole survivor, just as a man might leave a car. In both examples, the two are not the same; yet they work together as a team.
Yes, JM, i think you are onto something true, here!