My teenage daughter complained all through Catechesis and confirmation prep that they treated her like she was an idiot. I think most teens would tell you that Youcat fits right about there…
There is another thread about good Bible’s for teens and I asked why teens needed a special Bible. My other daughter was using an Ignatius Study Bible when she was eight years old.
I don’t know why we need to dumb things down in the Internet age when kids have access to the works of the Early Church Fathers, Doctors of the Church, commentaries, interlinear Bibles and such things with the click of a mouse.
-Tim-
Not all children are intelligent and well-trained like your daughter.
In our city, the scores came out yesterday for reading and math. In one of the “good” schools on the “good side” of town, only 13% of the schoolchildren achieved the minimal standards that the State of Illinois has set.
I was a smart child growing up–but not in math. I struggled all the way through grade school and into 7th grade. Oh, I got A’s on the tests, because I’m a good test-taker. Finally in 8th grade, I voluntarily called a halt to it. I was in Algebra in 8th grade fall semester, and after the first week, realized that I had absolutely no clue what was going on (the teacher was excellent, BTW).
So I went to the school academic counselor (yes, we had an academic counselor back then–in an inner-city, “old” school! Now we spend more money than ever, and we have cops in the schools, not academics counselors!).
I asked him to move me OUT of Honors Math into REMEDIAL Math, the very beginning math where the “dumb” students were.
He was shocked, to put it mildly, and tried to talk me out of it. But I told him just what I told you above–that I had never really understood anything about Math and it finally had caught up with me.
I was moved (the kids in the class were shocked when I walked in, because I was known as a Super Brain in the school). We were right back at the beginning, and I finally understood “the number line,” and what “carrying” meant, and all the other concepts that I had never grasped.
I was so spooked by my bad Math aptitude that I skipped math entirely in 9th grade, and when I finally had to take Math in 10th grade, was in the dreaded Algebra again. Lo and behold, it was simple now! I understood it, because I had finally had a “dumbed down” course that helped me to get the basics down pat.
It also had something to do with abstract thinking. This ability develops at different times in different children, and in me, in spite of my obvious intelligence, the ability to think abstractly had not developed enough to be able to understand that “n = 2.” That concept made no sense to my immature brain! That didn’t mean that I was “dumb.” I was just still a child in that area of development.
I made it through Calculus, and at that point, gave up math forever other than keeping track of my finances and measuring sugar and flour. Interestingly, even though I have worked in a hospital lab for over 30 years, I have never, ever used ANY of that math.
My point to telling this story is to remind you again that not all children are at the same level, and many children find it very helpful to have a good grounding in very simple, basic facts and concepts before moving on to the “higher things.” Many children also learn visually rather than through reading or hearing, and pictures help them to understand things.
It’s frustrating for the child who is ready for higher things. But one of the most important things that “smart” children can learn is charity for those who are not as blessed as they are in the brains department. A lot of mean-spirited adults have never learned this, and walk around thinking that they are better than everyone else. What good is theological understanding and knowledge if one has a prideful spirit?
I see this all over Catholic Forums, especially when it comes to music. People disparage the contemporary hymns and sigh for days of Latin hymns and the traditional hymns with the poetic language of Elizabethan or Victorian times. But again, not everyone is on the same page when it comes to music, and many people just don’t comprehend or appreciate the “higher” music styles or understand the ancient words (especially if they are in a foreign language). We cannot expect everyone to be “like us.” God doesn’t make people out of the same bowl of cookie batter.