Hi, Liza,
Thanks so much for this post. Fr. Rodriguez is a hero, this is not an easy topic to take a stand on, the gay agenda has pervaded our culture.
I’m curious about your comment about the Bishop not supporting Father. I didn’t see that in the clip, is there something else on which you’re basing that comment?
I will write to Fr. Rodriguez, and the Bishop, but I want to make sure I have my facts straight. (no pun intended)
BTW, I am a former lesbian who was in a same-sex relationship for 25 years, and came back to Holy Mother Church July 4, 2009, after being lapsed for 35 years.
I am now a member of Courage (
www.couragerc.net). Please remember when talking with anyone with same-sex attraction who wants to live chastely that our apostolate helps in this.
I am sad for Pifas Silva, he has bought into the party line: “I was born this way…where could I have learned it?”
In talking with others with same-sex attraction, it is so interesting to see how protective we all are of our families. I am not placing blame on families, and really for the most part, unless there was real abuse or neglect, neither are the clinicians who specialize in this field.
It is important to note that in most cases, even though there is some kind of critical break in the relationship between the same-sex attracted person and his or her same-sex parent, it’s not necessarily caused by abusive acts or malicious intent.
Did you notice that when Father brought up the Nicolosi quote about the relationship between a same-sex attracted man and his father, Mr. Silva did not jump up and claim a deep satisfying bond with his father? He simply reverted back into the party line: “Where could I have learned it?”
I ask you to remember in your prayers: Courage and Encourage (for families), Fr. John Harvey, Fr. Paul Check, and all the Courage chaplains and supporters, Dr. Nicolosi and all the clinicians who help us uncover our real identities, Fr. Rodriguez and all the clergy and religious who stand up for Truth, and all of us who struggle with this cross. And also let us pray for all those in the gay movement and those who support it, whose hearts are hardened to God’s word, that the Holy Spirit move them toward the Truth.
All God’s blessings,
R