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celestielle said:
that sucks they pressured you to have an abortion :\ nobody would do that to me, im sure if they found out they would do the opposite

what did you do to make things work out ?
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**The only ones that suggested it were the boyfriend and his sister. Once we told my parents, they were supportive. His? Not so much. Of course I chose life, wouldn’t have it any other way. Abortion was never an ‘option’ for me.

Prayers for you and baby!👍**
 
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**The only ones that suggested it were the boyfriend and his sister. Once we told my parents, they were supportive. His? Not so much. Of course I chose life, wouldn’t have it any other way. Abortion was never an ‘option’ for me.

Prayers for you and baby!👍**
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good for you!
 
well i did call the dr earlier to make an appt for a real test. and my boyfriend is coming over in an hour so i guess i will tell him about it then.
 
celestielle said:
well i did call the dr earlier to make an appt for a real test. and my boyfriend is coming over in an hour so i guess i will tell him about it then.
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Good luck and I am sure once he is told it will be a relief.
 
**Good luck, Celestielle!!! I pray that your boyfriend can and will be supportive of you and not place the blame on you. Please feel free to talk w/ any of us here, we are here for you even if you don’t ‘see’ us. 😉

And remember, I was SCARED (never had been to an ‘ob/gyn’ in my life til then) just like you are right now. I got thru it and so will you! 😉

And this is someone who survived an abortion and is here today to tell us about it:

abortionfacts.com/survivors/giannajessen.asp (just wanted to share 😉

AMAZING story!

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I’m so happy to hear you are going to the dr. Good luck Celestielle!! I hope your boyfriend is supportive.
 
Good for you! I’m so glad you’re going to the doctor and are going to tell your boyfriend.

KG
 
Dear Celestielle,
i was reading your posts and i would like to say a few words about it:

To decide to abort your baby, it is something that you will always regret it.
To decide to give your baby for adoption, it is something you might regret it through your whole life.
To decide to keep your baby, this is something that you will never regret it.

I can see glimpses of you, caring about your baby. Like you are against putting him on foster care and so on. That says a lot, about you, eventhough i believe you are a young woman. Even if your boyfriend does not agree with you in keeping the baby, the baby is already inside you, you are feeding him/her with your own body and also you are caring about him/her.
I would really advice you to look for those centers that our Brother recommended you.
There is no reason why such a young person like you commit a horrendous act as an abortion is. Do not let temptation lead your way and your life, fight for what is right.
As you can see, abortion is not the answer. You have other options and it would be a good idea to get some information about those options before you make up your mind.
I will pray for you and for the life of your child.

May God shine upon you and upon your child.

You are not alone, even if your boyfriend rejects you. We are here to help you as much as we can.
 
celestielle said:
i just think that they would… and even if it was given to be adopted, whats the difference, its really just permanent foster care. the people would still be strangers, who knows what they would do to the baby? they could do anything to do it, and i wouldnt be able to protect it
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Oh, dear … see… you are already protecting your baby! It’s natural.

If you have an abortion … do you really, really think you are protecting that child?

You can choose a family to adopt your baby. You can choose a man and woman who have been trying to conceive for a long, long, time and who are so ready to love a child beyond your greatest imagination.

If you go ahead and decide to adopt this child, then no one in your life can talk you into an abortion. Adoption is the most loving and protecting thing you can do for her now.

You are in my prayers!
 
Celestielle,

Have been following your posts and have been praying for you and your baby. Everything will work out for you when you put it in God’s hands…it’s truly amazing.

When you get to hold your infant child for the first time, it’ll be like nothing else. I’m a daddy to my 18-month-old little girl, and when I held her for the first time after my wife gave birth to her, I wanted to hold her, keep her close, and pepper her with kisses forever. As her parents, my wife and I are her guardians and protectors. That is what you are during these nine months your baby grows in your womb - protector of his/her life. Treat this little person for what he/she is…the most priceless treasure on earth.
 
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Celestielle,

Have been following your posts and have been praying for you and your baby. Everything will work out for you when you put it in God’s hands…it’s truly amazing.

When you get to hold your infant child for the first time, it’ll be like nothing else. I’m a daddy to my 18-month-old little girl, and when I held her for the first time after my wife gave birth to her, I wanted to hold her, keep her close, and pepper her with kisses forever. As her parents, my wife and I are her guardians and protectors. That is what you are during these nine months your baby grows in your womb - protector of his/her life. Treat this little person for what he/she is…the most priceless treasure on earth.
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He’s right. When you hold that baby in your arms for the first time, you won’t want to let go. You will be in-love and feeling pure happiness.

You will think how crazy you were that you even thought of destroying your baby.
 
I will pray for you. Aside from the fact that abortion is not the act of making a choice-it’s the act of killing a human being, there’s also the long term effects you must consider. Please find a Project Rachael group and learn from them. They will tell you a much different story than pro-abortion people will. Google PR to find them. If not, I can give you a contact person.
 
Only 10% of kids end up getting adopted anyways, but it still gives them the right to life…
to learn some things… to see some things. Better than being killed.
 
Adding my prayers! I know this is a stressful time for you, but I have to agree with all the other posters. Choose life! I’m glad my mom did even though she had me at 22 out of wedlock and was scared to tell her family and boyfriend. I’m now 28 years old and hopefully will be having a baby of my own soon, which will be the first grandchild for my mom.

Think how different life would be if someone wasn’t born!

Good luck to you!
 
sorry i havent posted, i am just trying to deal with things, i didnt know you guys would be watching the topic, sorry if i made anybody worried
 
celestielle said:
sorry i havent posted, i am just trying to deal with things, i didnt know you guys would be watching the topic, sorry if i made anybody worried
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People just want to make sure you’re not going to kill it.
 
celestielle said:
sorry i havent posted, i am just trying to deal with things, i didnt know you guys would be watching the topic, sorry if i made anybody worried
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I know you had said last time you were going to talk with your boyfriend - how did that go? Did you make the doctor’s appointment? Other than that how are you holding up - it is normal for you to be a little upset and freaked out but we are here.
 
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