About to become an Atheist PLEASE HELP!

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This is a great example of exactly what I’m talking about.

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So, again, sorry, it’s just not credible to me.
Good points you raise here.

I’d like to see those detailed investigations too–it’s definitely a problem that they don’t seem to be available online, if they were conducted at all. But perhaps the studies have never been translated into English (I’ve read that works by such a Catholic luminary as St. Robert Bellarmine still aren’t accessible to the anglophone world, five centuries later :o). Still, more recent claimed miracles, which have been examined in a scholarly manner and with the findings being peer-reviewed, would serve as better material for this thread.
 
Oh my Gosh. 🤷

Because in the absence of any evidence there is no reason to believe a Deity of any kind exists.

But that is not the same as saying, emphatically, no God exists.

No one can make such a claim.

But I can make an informed decision based on the lack of evidence for one, as to how likely it is that one exists.

Sarah x 🙂
Perhaps we define “atheist” differently. You don’t then deny and/or absolutely disbelieve there is a God. You just don’t know one way or the other, but lean towards disbelief because there are no miracles that you consider reliable enough to be irrefutable proof of God’s existence. And, that absence of miraculous proof for God serves as “evidence” you do consider acceptable and solid enough to support doubting the existence of God. Lack of evidence serves as evidence?

Have I got that right?
 
but lean towards disbelief because there are no miracles that you consider reliable enough to be irrefutable proof of God’s existence.
Not just miracles.

There is no evidence that I can see for any of the claims of believers in their Deity - remembering of course there is more than one God or type of Deity that people of different beliefs and cultures believe in.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Perhaps we define “atheist” differently. You don’t then deny and/or absolutely disbelieve there is a God. You just don’t know one way or the other, but lean towards disbelief because there are no miracles that you consider reliable enough to be irrefutable proof of God’s existence. And, that absence of miraculous proof for God is “evidence” you do consider acceptable and solid enough to support doubting the existence of God. Lack of evidence serves as evidence?

Have I got that right?
Perhaps being a former “card carrying” atheist myself, I probably should “chime in” here.

Like most atheists, “Atheistgirl” is a negative (or weak) atheist, or, as they like to sometimes call themselves, an “agnostic atheist.” The “gnostic” refers to knowledge and the “theist” refers to belief, so “ag-nostic” refers to “not knowledge” and “a-theist” refers to “not belief.” To paraphrase the late Carl Sagan from his book Contact, the main character “Ellie” (if I recall correctly) when asked, “Do you believe in God?” replied, “If I say ‘No,’ do I mean that I am convinced that God does not exist, or do I mean that I am not convinced that God does exist.” Atheistgirl, like most atheists, are in the later category. Not many “strong atheists” exist in the World today; most such atheists would claim that there is at least a 1 in 10*17 chance that a god exists, or to quote Carl Sagan loosely, “Some forms of atheism are stupid, because they claim to know that which they cannot know.” Again, paraphrasing here.

So, atheistgirl is a negative atheist; she, like Bertrand Russell, considers the “god of Judaism/Christianity” to be like the “proverbial teapot” in orbit between Earth & Mars, Jupiter, etc. For them, the “god of Christianity” is on par with the “gods of Mount Olympus”. If you don’t believe in the later, “why believe in former?” or so goes their logic. So, in their view, the most rational approach is to “suspend judgment” with respect to the Christian god, and just as they do not continuously check their closets for “invisible trolls” which, by the laws of probability, might be there, so, too, they are not going to “waste their time” checking the “miracle claims” and other “evidences” for the Christian god, which, in their view, is on par with alien abductions, Big Foot, Nessy, etc.

Their flaw is, of course, in not recognizing the fact that we do have evidence, just not the hardcore scientific evidence which, they say, is required for them to believe in our God. However, as all we Catholics know, such evidence will, someday, be forthcoming on the Last Day when “Christ will come in his glory, and all the angels with him. . . . Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate them one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats, and he will place the sheep at his right hand, but the goats at the left. . . . And they will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.” (CCC, #1038). On that Day, everyone, including Atheistgirl, will be “a believer.”

She, like most “agnostic atheists” will object, saying, “You can’t prove that assertion?” To why I reply, so what, “It’s true, which means that when it does happen, you will no longer doubt it.” Not a threat, but a promise, and an eternal one at that. Reality has its own existence, so to quote Carl Sagan once again, “Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence” even if “extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.” But, “says who”?

A much better question would be to ask, “Is the One and Triune God, a Perfect and Infinite Being, a circus animal?” If not, why do atheists and other nonbelievers expect Him to perform as one? Still, we have many excellent reasons to believe that the Catholic Faith is the One True Faith:
  1. “The Universe came from nothing by nothing.” We can credit William Lane Craig, a Protestant apologist, for popularizing this teaching of the scholastics, but everything which begins to exist must have a cause, and since the Universe began to exist (13.7 billion years ago), it must also have a cause.
  2. Actual infinities cannot exist in Nature. You can judge Dr. Craig’s Hilbert Hotel example for yourself, but to believe in an infinite Universe has its own set of paradoxes, one of which is that there are an infinite number of “mes” and “yous.”
  3. My neurons made me ‘do it’. If the conservation laws of nature are true (energy, momentum, angular momentum, etc.) and your “conscious self” is just electrons transitioning from one quantum state to another, then you have no free will, hence, you are not responsible for anything that you do, say, or believe.
  4. The conscious self survives the death of the brain. Never been proven, of course, but the late Pam Reynolds comes close:
youtube.com/watch?v=WNbdUEqDB-k

Is the glass “half-full” or “half-empty”?
  1. The Miracle of the Sun. The direct witnesses from that day are numerous and credible:
fatima.org/essentials/facts/miracle.asp

No embellishment can be alleged, as the event made the October 15, 1917 newspapers, within 48 hours of its occurrence. Likewise, the “distant witnesses” eliminate any “local” naturalistic explanation.
  1. The 500 witnesses to Christ’s Resurrection. Very few Biblical scholars argue with respect to the authorship and dating of 1st Corinthians (the Apostle Paul, 55-56 AD) or with the fact that Paul, in 1st Corinthians 15, is reporting a list of witnesses to the Risen Christ which he received from others. The “500 brethren” is in all extant manuscripts, and most ardent skeptics like to claim that it was an embellishment, a later ad-don, even though there is not a shred of historical evidence to support their claims.
 
Their flaw is, of course, in not recognizing the fact that we do have evidence, just not the hardcore scientific evidence which, they say, is required for them to believe in our God.
What indisputable peer reviewed scientific evidence 🤷
No embellishment can be alleged, as the event made the October 15, 1917 newspapers, within 48 hours of its occurrence.
Right.

And we know if it’s in a newspaper it must be true 😃

And every observatory in the world that could scientifically verify the behavior of the sun on that day missed it - including the one at the Vatican 😃

Sarah x 🙂
 
What indisputable evidence 🤷

And every observatory in the world apparently missed it 😃

Sarah x 🙂
Indeed, they did, because what was predicted to occur and where it was predicted to occur did, in fact, occur, in the skies above the Cova da Iria fields just outside of Fatima, Portugal at the appointed time on the appointed day. If the miracle which was prophesied on at least several times months in advance of its occurring had been prophesied to be a “worldwide one,” what would be the point of thousands of people traveling dozens to hundreds of miles on foot, horse, car, etc. to see a miracle which they could have witnessed from their doorsteps?
 
Not just miracles.

There is no evidence that I can see for any of the claims of believers in their Deity - remembering of course there is more than one God or type of Deity that people of different beliefs and cultures believe in.

Sarah x 🙂
Since you have no concrete, testable, etc. evidence to support the non-existence of God, you are relying on your reasoning as the acceptable basis. You consider your reasoning as “evidence”, so to speak, for doubt.
I also include my reasoning in my “evidence” for belief.

I guess what I don’t understand is that you seem to have a double standard. Believers in God must have “indisputable peer reviewed scientific evidence” for their stance to have any credible support or claim to validity. But you do not have to provide the same type of evidence.
 
Indeed, they did, because what was predicted to occur and where it was predicted to occur did, in fact, occur, in the skies above the Cova da Iria fields just outside of Fatima, Portugal at the appointed time on the appointed day. If the miracle which was prophesied on at least several times months in advance of its occurring had been prophesied to be a “worldwide one,” what would be the point of thousands of people traveling dozens to hundreds of miles on foot, horse, car, etc. to see a miracle which they could have witnessed from their doorsteps?
No, it was never predicted WHAT would happen ahead of time. Just a ‘‘miracle’’. No where was it predicted that the sun would dance in the sky before the event.

And perfectly plausable explanations have been given for what people apparently saw.

Remembering just about everyone there believed and were expecting to see ‘‘something’’ happen 🤷

Again, not a single observatory around the world, set up to record exactly such events, including the Vatican’s own observatory, reported anything unusal.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Since you have no concrete, testable, etc. evidence to support the non-existence of God,
Good grief 🤷

Why would I 🤷

I’m not the one making the claim there is a God, and making claims about exactly what He’s like and what He wants 🤷

I also have no concrete evidence there is not an invisible elephant living in my shoe closet, but then again, I’m not claiming that there is 🤷

Sarah x 🙂
 
I also have no concrete evidence there is not an invisible elephant living in my shoe closet, but then again, I’m not claiming that there is 🤷

Sarah x 🙂
Nobody is, so there’s nothing to refute. You’re rejecting belief in something that has been accepted by the huge majority of humanity across the ages - belief in God/gods.
 
You’re rejecting belief in something that has been accepted by the huge majority of humanity across the ages - belief in God/gods.
That’s me 😃

I’ve always ploughed my own furrow 😃

Always walked my own path 😃

I’ve never been concerned with what the majority think or believe.

Especially when they make claims to me I should too, and can’t produce any credible evidence as to why 🤷

Sarah x 🙂
 
No, it was never predicted WHAT would happen ahead of time. Just a ‘‘miracle’’. No where was it predicted that the sun would dance in the sky before the event.

And perfectly plausable explanations have been given for what people apparently saw.

Remembering just about everyone there believed and were expecting to see ‘‘something’’ happen 🤷

Again, not a single observatory around the world, set up to record exactly such events, including the Vatican’s own observatory, reported anything unusal.

Sarah x 🙂
Since the miracle was local (once again, this was the motivation for people traveling to the Cova da Iria fields in the first place), it could not (and was not) observed by anyone more than 40 miles away. Even Richard Dawkins admits the following:
“On the face of it mass visions, such as the report that seventy thousand pilgrims at Fatima in Portugal in 1917 saw the sun ‘tear itself from the heavens and come crashing down upon the multitude’, are harder to write off. It is not easy to explain how seventy thousand people could share the same hallucination…"The God Delusion (page 91)
Richard goes on after that to get all of his facts wrong. Again, “Is the glass half-full or half-empty?” I wish that I could offer you proof, but I can’t. At this time the Spirit of the Lord requires that we have faith; the proof will come later on, but until then, you must have faith.
 
I have been going through a real tough time spiritually lately. It all started when I started my search for the one true religion over a year and a half ago. I went through all the world religions one by one and marked them out when I knew they couldnt be true. I got stuck between Catholicism, Islam, Judaism, and Neo-Paganism. So I prayed to God to show me the truth and I have been praying for over a year with no answers. There are times when I stay up all night crying and begging for God to show me the truth. I am like Thomas I need to see to believe and Thomas is a saint and in Catholicism there are thousands of reports of God (or someone on his behalf) appearing to people when they didnt ask for it. So why cant God show me the truth if he has to others? I promised him that once I know the truth I would use my life to serve him (Priest, Rabbi, Imam). My only desire in life is to serve God and yet he wont answer me no matter how much I pray and beg. Lately I have been watching alot of Dawkins and Maher and this whole thing isn`t helping. I about ready to give up and become an Atheist which would really depress me because there would be no afterlife or reason for being I will fill even more worthless than I already am. Not to mention that I have to hide this whole thing from my parents at the same time( racist anti any religion other than baptist christian types)
Please I am begging everyone to help me.
Keep searching for the truth and have an unquenchable thirst for the truth that is of God. Stick around these forums and you will find many answers to your questions. The Lord is answering your prayers by bringing you to this forum. Stay away from atheist materials. Remain focused on the truth. Noise and dust from the likes of Dawkins will only obscure your view.

Moreover, place no demands or requirements on the Lord in terms of how you might want your prayers to be answered. God sent his only son, Jesus, to give his life for your salvation. Jesus worked many miracles during his life, rose from the dead, and ascended into heaven. That is where the truth is clearly revealed. Why would the Lord need to provide you with more evidence or proof? Pray that your heart and mind are open to God and his truth which have already been manifest and put before you.

You must seek the Lord in truth and holiness. You cannot wait for some special sign. It is time to take the words of the Lord to heart when he says: “If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake, he will save it. For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself?”[Luke 9:23-25]

You do not have to be perfect in knowledge or understanding to begin to follow Jesus. You must simply decide to accept the grace that God has given you to do so, and proceed from there. The fact that you are here on this forum and relating your story and struggles tells me that God’s grace is already working in you. The Lord is already calling you and you hear his voice, but the distracting voices of the world are making it difficult for you to understand that you are already hearing His divine call. Fear not and cast out into the deep. The Lord wants you in the boat with Him and the rest of his disciples.

I will pray for you.

God bless.
 
I don’t have peer reviewed evidence, except, for NDEs, which have been published in some reputable medical journals.
I’ve read most of the NDE stuff I’ve come across.

It’s a fascinating area, and studies in that field were to first to indicate death might be better understood as a process over time, rather than a singular momentary event.

But it’s not shown by any means that death is not just that, death.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Since the miracle was local (once again, this was the motivation for people traveling to the Cova da Iria fields in the first place), it could not (and was not) observed by anyone more than 40 miles away. Even Richard Dawkins admits the following:
And the rest of Dawkins quote says this:
But it is even harder to accept that it really happened without the rest of the word, outside Fatima, seeing it too — and not just seeing it, but feeling it as the catastrophic destruction of the solar system, including acceleration forces sufficient to hurl everybody into space. David Hume’s pith test for a miracle comes irresistibly to mine: ‘No testimony is sufficient to establish a miracle, unless the testimony be of such a kind, that its falsehood would be more miraculous than the fact which it endeavours to establish.’
It may seem improbable that seventy thousand people could simultaneously be deluded, or could simultaneously collude in a mass lie. Or that history is mistaken in recording that seventy thousand people claimed to see the sun dance. Or that they all simultaneously saw a mirage (they had been persuaded to stare at the sun, which can’t have done much for the eyesight.) But any of those apparent improbabilities is far more probable than the alternative: that the Earth was suddenly yanked sideways in its orbit, and the solar system destroyed, with nobody outside Fatima noticing. I mean, Portugal is not that isolated.”
Others have done a far better job of putting forward explanations as to what actually happened - Dawkin’s doesn’t try to explain any of it, but just observes it’s high level of improbability, given that we know the earth would have been destroyed if such an event like the sun dancing in the sky and falling towards earth, had actually happened.
I wish that I could offer you proof, but I can’t.
And I appreciate you being honest about this.
At this time the Spirit of the Lord requires that we have faith; the proof will come later on, but until then, you must have faith.
I can’t have faith in something I see no evidence for.

The way you’ve phrased it sounds a bit like the ‘‘fake it until you make it’’ maxim.

Something like, Have faith, and once you’ve adjusted your world view enough, suddenly you’ll start ‘‘seeing’’ all these ‘‘proofs’’ that were eluding you.

It doesn’t work like that for me I’m afraid. Were I to throw my lot in behind a belief system or a particular Deity, I’d sure as heck want evidence this Deity was there in the first place.

Sarah x 🙂
 
That’s me 😃

I’ve always ploughed my own furrow 😃

Always walked my own path 😃

I’ve never been concerned with what the majority think or believe.
Yup, that’s you. 😃
Nothing wrong or unusual about walking your own path - everyone does. I just find the absence of miracles a very weak basis for doubting the existence of God - for walking that path. Felt there must be more than that underlying your claim to be atheist. I was just curious as to what that evidence is. But, I think there’s a temporary ban on atheism threads so I won’t pursue that line since it might violate the ban.
 
Felt there must be more than that underlying your claim to be atheist. I was just curious as to what that evidence is. But, I think there’s a temporary ban on atheism threads so I won’t pursue that line since it might violate the ban.
I’ve said it’s not just the absence of miracles, but they’re part of it.

There’s nothing deep or emotional about my atheism. It’s a simple position on a single subject.

Nothing more.

Never believed in a Deity of any kind. Never saw any reason to believe in a Deity of any kind. Never saw an evidence of the existence of a Deity of any kind.

There’s nothing missing in my life and I’m not looking for anything. The simple reason I’m here is it’s one of several fora I visit to engage in conversation with adults about the ‘big’ topics that have always engaged mankind.

I’m no different in that sense of finding these subjects fascinating.

But with regards to faith and Deity I have my answers, in the absence of evidence to the contrary.

Your feeling of there ‘‘must me more’’ is just simply misplaced, but people do love to fill in all sorts of stuff for themselves and ‘‘project’’.

Sarah x 🙂
 
I’ve said it’s not just the absence of miracles, but they’re part of it.

There’s nothing deep or emotional about my atheism. It’s a simple position on a single subject.

Nothing more.

Never believed in a Deity of any kind. Never saw any reason to believe in a Deity of any kind. Never saw an evidence of the existence of a Deity of any kind.

But with regards to faith and Deity I have my answers, in the absence of evidence to the contrary.

Your feeling of there ‘‘must me more’’ is just simply misplaced, but people do love to fill in all sorts of stuff for themselves and ‘‘project’’.

Sarah x 🙂
My belief in God has never been the result of “feeling” – not even as a young child. I was taught about God by my parents, but at a very young age believed on my own through reasoning. When I first learned there were people who didn’t believe there was a god, I couldn’t imagine how they could rationally come to that decision. Still don’t. Used to wish I could talk to one so they could give me their line of reasoning. Were your parents atheist or agnostic?

Miracles were never a basis for my belief. They’re wonderful when they happen, but God could have chosen never to intervene in supernatural ways and He would still exist. So that has never been any sort of criterion for me.

You say you don’t have any “reason” to believe; reason is the reason I believe.

Have a nice day. 🙂
 
Perhaps being a former “card carrying” atheist myself, I probably should “chime in” here.

Like most atheists, “Atheistgirl” is a negative (or weak) atheist, or, as they like to sometimes call themselves, an “agnostic atheist.” The “gnostic” refers to knowledge and the “theist” refers to belief, so “ag-nostic” refers to “not knowledge” and “a-theist” refers to “not belief.” To paraphrase the late Carl Sagan from his book Contact, the main character “Ellie” (if I recall correctly) when asked, “Do you believe in God?” replied, “If I say ‘No,’ do I mean that I am convinced that God does not exist, or do I mean that I am not convinced that God does exist.” Atheistgirl, like most atheists, are in the later category. Not many “strong atheists” exist in the World today; most such atheists would claim that there is at least a 1 in 10*17 chance that a god exists, or to quote Carl Sagan loosely, “Some forms of atheism are stupid, because they claim to know that which they cannot know.” Again, paraphrasing here.

So, atheistgirl is a negative atheist; she, like Bertrand Russell, considers the “god of Judaism/Christianity” to be like the “proverbial teapot” in orbit between Earth & Mars, Jupiter, etc. For them, the “god of Christianity” is on par with the “gods of Mount Olympus”. If you don’t believe in the later, “why believe in former?” or so goes their logic. So, in their view, the most rational approach is to “suspend judgment” with respect to the Christian god, and just as they do not continuously check their closets for “invisible trolls” which, by the laws of probability, might be there, so, too, they are not going to “waste their time” checking the “miracle claims” and other “evidences” for the Christian god, which, in their view, is on par with alien abductions, Big Foot, Nessy, etc.

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Thank you Jehannette. I had never heard of weak/negative atheism - or agnostic atheism. How does it differ from agnisticism?
As you can tell, I am not knowledgeable in this area.
 
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