To have issues with the Church, and to be disobedient to the Church, are two different things. To be frustrated with things she does, does not mean one doesn’t love her. When others have problems with me, I often benefit because even though they may be mean about it, they may still have a point that I could consider.
Honestly, this is one of the most serious issues I’ve come to recognize, and it’s so simple it’s amazing that it took me this long to figure it out. Simply put, bishops and parish priests are put in charge of both the temporal possessions and the money, but also the spiritual lives of the people they would like to help “get on board.” God says you cannot serve both God and mammon, so in essence we have assigned them to do a job that God says cannot be done. Some have tried to tell me this warning by Jesus doesn’t apply to priests and bishops, but not convincingly so.
You’re not the only one. In my particular parish, I don’t have any big issues with the way money is spent; mostly just the way it is raised.
I think with all the pressure to pay the bills, priests who are responsible for getting it done tend to get frustrated and harp on “accountability” and “responsibility” or the parishioners to give, and in one case a priest, during Sunday homily, said those who aren’t living up to their pledges (and don’t get me started on pledges

) are like “leeches,” sucking the blood out of the parish. That may be how he felt, but I think saying it in a homily is unlikely to improve the situation, and in fact makes it worse. As it says plainly and simply in our (virtually unused) diocesan stewardship manual,
true stewardship is based on the parishioners’ need to give, not on the parish’s need to receive. It’s hard to keep that perspective when the bills are higher than the income. Of course, if stewardship had been properly implemented 20 years ago we wouldn’t have this problem today.
Agreed.
Alan