Adam and Eve vs. Bob and Sue

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Choices are still possible, but I wouldn’t call it free will. If you coerce someone in some way, they are simply making a decision that they otherwise would not have normally made on their own and of their true free will.
So your objection is not so much that you think there’s a conflict between God’s omniscience and free will, or any other conflicts with free will, but the idea of free will itself.

To espouse your position, that essentially any influence on any decision makes it not free, you have to be taking the position that free will itself is a nonsensical concept, a contradiction in terms, an impossibility, regardless of anything else in this discussion.

You can’t claim free will under any circumstances, if you hold to this idea that influences make a choice not free. Because there is NO circumstance that is devoid of influences.

Essentially, you seem to be taking the position of some in the culture that we are all, ultimately, mindless chemical reactions, products of our environments, directed ultimately by the accumulation of events and pressures of the environment.

That’s the extreme position wherein your argument logically concludes.

We are all subject to many influences–our upbringing, our education, our past decisions, our degree of knowledge about a situation and the factors surrounding it, our intelligence and clarity of thought and reason, our degree of knowledge of the consequences, and any other attempts at persuasion by someone else.

We can’t escape these. To be devoid of any influences, we would have to make choices “in a vacuum” so to speak, but there can be no vacuum, because for it to exist, there can’t even be any knowledge to any degree, and thus nothing to even make a choice about.
 
Like Jonah. He ran away and made up his mind. He later changed his mind because God kept hounding, coercing, and strongily intervening, as you put it. It seems like if Jonah did change his mind at all, it was done due to all of the factors listed and not done freely.
He could freely have chosen to ignore God or shake his fist at Him or curse Him and be obstinate. That’s free will. That’s the difference in choice between Satan, who did just that, and Mary, who just submitted and said “Yes.”

By your standards, you’d have to say that Jonah’s “first” decision in this chain wasn’t free. He was influenced by past hatreds of the Ninevites, and fears of going before them, probably because of their brutalities, as well as inculturated prejudices and personal insecurities.

This is the nature of all sin, all deviance from the will of God. Poor choices, made because of personal infirmities, lack of knowledge, poor reasoning, lack of wisdom or ability to see the consequences, fear, faithlessness, pride, etc. This is why sin is insanity, why the Church asserts that following the will of God makes us MORE free, and sin makes us slaves.

It’s not that free will isn’t there, it is that our choices, when sinful, make us less free, in another sense. It’s a matter of degree.
Someone pointing a gun to your head and coercing you (forcing you) to renounce your Faith, and you doing it, is not a free choice at all. It was only done out of fear, our of survival, and because a gun was pointed to your head. Had this not been the case, you would not have renounced your Faith.
It’s just a difference in circumstance. It’s just a difference in consequence of the choice. It’s not a difference in the ultimate freedom of my choice.

By conducting a Mass in England during certain periods of history, a priest could be, later, once discovered, tried and executed. That’s a consequence of his action. He was still free to conduct Mass or not. The immediacy of the coercion is different than if a gun were immediately placed to his head, but the coercive attempt is still there. It does not change his free will, only the consequences of his choice.

Free will itself is quite and completely independent from consequences and intent. Just because you intend or want something does not mean that you are not free just because the consequences of your choice don’t line up with what you want.

It really baffles my mind to even think of declaring “free will” itself to be non-existent when you don’t like the consequences of a choice, or don’t like that someone might try to do something to influence your choice or persuade you otherwise. But I guess that’s pretty symptomatic of the exceedingly deceptive indoctrination and poor reasoning inherent to our culture today.

It is, after all, the mentality behind abortion (I chose to have sex, but I don’t like that I got pregnant, so I should be able to kill my child, and the government should protect and even help me to do so, otherwise I don’t have any choice) and the madness around the HHS abortion mandate (you’re violating my freedom to choose abortifacients and sterilization because you’re not paying for them! you’re imposing your beliefs on me and making me un-free if you don’t do what I want you to do and facilitate my lifestyle!). It’s behind so many other social ills and threats, for that matter (contraceptive mentality, no-fault divorce, same sex “marriage,” etc). On reflection, this confusion is really pretty prevalent, apparently, and incredibly dangerous and detrimental to society and the individual.

So sad that people are so confused about this.
Hell doesn’t prove that free will exists. It may also mean that God, for whatever reason, destines certain people to hell.
You’re right, that IS a possibility. For it to be, you’d have to assert that your choices don’t matter, and that God (arbitrarily?) inflicts hell upon people. You’d have to say that God is not all good.

It is also possible that God could be so persuasive and merciful, ultimately, that everyone would freely, in the end, choose to be with Him forever in Heaven.

Free will is more strongly displayed, however, by the existence of hell–since it demonstrates that we can freely choose God in Heaven, or choose to reject Him if we want, and remain in hell.
 
Yes but Jesus said Judas was a devil. Which means he was evil and the devil wants nothing to do with God.

I believe Jesus did pass judgment when he called him a devil.
It is more accurate to say with St John that Satan entered Judas. In other words the traitor was possessed; otherwise he wouldn’t have repented and killed himself in despair. It is those who don’t repent who are in hell…
 
If God knew Adam and Eve would sin why not create Bob and Sue instead who would not sin?
Because God loved Adam and Eve, and all of their descendants. Consider, none of us would exist if Adam and Eve, specifically, had not been created. The descendants of Bob and Sue would have been different people, just as Bob and Sue would have been different people from Adam and Eve. But for whatever reason–who am I to know the mind of God?–He loved Adam and Eve, and all their descendants, enough to create them. Yes, this means that sin could enter the world and gravely offend God’s goodness, yes this means that there will be lost souls, but I personally (and some on these very forums have vehemently disagreed with me on this point) believe that the most supreme evidence that God doesn’t love something is not if He creates it knowing it may go to Hell, but if He never even created it at all. I believe, based on scripture, that if God had his “rathers” then “all would be saved,” as the Scripture says He wants NONE to be lost. But He’s willing to sacrifice even that for the sake of creating exactly the people whom He has created. Because God loves us all too much to have permitted any of us to never exist, even for the sake of preserving a perfect “sinless” reality.

Just my :twocents:

Blessings in Christ,
KindredSoul
 
This is not true, although you are right it is not okay for us to take our own life or another, Catholic teaching never says it is lack of faith and trust in God.

The Catholic Church teaches that when a person takes their own life they are usually not mentally stable and God understands this. We have every right to believe and pray that God indeed has mercy on a person who is in such a sign of despair, and have every right to believe God is a just God and has mercy on these People also.
👍 Judas certainly didn’t lack faith because he realised the enormity of his crime. It is understandable that he lacked hope after betraying his Master but it is impossible to know to what extent he was responsible. Having failed to tempt Jesus it seems likely that Satan would resort to more than one of the apostles to bring about His downfall. Peter fell into his trap and virtually betrayed his Master even though he was the Rock on which the Church was built. It demonstrates how those who believe they are close to God are in danger of damnation. To judge others is a form of pride…
 
I meant Judas didnt have time to repent as he was hanging from the rope. His brain cells likely died quick and he probably went unconscious, then died. Theres no repenting going on there from what I can see. Then there’s the words of our Lord Jesus, describing the fate of Judas. Its pretty clear.
Depending on the exact manner of the hanging, he could have had quite a bit of time to repent :eek:

Not done properly, hanging can be a slow tortuous strangulation process :eek:

I hope he is in Heaven, if there is one.

I feel bad for the guy, always have.

Sarah x 🙂
 
Depending on the exact manner of the hanging, he could have had quite a bit of time to repent :eek:

Not done properly, hanging can be a slow tortuous strangulation process :eek:

I hope he is in Heaven, if there is one.

I feel bad for the guy, always have.

Sarah x 🙂
👍 He didn’t spend his life exploiting the poor like the Scribes and Pharisees…
 
Depending on the exact manner of the hanging, he could have had quite a bit of time to repent :eek:

Not done properly, hanging can be a slow tortuous strangulation process :eek:
A friend down the street had enough time that it looked like she struggled to free herself, but failed.
I hope he is in Heaven, if there is one.

I feel bad for the guy, always have.

Sarah x 🙂
There is a heaven because that is the inherent desire of humanity.
 
A friend down the street had enough time that it looked like she struggled to free herself, but failed.
I’m sorry to hear about your friend :hug1:

I know what it’s like to lose a friend in tragic circumstances.
There is a heaven because that is the inherent desire of humanity.
I don’t think just because humanity desires something makes it so.

Most desire world peace. 🤷

Besides, it’s not my desire. 🙂

It really isn’t.

I have not now, nor have I ever had, even for a moment, a desire to live beyond the life I know I have in this world. 🙂

Sarah x 🙂
 
I have not now, nor have I ever had, even for a moment, a desire to live beyond the life I know I have in this world. 🙂
Have you ever desired to be happy?
Has there ever been a limit to your desire for more happiness than you’ve had in your life (either in degree or at least in duration–not desiring to be unhappy)?
 
Have you ever desired to be happy?
Yes.
Has there ever been a limit to your desire for more happiness than you’ve had in your life (either in degree or at least in duration–not desiring to be unhappy)?
Yes.

I am perfectly content.

More money could make me happier because of the things I could do with it both for myself and others but I’m not prepared to chase that happiness at the expense of family time.

Life and happiness is a series of trade-offs.

Sarah x 🙂
 
The desire for happiness is a desire for heaven–thus you desire heaven, though you may not know it/put it in those terms 🙂
I am perfectly content.
More money could make me happier because of the things I could do with it both for myself and others but I’m not prepared to chase that happiness at the expense of family time.
Life and happiness is a series of trade-offs.
Trade-offs, yes, in this life. Wouldn’t it be nice not to have trade-offs? Just the recognition of a tradeoff is a recognition that there could be more, but that desire for more is not achievable in this limited life.

Moreover, have you always in every moment been “perfectly content?” A lack, or even just a desire to continue to be content, particularly if you recognize that you may not always be so content, simply due to life’s imperfections, is also an inherent desire for heaven.

This desire for happiness and continued contentedness is the only hunger that cannot be satisfied naturally. In context of the animal world, to have a hunger that cannot be satiated makes no sense, naturally. It is a supernatural longing, for something supernatural.

C.S. Lewis (and Peter Kreeft) have lots to say about this, and how it is evidence of God.
 
The desire for happiness is a desire for heaven–thus you desire heaven, though you may not know it/put it in those terms 🙂
Heaven meaning the Christian Heaven? That’s a nice bald assertion right there!

Which clearly I don’t agree with since what I desire in terms of happiness is relatively really no different to that any other sentient being on the planet 😃

Are you saying my horses and dogs desire heaven too?
I’m their heaven 😃

And they’re part of mine 😃
Trade-offs, yes, in this life.
That’s how the real world works.

And part of that equation is forgoing elements of our own happiness for the betterment or benefit of others, which it turns out, also makes us happy.
Wouldn’t it be nice not to have trade-offs?
No that’s the land of fairy-tales, not reality.

For all it’s flaws and frustrations, I prefer to live in reality.
Just the recognition of a trade-off is a recognition that there could be more, but that desire for more is not achievable in this limited life.
Absolutely.

Welcome to the real world. 😃
Moreover, have you always in every moment been “perfectly content?”
Of course not.
A lack, or even just a desire to continue to be content, particularly if you recognize that you may not always be so content, simply due to life’s imperfections, is also an inherent desire for heaven.
Of course it’s not.

It’s simply recognizing the drive we share as a species to succeed, reproduce and thrive and see the rest of our species do the same.

Part of being a mature adult is the ability to put off short term pleasure/gains for longer term happiness/satisfaction/contentment. If as you claim desiring to be happy is a desire for heaven, which we will experience only after we die, then, really, none of us need to do anything to improve our lot, or that of our fellow man. We simply need to pass the time of day however we can until we die, where heaven awaits.

How’s that for demotivation!!!

I think there’s also a mistake being made in the assumption that to have to put off some happiness/pleasure or level of contentment now for an investment in the future is somehow a kind of deprivation and so something to be unhappy about.

That’s not how the real world works.

I’m expecting my first grandchild two weeks from now.

We’ve been preparing for the birth of this beautiful, wonderful child.

This has involved hard work, investment, lots of $$$$ and massive investments of time which could have been spent swimming, dancing, hiking…

Do you seriously think for one moment that *any *of those missed opportunities over the past nine months detracts from the happiness we are experiencing as a family? Or my ecstasy knowing I’m very soon to be a Grandmother?
This desire for happiness and continued contentedness is the only hunger that cannot be satisfied naturally.
Except, of course, it is satisfied naturally.

On a daily basis.
In context of the animal world, to have a hunger that cannot be satiated makes no sense, naturally. It is a supernatural longing, for something supernatural.
There’s nothing supernatural about being happy.

Just ask my horses and dogs 😃

Sarah x 🙂
 
I’m sorry to hear about your friend :hug1:

I know what it’s like to lose a friend in tragic circumstances.

I don’t think just because humanity desires something makes it so.

Most desire world peace. 🤷

Besides, it’s not my desire. 🙂

It really isn’t.

I have not now, nor have I ever had, even for a moment, a desire to live beyond the life I know I have in this world. 🙂

Sarah x 🙂
Blessings for your first grandchild and loving family.

And thank you for your sympathy for my friend.

I am trying to think of words to substitute for a desire of heaven. Maybe the desire to be true in sharing goodness with others. By true, I mean personal integrity. And the kind of personal integrity which goes beyond that natural desire for personal and culture survival.
 
Blessings for your first grandchild and loving family.
Thank you 😃

Your kind thoughts mean a lot.

This will be my daughter’s first child.

She has had a wonderful, healthy pregnancy to date and nothing has phased her.

I’ve seen such a transformation in her as she prepares for motherhood.

I, on the other hand, have gone retrograde and am turning into mush with anticipation 😃

Sarah x 🙂
 
I meant Judas didnt have time to repent as he was hanging from the rope. His brain cells likely died quick and he probably went unconscious, then died. Theres no repenting going on there from what I can see. Then there’s the words of our Lord Jesus, describing the fate of Judas. Its pretty clear.
Yes Jesus made it clear Judas chose the devil over him. But Judas had ever opportunity to repent the same as Peter did.

Peter could have hung himself also. But he took the right path and repented.
 
Despair is lack of faith, hope, and trust in God. Ive also heard of Judas’ despair referenced as “Diabolical Despair” by a priest.
Yes but the point I was trying to make is no one knows the mental state a person is in when they choose to take their own life.

Jesus knew the state of mind Judas was in, because he told us the fate of Judas.

But you can never assume the state of mind of a person who is in a state of despair. Only God understands this, and only God makes the decision of the persons fate.

God is a merciful God and knows when a person loves and trusts him. We all at times loose faith, hope and trust. Its part of being human. But it is Grace given to us by God that renews our faith hope and trust in God.

And it is never for us to assume what a person feels at a time of despair. We only pray for the souls and the mercy of God.

Yes we are taught that we are to value human life and never take our own life or the life of another.

But again we can never assume the fate of the person. We do not have the mind of God. And his judgement is fair and merciful.
 
Choices are still possible, but I wouldn’t call it free will. If you coerce someone in some way, they are simply making a decision that they otherwise would not have normally made on their own and of their true free will.

Like Jonah. He ran away and made up his mind. He later changed his mind because God kept hounding, coercing, and strongily intervening, as you put it. It seems like if Jonah did change his mind at all, it was done due to all of the factors listed and not done freely.

Someone pointing a gun to your head and coercing you (forcing you) to renounce your Faith, and you doing it, is not a free choice at all. It was only done out of fear, our of survival, and because a gun was pointed to your head. Had this not been the case, you would not have renounced your Faith.

Hell doesn’t prove that free will exists. It may also mean that God, for whatever reason, destines certain people to hell.
God never destines any person to hell. God wants all people to live with him in heaven in everlasting life.

It is our own rejection of God that sends us to hell. God has nothing to do with it.
 
It is more accurate to say with St John that Satan entered Judas. In other words the traitor was possessed; otherwise he wouldn’t have repented and killed himself in despair. It is those who don’t repent who are in hell…
Where does the Church ever state that Judas repented?

Judas had remorse and regretted what he had done, but was it for the right reasons? The desire of Judas was to betray Jesus. So the Devil entered into to and empowered that desire.

Acts Tells us Judas turned aside to go to his own place. Judas killed himself because he was indeed in a state of despair. Yes he regretted what he had done, but he was never shown repenting what he had done.

Its like if I go and rob a bank, and then things don’t go the way I wanted them to go, and I get caught. I don’t regret robbing the bank, I regret getting caught, and having to pay the consequences.

Remorse and Repentance is not the same thing.
 
Heaven meaning the Christian Heaven? That’s a nice bald assertion right there!

Which clearly I don’t agree with since what I desire in terms of happiness is relatively really no different to that any other sentient being on the planet 😃

Are you saying my horses and dogs desire heaven too?
I’m their heaven 😃

And they’re part of mine 😃

That’s how the real world works.

And part of that equation is forgoing elements of our own happiness for the betterment or benefit of others, which it turns out, also makes us happy.

No that’s the land of fairy-tales, not reality.

For all it’s flaws and frustrations, I prefer to live in reality.

Absolutely.

Welcome to the real world. 😃

Of course not.

Of course it’s not.

It’s simply recognizing the drive we share as a species to succeed, reproduce and thrive and see the rest of our species do the same.

Part of being a mature adult is the ability to put off short term pleasure/gains for longer term happiness/satisfaction/contentment. If as you claim desiring to be happy is a desire for heaven, which we will experience only after we die, then, really, none of us need to do anything to improve our lot, or that of our fellow man. We simply need to pass the time of day however we can until we die, where heaven awaits.

How’s that for demotivation!!!

I think there’s also a mistake being made in the assumption that to have to put off some happiness/pleasure or level of contentment now for an investment in the future is somehow a kind of deprivation and so something to be unhappy about.

That’s not how the real world works.

I’m expecting my first grandchild two weeks from now.

We’ve been preparing for the birth of this beautiful, wonderful child.

This has involved hard work, investment, lots of $$$$ and massive investments of time which could have been spent swimming, dancing, hiking…

Do you seriously think for one moment that *any *of those missed opportunities over the past nine months detracts from the happiness we are experiencing as a family? Or my ecstasy knowing I’m very soon to be a Grandmother?

Except, of course, it is satisfied naturally.

On a daily basis.

There’s nothing supernatural about being happy.

Just ask my horses and dogs 😃

Sarah x 🙂
I wish you and your daughter happiness in your new baby. It is a thrill and never gets old as they just keep coming.

On the subject of heaven, if I were not a believer, I think I would feel pretty much the way you feel about heaven. I would prefer the known to the unknown, reality to promises.

But once a person meets the wonderful person that Jesus really is, then it turns around, for the heart has found another treasure, not in words, but inside…just as you have found a new love in your grandchild. He makes such a difference…and we want to be with him and do not doubt that what he promises about an experience that is beyond our imagination is true. We are no longer the same person and will never lose those whom we love by death.

I lost my parents for quite a while, and I am looking forward to being with them again with the happiness that is not otherwise possible in this life. I miss them but am consoled that this time without them will be short.

May God bless and keep you. May God’s face shine on you. May God be kind to you and give you peace.
 
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