Altar Girls - Official or Not?

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No, but Spellinggirl seems to think so.

She seems to think that it is ‘sexist’ for a priest or bishop to use a Canonical right that Pope John Paul II gave them to refuse the use of females at the altar. :rolleyes:
Oh heavens Brendan, are we at this again :rolleyes:😛 did you ever write to the Vatican and find out about those cassocks? 😉

My daughter serves! 👍 I support both girls and boys serving at the table of our Lord.
 
Well the virtue is to seek a relationship with a person of the opposite sex, and it holds equally for both sexes; there is no double standard where one sex is permitted to get romantic with persons of the same sex while the other isn’t.
There would be no double standard in only having male servers either though. It wasn’t one of the women that helped Our Lord carry the cross for example. But the women did do other things e.g. the mothers of Jerusalem, Mary etc. The virtue of Altar Serving is to serve the Church and help the Priest during the Mass which can not be fully accomplished by everyone doing the same thing. You also need readers, people to clean and prepare the Church etc.

A woman does not love a man in an identical way to a man loving a woman. Isn’t it logical therefore to accept that the ways in which we are called to serve are similarly diverse.

(I’m not arguing that having girls as servers is a sin btw just that it is not a double standard for boys and girls to do different things, to have certain things allowed and others not, nor is it true that all things which might be good/virtuous for men to do are good/virtuous for women to do and vice versa.)
 
I have 5 daughters, I don’t think that girls should be permitted to serve in this capacity. There are plenty of other ways to serve our Lord at the parish level. As long as this keeps coming up, there will be no rest to the pushing of women becoming deacons or priests. Just because a woman or a girl shouldn’t serve at the Alter doesn’t mean she has less dignity than men. We all have rolls to play in serving God, they are different than each others and God created us to be different from one another.

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Hi there can i just ask why you feel it is better to have male only servers? am genuinely curious what your thoughts are.
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Okay, a religious sister in our diocese explained her views beautifully on this. It is natural for an altar boy to have a desire to become a priest. Allow altar girls would be like dangling a Hershey bar in their face and say look what I’ve got. You want it… well you can’t haive it. The point is that it helps foster vocations to the priesthood.
 
Okay, a religious sister in our diocese explained her views beautifully on this. It is natural for an altar boy to have a desire to become a priest. Allow altar girls would be like dangling a Hershey bar in their face and say look what I’ve got. You want it… well you can’t haive it. The point is that it helps foster vocations to the priesthood.
This has yet to be proven nor has it been proven that girls discourage vocations if they serve at the altar. That is opinion only. We have debated this issue to death on here many times.

I find the comment about dangling a Hershey bar in thier faces to be insulting. Girls are not that stupid. They don’t sign up to altar serve because they think they may one day be a priest. That is a bunch of rubbish and frankly a poor excuse for not having girls serve.
 
Oh heavens Brendan, are we at this again :rolleyes:😛 did you ever write to the Vatican and find out about those cassocks? 😉

My daughter serves! 👍 I support both girls and boys serving at the table of our Lord.
IMHO you are not part of the solution.

Perhaps from day one, if they were called altar-people, we would have agreed that both are “equal”.

God is Father.
Jesus is the Son of God
The Ordained males at the Last Supper were the Apostles - Bishops
The Laying on of hands continues the succession of men only in the ministerial priesthood.
The male priest acts in Persona Christi… impossible for women
The altar boy serves in the sanctuary - intended to be restricted to men.

Official… nope
Permitted… yep

Doomed… yep

(but I wanna be like a nun and wear a habit… hush boy, girls don’t wear habits …they wear cassocks)

end of rant
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IMHO you are not part of the solution.

Perhaps from day one, if they were called altar-people, we would have agreed that both are “equal”.
At one time, serving at the altar was an order of the Clergy, so it was restricted to males, as only males can be clergy.

At Vatican II, they removed all of the levels of clergy except for Deacon, Priest, and Bishop. The remainder were redefined as lay roles.

Lay roles are open to both males and females. They always have been. It’s not an “innovation” to allow girls to do things that lay people (boys and girls) are allowed to do. In fact, the definitive lay person is Mother Mary - a 14 year old girl. 👍
 
At one time, serving at the altar was an order of the Clergy, so it was restricted to males, as only males can be clergy.

At Vatican II, they removed all of the levels of clergy except for Deacon, Priest, and Bishop. The remainder were redefined as lay roles.

Lay roles are open to both males and females. They always have been. It’s not an “innovation” to allow girls to do things that lay people (boys and girls) are allowed to do. In fact, the definitive lay person is Mother Mary - a 14 year old girl. 👍
I am glad you stopped there…and did not imply that she was selected to serve at the Last Supper;)
 
At one time, serving at the altar was an order of the Clergy, so it was restricted to males, as only males can be clergy.

At Vatican II, they removed all of the levels of clergy except for Deacon, Priest, and Bishop. The remainder were redefined as lay roles.

Lay roles are open to both males and females. They always have been. It’s not an “innovation” to allow girls to do things that lay people (boys and girls) are allowed to do. In fact, the definitive lay person is Mother Mary - a 14 year old girl. 👍
:yup: :clapping: thanks jmcrae!
 
I am glad you stopped there…and did not imply that she was selected to serve at the Last Supper;)
She serves continually at the Altar in Heaven, though, raising the incense of our prayers up to God the Father. 🙂
 
Personally, I don’t have a problem with it in the OF. Why? It’s simply because they don’t seem to do much. I don’t like it at all with the EF. The acolytes do so much that means things in that one. I think the EF should be males only.
 
At one time, serving at the altar was an order of the Clergy, so it was restricted to males, as only males can be clergy.

At Vatican II, they removed all of the levels of clergy except for Deacon, Priest, and Bishop. The remainder were redefined as lay roles.

Lay roles are open to both males and females. They always have been. It’s not an “innovation” to allow girls to do things that lay people (boys and girls) are allowed to do. In fact, the definitive lay person is Mother Mary - a 14 year old girl. 👍
They were called Acolytes, and they were instituted to the position. Actually Vatican II reduced the number of minor orders but people are still instituted to them so they were never removed. Now it is normally only seminarians who become instituted Acolytes though.

No they haven’t been. Altar Serving has been a lay role for centuries because the vast majority of Parishes did not have a lot of instituted Acolytes. As such it has been permitted for a similar length of time for lay boys to serve at the Altar carrying out many of the functions usually carried out by an Acolyte. It has only been since around 1994 that Altar serving was open to girls and that is an innovation, to suggest that they have “always have been” is incorrect.

There have been dozens of Saints who were Altar boys, many polls suggest over 90% of Priests and Seminarians were Altar boys before entering the Seminary. It is only logical that if you reduce the number of Masses which have space for those boys to serve at you similarly reduce the number of potential Priests.
 
There have been dozens of Saints who were Altar boys, many polls suggest over 90% of Priests and Seminarians were Altar boys before entering the Seminary.
Do you have a reliable source for this statistic? I have never actually met any priest who served at the Altar as a child; they were too busy with their studies and books.
It is only logical that if you reduce the number of Masses which have space for those boys to serve at you similarly reduce the number of potential Priests.
Girls don’t take boys’ places - there is always room for as many boys as want to serve. Nobody is denying anything to the boys; they lose nothing by having girls there.
 
Do you have a reliable source for this statistic? I have never actually met any priest who served at the Altar as a child; they were too busy with their studies and books.

Girls don’t take boys’ places - there is always room for as many boys as want to serve. Nobody is denying anything to the boys; they lose nothing by having girls there.
To start with: here, here. To quote from the second “In addition, surveys on the social background of priests (Brooks, 1965) have indicated that as many as 90 percent of those sampled had been altar boys.” I could look up more but I’m sure you can do a Google search.

How about we do the Maths here. How many servers do you think most Parishes have room for on the Altar? As I’ve said previously at certain Masses there’s a clear case to make room for extra servers and some Parishes have all of the boys serve but the vast majority have a limit of around 6 servers per Mass. Hence every Altar girl you see can be one less Altar boy getting the chance. Even if we take some Parishes where they have a fortnightly/monthly rotation each week you end up with Altar boys who could serve not serving.
 
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How about we do the Maths here. How many servers do you think most Parishes have room for on the Altar?
As many as show up to serve, in practice. Typically we have six-eight kids serving at any given Mass at our parish, with a pretty much even mix of boys and girls. Nobody is ever turned away.
As I’ve said previously at certain Masses there’s a clear case to make room for extra servers and some Parishes have all of the boys serve but the vast majority have a limit of around 6 servers per Mass. Hence every Altar girl you see can be one less Altar boy getting the chance.
I have never seen a boy turned away in favour of a girl - ever.
 
I rather not see female alter-server. The point is to give you thoughts of Priestly vocations. It can help for girls, but for guys… it might HURT it.
 
I rather not see female alter-server. The point is to give you thoughts of Priestly vocations. It can help for girls, but for guys… it might HURT it.
Actually, no - the point of Altar serving is to be of service to your parish priest. A priestly vocation is a potential side-effect, but it is not the purpose of the activity.
 
As many as show up to serve, in practice. Typically we have six-eight kids serving at any given Mass at our parish, with a pretty much even mix of boys and girls. Nobody is ever turned away.

I have never seen a boy turned away in favour of a girl - ever.
You might not have however you can’t speak for the thousands of other Parishes can you? The fact is you can and do have Altar boys sitting in the congregation serving while girls/other boys are serving. There are numerous cases where I’ve heard of boys being turned away because there were enough servers etc. Just look at the comment from servers’s mom here . That’s from one blog with a circulation that isn’t huge and its a boy being turned away from one of the most important Liturgies in the Church Calendar.

I hope that you now accept that contrary to your earlier statement that “Nobody is denying anything to the boys; they lose nothing by having girls there” and “Girls don’t take boys’ places”, some people are in fact denying Altar boys the chance to serve as regularly as they might and that in some cases at least they do take the place of devout Altar boys.

I also hope that you now accept that many, indeed by available evidence, most Priests have been Altar boys.
 
I hope that you now accept that contrary to your earlier statement that “Nobody is denying anything to the boys; they lose nothing by having girls there” and “Girls don’t take boys’ places”, some people are in fact denying Altar boys the chance to serve as regularly as they might and that in some cases at least they do take the place of devout Altar boys.
I have seen cases where kids were turned down for service because they haven’t completed their training, or needed review, or misbehaved on the Altar - one kid at our parish was seen to turn the corporal upside down, and he hasn’t been asked back, of course. He hasn’t been “replaced by a girl,” though - he just will not serve on the Altar any more, because he doesn’t follow instructions correctly.
I also hope that you now accept that many, indeed by available evidence, most Priests have been Altar boys.
Maybe so; I still haven’t met any.
 
I have seen cases where kids were turned down for service because they haven’t completed their training, or needed review, or misbehaved on the Altar - one kid at our parish was seen to turn the corporal upside down, and he hasn’t been asked back, of course. He hasn’t been “replaced by a girl,” though - he just will not serve on the Altar any more, because he doesn’t follow instructions correctly.

Maybe so; I still haven’t met any.
Did you actually read the comment? The kid was turned down because they already had ‘enough’ servers, all of whom were Altar girls. I would suggest that even one case of a faithful boy, who may one day be a Priest, if he has that calling and receives the proper encouragement, is one too many. The fact remains that your initial contention that “Nobody is denying anything to the boys” while it may be true in your case in your Parish is in fact wrong.

There are still 10% who weren’t Altar boys. But I have to say I’m inclined to place more value on an academic study than on one person’s anecdotal evidence, perhaps you take the other view?
 
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