Yian:
Let me apologize on behalf of the entire forum. I do think everyone who contributed on this thread was (and remains) quite sympathetic to your situation, but our discussion and rendering of charitable advice may have gone a little sideways on occasion ā¦
We do pray that you find the path which allows you and your new family to walk alongside the Lord again in the near future. That is what is most important!
BTW - I am an Eastern Rite Catholic - Ruthenian as opposed to Melkite, but I know that tradition well and do believe it may provide a comfortable setting for worship for you, if you so choose. By odd coincidence, I recently spent a few years in Detroit (I recall seeing you were from the area), and had occasion to get to know the current Melkite bishop, Bishop Nicholas Samra, quite well as he was a frequent guest of our parish. He was living in Warren, MI at the time. He is a dear and holy man, and I was very pleased for all my brethren Melkites to see him appointed as their new Shepherd this past summer.
Please donāt misunderstand - Iām not necessarily advocating that as your only path, but since you seemed to indicate a leaning toward the Melkite tradition in one of your more recent posts, I thought I would share this information with you. I also have a very deep respect for the Greek Orthodox Church, with many close friends among its faithful. There is a large parish community in my area, and I try to participate in services at their church as often as I can. After all, to paraphrase Mr. Portokalos from My Big Fat Greek Wedding, āI show you that every [Byzantine Divine Liturgy] comes from Greekā.
May the Lord bless you and your family! The Lord always provides, and Iām sure that he will guide you in your quest to reconcile this most unfortunate situation!
BCC